The following report highlights the findings of a motivational survey done on a small group of close friends of mine. I have confined the survey to my friends as it would provide me with some genuinity. The report is as follows:
3 from the 10 respondents have said that they are motivated by their own parents and they always try to achieve what their parents could do in their professional as well as personal workspace. They are very proud of their parents’ way of managing all the problems in life, both professional and personal. A supportive balance in their life is what motivates them to do their best and achieve happiness .
2 from the other 7 respondents have admitted that they get inspired from watching movies and reading books or novels. The “be always positive” sensation in many good movies such as “Lakshya” and “Sarfarosh” make them much wanted to the youth and warms their blood. Moreover these movies raise the level of patriotism and society in the viewers. The respondents mentioned above are always seen very much active and always against the odds.
2 other from the left 5 respondents say that they get motivated from the real-life happenings seen by them. They get inspired by the great personalities such as APJ Abdul Kalam and Swami Vivekanand. The respondents saying so are seen very hardworking and sincere. A large extent of self-discipline is seen in them and they are always balanced in their actions. They always feel that they have come in this world to fulfil some great task.
The remaining three respondents said that there is not any such motivating factors in their life. The respondents saying so are seen very unbalanced and unpredictable in their behaviour. Their curricular record is also not so good and most of the time they are seen roaming unnecessarily. They seem to have no goal in their lives.
The findings indicate that a large number of youth today is aimless and so unhappy with their achievements. The motivating factors can bring a lot of change in their lives.
The following report presents the findings of the brief scrutiny of Television watching by various viewers
Most children of age around 2-7 years are habituated to watch Cartoon Serials such as Chhota Bheem , Ben Ten and Tom and Jerry. Though most of these serials are not showing violence, many of them are just to show excessive aggression and power. The condition is that parents too either encourage the children watch such cartoon serials thinking that they might make them strong and daring. But consequences are just opposite.
Most teenagers of the age group 8-14 have been seen to be more interested in cinemas and are much fascinated by watching smart and attractive movie stars. Their age is of approaching puberty and they get more or less emotionally as well as physically imbalanced and through the movies they try to give some drain to their emotions. Very less number of teenagers of this age group have been found interested in Sciences or good career-making, exactly opposite to what it used to be.
The grown-ups of age group 15-22 years show a wide variety of interests. But the general trend continues as that of the teenagers of 3rd group. Here too, movie stars and fashion are much more approaching to the young minds. But, somewhat larger seriousness is seen towards career. That’s why many individuals of this age group have been seen to be watching news and sports events. The current movements in the Indian political arena has also attracted the youth towards watching news. But, overall violence and vulgarity exposure is more to this age group.
Adult males of the age group 23-40 have been found to be very inactive in watching television. Instead they rely more on newspapers. Due to the long working hours, they are unable to have spare time for entertainment in this way. But they are more interested in watching movies that are more humorous or full of action. Coming to the female members of this age group, they are interested only in family drama serials. Most of them are homemakers and so they have enough time to watch television. Actually, the most of the usage of television has been observed to be made by these female members. Though the violence shown in such serials is lesser, the current trends have tilted towards some vulgarity.
The individuals of higher age group have been seen to be less involved in television watching. The little activity that has been seen is in the family dramas and serials themselves.
Overall, the content related to violence and vulgarity is much in demand. Almost all the movies being made are trying to imitate the western trend and that’s the reason for fall in the quality content on television. The trend has changed a lot in the last 5 years time period. The demand for informative channels such as Discovery channel and News channels have somewhat declined. The encapsulation being done by the viewers is causing all this and is becoming fatal to the society itself. So, the television trends are going negative as per my vision.
India is a country of vast cultures and traditions which have been passed to us through our ancestors and we are passing them to the next generation as well. What are the rituals performed for a new born baby? Giving him first gold ornament, giving him first colour dress, teaching him first written words, giving him first rice grain or his first birthday - everything is associated with family members, relatives and of course celebrations and rituals. In this article I am giving you a brief description of Chorunnu- a Hindu ceremony performed in Kerala for a six month child. It's known as Annaprashan in Bengal. 'Chor' means rice in Malayalam and 'unu' means meals. Hence the name Chorunnu.
What's the significance of Chorunnu?
Actually, it's a change of phase from liquid food to solid food. That means, a baby is grown to adopt the life style of an adult. As kids are most important and parents notice even the minute change of the baby from cooing to walking, it's sure, they will celebrate this occassion, inviting
everyone near.
How is it conducted?
It's believed that kids are incarnation of God and since they have a special 'Chaithanya', new born babies are never taken to temples in Kerala. After six months, when they are adopting human changes they are given normal food, which marks the beginning of a new phase of their life. So, kids are taken to temples only after completing six months and that also, for Chorunnu function. Close relatives will also be present. Earlier, when traditional joint families existed, kid's uncle gave the first grain to the kid. It was conducted in family also. Now everyone prefers a temple nearby.
Guruvayur Sri Krishna temple is very famous for this function. It's conducted in mornings only.
After pooja, kid is taken to the front of the deity. Kid wears a cream colour Kerala dhoti, same is his father. At first, father of the baby sits down placing him/her in his lap. A vegetarian meal, after pooja will be served by the main priest of the temple in a traditional plantain leaf. It contain different curries along with salt, red chillies and rice. Father serves him rice by adding both salt and chillies and obviously, the kid will cry. It's believed that the kid should cry, marking the beginning of a human life full of struggles and experiences. Also, seeing the big crowd he may fear a little more. It takes a lot of time for the parents to comfort him.
Thulabharam of fruits or ghee or anything of your wish
As soon as a baby is given his first rice food, thulabharam is conducted. It's just an offering to the temple. Flowers, banana, ghee, sugar, rice, fruits or anything of devotee's wish can be given as thulabharam. Thulabharam is an offering to temples for the fulfillment of one's wishes and it can be done for both children and adults. Amount equal to the weight of the person is given as offerings. Obviously, adults require large amount equivalent to his mass comparing kids. Kid is seated or placed on one pan of the weighing balance and offerings in the other pan. Add the offerings till the weight equals. The offerings are normally used by temples or later auctioned.
After Chorunnu he is taken home
Now rituals are over and family will return back. Kids will be given normal rice food after that along with salt and chilli added side dishes. At first, lower quantity of solid food is given and gradually, it's increased. Yes, slowly he is adopting himself to the life style of normal man.
Story behind my profile picture
It's none other than my daughter and that photo was taken during her Chorunnu ceremony when she just completed six months old. Every member here likes that picture a lot and that's the reason why I decided to write it as an article. As I promised, we conducted Chorunnu ceremony of my daughter in the near by Siva temple. We took her early morning along with a few relatives and she was visiting a temple for the first time. Her grand parents were also present. Just before the ceremony, her dress was changed and she wore a small Kerala dhoti with silk border. Since morning pooja had just ended, there was a small crowd. They also gathered around to see the ceremony. First her father sat on the floor, before Lord Siva, carrying her in his lap. Main priest of the temple is called poojari, potti or swamy in Malayalam. Potti served her rice in a banana leaf along with salt and chillies. He gave her a ' chandan teeka' on her forehead and asked her father to give her food. As instructed, my husband gave her a ball of rice, adding salt and chillies. As soon as she had it, she began to cry. The ceremony ended. Then, it was our job to comfort her.
Next ritual was 'thulabharam' and it was my father's wish to do her thulabharam with an expensive and rare type banana. She has not begun to sit that time, as she was just 6 months old. So, my husband hold her in one pan by giving her a small support. Though one bunch of banana was sufficient enough to equalize her weight, my father asked to put the other one too, as it was his wish to give them both to the temple. Now also, she cried. Also, seeing the crowd she was frightened a little. After the ceremony was completed we returned home and had a small vegetarian meal.
Aryans- An important part of Indian History! They came to India and changed the direction of Indian History. Before the arrival of Aryans, Dravidians resided in India. It's believed that Dravidians were the original natives of India spreading all over the country and Aryans defeated Dravidians and pushed them towards mountains and southern regions of the country, thus dominating everywhere. Aryans called Dravidians, 'Dasru' which means 'slaves' in their language. Now also there is no clear evidence, from where Aryans have come from and it is still a topic of hot argument. Some historians believe that they may have come from regions belonging to Hungary, Australia, Bohemia, Germany, France or around that region. They are claiming so, pointing out factors that those regions were abundant in milk, wheat and meat. Some Historians believe that they came to India through northern mountains somewhere from Iran or South Russia around 1500 BC. Balagangadhar Tilak had once told that they belong to Northern polar regions. More preferences are given to the claims of Middle Asia as their original place. It was famous German scientist Marx Muller who put forward this claim first. Surprisingly, one more claim known as 'Aryan Invasion is a Myth' is also gaining popularity nowadays, which states that there was no Aryan invasion, this is quite contradictory to all the above views. Yet, it's believed that Aryan culture gradually flourished in India between 2000 BC and 600 BC.
Chaturvarnam - the origin of caste system in India
It's believed that, it were Aryans who first divided people into different classes according to their work profile. Earlier, Aryans didn't have a proper style of living. They were just nomads who wandered around, feeding their cattle and eating fruits from trees around. When they reached India, they had to face Dravidians who were doing agriculture and living at permanent residences. Very soon, they mingled with agricultural culture of India. They considered farming as a creativity means and they began to worship God and natural forces before dispersing seeds or reaping. At that time, poojas, yaga, vrita etc were common among Aryans to please God. To protect people from both natural calamities and animals, needs arose for permanent poojas which resulted in the origin of Brahmins. They were assigned to do poojas and were given high honour in the society. Thus they formed the top group. Their economy was completely based on agriculture and cattle. So, to protect both and to remain vigilant against enemies, Kshatriyas were formed. They were the warriors who fought for the people. They had good physical qualities and a healthy body comparing to all other groups. For farming and selling of goods, Vaishyas were created. Then, a need arose for slaves for serving the above three classes. Thus Shoodras formed the lowest class and their duty was to serve all the above classes. Classification of people according to their job is known as Chaturvanam. Chatur means four and varnam means caste/colour.
Women enjoyed high positions
During Rig veda days, women decorated high positions in families and society. For religious rituals, ladies participated along with men. They were given good education and were given freedom to select their life partner. There are clear evidences in Vedas and Upanishads about educated women pandits. Ladies - Maitroyi, Gargi and Lopamudra were treated as intelligent women who gave final decisions in disputes as well.
Their life style
India is also known as Aryavartham. But, it was never under a single King or Emperor at any time in the ancient periods. Instead they formed different gotras and tribes. In Rig Veda, it's told about Aryans who both, fought each other and stood united against a common enemy. Each gotra had a King
and their own political rules and regulations. Family formed the first layer. Several families combined together to form a village and villages combined to form a 'Visam'. Later, different visams combine together to form 'Jan' and many 'Jans' together form a country. If a dispute occurs in a village, it's solved by village representatives itself. i.e. Each structure was headed by a group of representatives selected from the corresponding group. If a king is to take a decision, he used to discuss with 'Jan' representatives. Main duties of a king include collection of tax, solving disputes and protect his countrymen from enemies. Both priests and gurus had an important position in the ruling of the country. Kings used to seek their opinion before taking decisions. It's clearly evident in Vedas that kingdoms of ancient time did have Raj Gurus.
Vedas and Upanishads
The culture and life style of Aryans are known through Vedas, Upanishads, Brahmanas and Sookthas. Aryan literature is classified into these four groups. The four vedas - Rig, Yajur, Sama and Atharva are considered as world's oldest literal works. The primitive cultural life of Aryas are known
through the vedas. It's believed that the centre of primitive Aryan culture belongs to the banks of Yamuna and Satlej rivers. It deeply stresses the existence of Aryas in the banks of the five rivers of Punjab.
The people were interested in farming
The main occupations of Aryans were agriculture and cattle farming. Wheat was cultivated the most. They kept cow, ox, goat, horse and dogs. They dig wells and ponds for irrigation purposes and used horses and oxes for ploughing land for cultivation. They were brilliant in embroidery, vasthu, sculptures and sewing. Since cows were seen as the symbol of wealth, stealing them was a common offense at that time which even resulted in many clashes. Giving fire to hay storage was a common method to fight against such opponents. They used clothes made of wool and cotton and their hobbies were dance, chess, chariot riding and horse races. Aryans were music admirers and used veena and flute at that time.
Religions and beliefs
Aryans, who were frightened seeing nature's wonders like sun rise, rain, flood etc began to worship them as God. They worshipped sun, earth, thunder, lightning, sky, fire etc in a symbolic way treating them as Gods. Indra, Rudra, Vayu, Varuna, Ushus, Aswini Devas are some among them. Their religion strictly followed rituals and customs. Chanting mantras, religious rituals, yagas, yajnjas, homas are some of them and they form an invisible bond with Aryan culture. To please devas, they did yajnjas and yagas which are clearly told in Vedas. After Rig Veda, a dramatical change was seen in their rituals and customs. Their rituals became more complex than before adding many new things. Animal sacrifices became common everywhere. Sanyasa began to attain more importance, where people abandon everything to live a life away from their family and desires. People's living style changed and again it was divided into four stages - Brahmacharyam(Unmarried life), Garhasthvam(family life), Vanaprastham(forest life) and Sanyasam(leaving everything). At that time, people began to follow all these four stages. In addition to nature gods, Rama, Krishna, Vishnu, Siva etc were begun to be worshipped as deities.
Ramayana and Mahabharatha
Both these epics were written in the last stages of Vedic period. The changes in Aryans' vision, customs, culture and life style are well visible in these two epics. Kauravas and Pandavas of Mahabharata represents different dynasties of Aryas itself. It's believed that during Kurukshetra battle, all kings of ancient Bharat also participated in one of the two groups. About Ramayana, Rama is the representative of Aryas while Ravana represents Dravidian culture. It can also be claimed that the win of Aryas over Dravidians is symbolically represented in Ramayana. Whole through the epic, it's clearly told Ravana resides in southern region, Srilanka. In Hindu mythology, many stories are told about battles between Aryans and devils. Aryans are white skinned while Dravidians, a little brownish or dark. So, it's also said that battles fought in Hindu mythological stories were the wars between Aryans and Dravidians, whom Aryans coined as slaves, devils, monsters etc.
Though it's believed that Aryan invasion is around 1500 BC, according to astronomical researches, many incidents of Mahabharata occurred before 7000 years. It's true, we are just following the culture and customs started by Aryans 3500 years back. Though, many changes have occurred and many rituals have come to an end, we are still its followers. No doubt!
If someone asks a Keralite, which is the most significant month according to your Malayalam calendar, without hesitation he would reply, "It's Karkidakam". Karkidakam is the last month of Malayalam calendar and it falls on July 16th every year according to Gregorian calender. A non-Keralite may think, "Why this month is so significant even if it marks the end of the year and next month is the prosperous Chingam". Its answer is related to monsoon, climate variations and its associated diseases. During June-July months, monsoon is in full swing in Kerala. So, great chances of getting diseases. Also, since the next month is the new year, people want to leave behind every bad thing to welcome Chingam with a happy soul and healthy mind. Since it's told, a happy soul dwells in a healthy body, people are taking this month to treat them both using traditional methods. Karkidakam can be called as the month of rejuvenation of mind and body particularly Ayurvedic treatments like massaging known as uzhichil, medicines and Karkidaka Kanji- a medicinal food served this month. Malayalam calender is also known as 'Kollavarsham' started around 825AD and it gives somewhat equal importance to both Karkidakam and Chingam. Truth is that a month preparation is done so that Onam can be welcomed with all its greatness and importance. Though it's not followed nowadays, women used to wear 'Dasapushpam' on their hair. It's spiritual as well as physical healing properties. Dasapushpam means 10 flowers and they are Karuva, Poovan Kurunnu, Thiruthali, Krishnakanthi, Nilapana, Cherula, Kayyunni, Uzhinja, Mukkutti and Muyal Cheviyan. No functions are performed this month Whether it's marriage, house warming ceremony, shifting or even marriage fixing, good ceremonies are not conducted this month as it's not considered as a bad month for every good deal. Land registration and vehicle purchases are also very rare. So, as total, business deals are only a few. Everything will be postponed to next month Chingam which starts on August 17. Let me explain some other specialties of this month one by one. Most are somewhat related to Hindu religion and spirituality.
Ramayana reading in every Hindu home
Karkidaka month is also known as Ramayana month. Let me tell you the reason why it's called so. Through forum discussion, something surprised me most. I think, whole over India, this month is given great significance only in Kerala. This month is famous for dark clouds and heavy rains, and it's believed that people read Ramayana to build self confidence when the most difficult days are passing by.Ramayana written by Thunchaththu Ramanujan Ezhuthachan in Malayalam known as Athyadhma Ramayanan is read in every Hindu home in the evenings. It's also recited in all temples of Kerala, both mornings and evenings for one month every day. Thunchaththu Ramanujan Ezhuthachan, simply known as Ezhuthachan is considered as the father of Malayalam language and literature. Both the great epics were translated to Malayalam for the first time by Ezhuthachan. Due to superstitious beliefs, both were not directly translated. Instead they were written as 'Kilippaattu' (song of a bird),giving rise to a new branch of literature. Since Karkidakam is considered as the dark month, people give much importance to reading Ramayana, in front of deepam (light) filling mind with devotional thoughts. Since it's not possible to read the whole book a month, the fifth kantam - Sundara Kandam is most preferred for reading. Since Sundarakantham is giving more preference to Hanuman than Rama, Hanuman has become an important part of this Ramayana month. Also, reading Ramayana is a great and simple way to attain Moksha, according to Hindu mythology. Usually, youth belonging to different Hindu samajams form a group and they go to each and every Hindu home of their region to recite Ramayana. That shows its importance even among members of young generation. Ramayana reading in every temple of Kerala is a spectacular scene to watch.
Karkidaka Kanji(Marinnu Kanji)
It's a medicinal rice food served this month to resist all diseases as it's a bad climate everywhere. It can be served by anyone, but only this month and should be served everyday. It's prepared using Navarra rice, jaggery, shallots, milk, coconut milk, broken wheat, cumin seeds and salt. A few varieties of herbs like Ayamodakam, Kurunthotti, Uzhinjal etc and a few spices like pepper, cardamom, cloves etc are also added. Though it tastes bitter, many people prefer to have this dish during this season. Now readymade sachets are also available everywhere. Leafy vegetables like moringa leaves and spinach are not used this month, as it's believed they contain some poisonous substance in their leaves during this month due to the change of seasons and it's proved scientifically also.
Karkidaka Vavu - the homage to ancestors
It's a special offering given to ancestors of the family. They are known as 'pitrukkal' and it's the homage and remembrance paid to died members of the family once in an year. It's believed that in amavasi day of Karkidakam month, they get full strength and in order to please them, members of the family give them 'bali' and it's known as balitharpanam. Amavasi means no moon. It's also believed that those departed souls attain moksha through these rituals. This ritualistic homage is normally paid by the elder males of the family, but often done by women and kids also. Normally, it's done in temples. Rice, flowers etc are offered in a banana leaf and after the pooja it's taken to the nearby sea or river. Thirunavaya, Aluva Siva temple, Thiruvallam Parasurama temple, Varkala Papanasam, Shankhumukham etc are most famous for this annual homage. After that, a grand feast is prepared at home remembering them. In many towns, this annual day is celebrated conducting fairs and exhibitions.
A month of reduction sales
It's most popular in Tamil Nadu known as 'Aadi kizhiv' means Aadi month discount. Karkidakam is known as Aadi in Tamil language. All old items of shops will be sold off in discount so that, they can accumulate fresh items for the next month. It's most commonly adopted in some textile showrooms where complete cloth materials will be sold off, even more than 50% discount. So, many people do prefer to do their Onam shopping this month itself. It can save both, money and a lot of time. Onam season is always busy. So, early purchases can save a lot of time too.
Visiting the four brothers of Ramayana - Naalambala Darshanam
It's one of the widely followed practices nowadays, gaining more popularity. In addition to reading Ramayana everyday, if one person is able to visit the temples in a day, in the order Rama, Bharatha, Lekshmana and Shatrughnana, it's considered as good. Also, it's believed that his wishes will come true. After visiting Shatrighnana, he has to return to Rama to tell him, to complete a full circle, which many people don't follow nowadays. Pilgrims should start in the early morning and should complete it before noon, without any break. Naalambalams of Thrissur district are Srirama temple Thriprayar, Koodalmanikyam Bharatha temple of Triprayar, Moozhikkulam Lakshmana Temple and Payammal Shatrughan temple. It's believed that Lord Krishna worshipped these four brothers and at the end of Dwaparaka yuga, when Krishna completed his ninth incarnation on earth, Dwaraka was buried under the sea. The four idols floated in sea water reached Chethuvara coastal region of Kerala. Vakkayil Kaimal who was the minister of Ayirur Kovalakam of Ponnani had a strange dream and he instructed fishermen to get those four idols from the Chethuvara sea. According to the instructions he got through the dream, he installed the four idols in four temples of Thrissur district, which later became big pilgrim places to visit in the month of Karkidakam. The shortest distant Naalambalams are located in Kottayam district within just one or two kilometer radius and surprisingly, all temples are in one place,Ramapuram. The temples are Ramapuram Shri Ramaswamy temple,Koodappulam Shri Lekshmanaswamy temple, Amanakkara Shri Bharathaswamy temple and Methiri Shri Shatrughnanswamy temple. Nowadays, such tours named as 'Nalambala Yatra' are organized by different temples itself.
Sukhachikitsa for elephants
Elephants form an important part of Kerala's traditional culture. No one can even imagine a Kerala festival without elephants. Not only men, rejuvenation treatments are given to elephants also. They will be given special massaging, food and Ayurveda medicines. It's commonly conducted in temples, as elephants form a indispensable part of temple festivals known as 'Pooram'. Special bathing and massaging is done to perfectly tone their body for the next one year. Also, this one month is total rest for elephants. In Guruvayoor Srikrishna temple, more than 60 elephants are given special diets, herbal tonics and they are treated in a royal way. Guruvayur Kesavan is considered as the most magnificent elephant of Kerala till now. Special 'Gajapooja' (elephant pooja) is conducted as a homage to him before 'Aanayoott' - the feeding of elephants is started. It is a great event of curiosity among the viewers to see special treatments of elephants and tourists are also attracted.
Prosperous illamnira and puthiri
It's the month of auspicious illam nira where farmers give reaped paddy to temples for Lekshmi pooja. Since Onam is known as harvest festival, illam nira marks its beginning. Paddy sheaves are brought in bundle to temples by farmers, carrying on their head. They took pradikshanams of the temple. Pradikshanam means they completely revolve the temple. Later, it's taken inside temple and Melshanti (the main priest) after pooja, dedicate it to Lord. Then it's distributed among the farmers and people who visit the temple the particular day. Devotees get one paddy each and it's believed that, if they keep it safe in their homes, it brings wealth, happiness and prosperity to the family. Each year, they collect and tie it in the ceilings of their homes. Gradually, it turns a bundle as years pass by. Puthiri means new rice harvested from the fields and hence the name. Also, rice is stored for the next one year in granaries known as 'Pathaayam'. Illam means Brahmin's home. Earlier, only high caste people own lands and paddy fields and hence the name.
It's time for annual cleaning
Whole Hindu houses will be cleaned and waste things thrown out just before the commence of Onam. It's believed that Goddess Lekshmi won't enter home in the prosperous new year if it's not kept neat. It's true or false, but people are cleaning homes and surroundings when Karkidakam reaches its last phase.
Hoping you got a lovely experience to know some traditional customs followed during the last month of Kollavarsham. It's really nice to rest and have treatment, controlling all diets to get energy for the next year to work continuously. Also, bhakthi paths give peace to mind and strengthens our heart. So, let me also recite the famous Rama shloka before completing this article.
"Sree rama rama, sree ramachandra jaya
Sree rama rama, sree ramabhadra jaya
Sree rama rama rama Lokabhirama jaya
Sree rama rama rama Ravananthaka jaya
Sree rama rama Hridi ramatham rama rama"
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