This diwali before spending any single penny lets make a list of
priority...


List which has max importance should be at the top,
the reason behind maknig this list is that recession is going, ofcourse
recession is only seen when you have to give money to others for our
ownself ther is no recession, okay! but on a serious note every person has
a limited budget to spend on occasion hence the list that noe prepares must
be with all the care that he/she actually needs them or its just for fun or
because others are buying i want to buy ???

make your priority list
and who knows the priority of khakhra might be sufficed, please write your
name and phone number so that if you're  a inner can be called and
informed

:)

As human beings we are never ever satisfied in our life.   If we have hundreds of rupees, we aspire for thousands, then to lakhs and then to crores.  Even after getting crores of rupees one thing is for sure we will never ever be happy or satisfied.

While it is always important to try our best to make improvements in all sphere of activities in our life, a person should be reasonably content and satisfied if he has 4 things which he or she requires the most

Owning a House:- These days especially in cities, it is very difficult to pay rent or lease for a house.  The hike in rates for rent for alarming.  While the salaries do increase periodically, rents increase more faster and in higher proportion.  Therefore it becomes very important to own a house,  however small or inconvenient it may be.

Clothing:- It is important to be well clothed and have sufficient number of clothes.  It is not necessary to have expensive clothes or a huge collection, but a reasonable collection of them (not torn or damaged) is a must.

Food:- One should have enough money to buy healthy food.  No compromise should be made in this regard

Medicines:- With deterioration in environmental conditions, sickness has become a part and parcel of daily life and threfore medicines too though nobody likes it is a part of our lives.

If we can afford to have a house, clothing, food & medicines in today's world we can feel reasonably satisfied with ourselves.  Anything over this we can try without pushing ourselves too hard.

Regards

Satish

Ufff! Fed up of seeing people standing at our gates and asking
"Deepavali kaasu kudunga"! I see that as another form of begging!!!!

These people get salary for what they do! Also get bonus at times like
diwali and pongal! Then why should we give them those 5s and 10s!!!

These problems exist not only at the residences but also commercial
establishments, shops and many such! Not only blue collared people,also the
higher level officials ask for money!

Sometimes things like these make you feel " Edhuku than indha pandigai
varudho??""

Key to happiness may not be only one factor such as money or wealth, it's composed of many other factors that affect our day-to-day life.Researchers have narrowed down certain factors that make a difference in our lives and are the key to happiness.We will be discussing those in this article.And the good news is that these factors are within your reach!.

in the modern day,wealth or money is very essential."Money buys status and status makes people feel better" says an economist from UK.But money is not the answer for all the questions.money just makes your life better, accelerates your chances of attaining happiness.Once you could fulfill your basic needs like food clothing and shelter, then money is just one of the factor that lead to happiness.But until one can satisfy his own basic needs then money plays a significant role in giving happiness.

The desire to achieve,setting goals and accomplishing them are a way to get you happy.Since when you succeed then you are confident about yourself.you get high on self-confidence.When the desire is more than money- for friends, goals, achievements, health,etc., the chance of achieving happiness is much better.But having out of bound desires cause more trauma and difficulty in attaining happiness.Surveys show that people always desire for more and end up ruining their lives for trying to pursue that they can't have.So be careful of what you desire and the reason for your desire.

Intelligence is the next factor that may affect our happiness.People tend to think that intelligent people always succeed in their lives and are more prone to be happy.But that is not entirely true.Research shows that not all the intelligent people are successful.Just because you have an high IQ, it doesn't mean that you can have good social relations and you can have no trouble in your life.Intelligence helps in getting your happiness but it doesn't help alone as a factor.You also need social intelligence to get along with the people around you,obviously without the people around you you can't get your happiness.

Friendship plays a major role in your happiness.Without the need to explain why, we can understand that with the help from our friends,timely advice, companionship, a person to spend time enjoying in parties etc,.People who may have low income and a deprived state of living may still be happy since they may live in a community that is filled with open minded persons who are ready to help each other.Social relationships are partly responsible for the increase in one's happiness.When there is support from people around you, you tend to work a lot efficient and you tend to live your life in a confident and happier way.

Do married people get happy or do the people who are happy tend to get married? well both the cases may seem true.Studies show that marriage in one's life brings about huge difference in pursuing happiness.The responsibilities that lay upon after marriage makes one work towards happiness or gets one even more down trodden,but everything lies in the way we think.Marriage may have a positive effect for 2 to 3 years or so but good marriages have a positive effect throughout one's life.There seems to be a secret to this factor,just living together with someone throughout your life doesn't bring you happiness it's just more than that.

Faith can be a decisive factor for attaining happiness.faith comes in different forms-faith in yourself(self-confidence), faith in other( confidence), or just religious faith.People who believe in themselves, their ability and who support the people around them are good at times of stress and are prone to live longer without worries or avoiding worries.They can take care of themselves and hence prone to be more happy.

Giving or sharing(more aptly charity) is a link for happiness.Many people feel content when they know they've helped someone.it may be materialistic support or intellectual support.A single act of charity may not bring happiness but the cumulative effects of your actions will bring about happiness in your life.Sometimes the action of charity brings you happiness since you see that your help has made someone happy,it's just as simple as that.

The final factor that is key to your happiness is age.with age,People tend to handle difficult situations better, with growing experiences they are less prone to troubles if acted upon correctly.With age, people may expect life to be harder and tend to find a way to adjust themselves.They tend to set goals that they perceive to be achievable.Also with growing age, people tend to concentrate on things that make them happier and let go of those that makes them less happier.

So the pursuit of happiness may not be that mush difficult,its just that we must learn to make the right decisions at right times and stay positive at all times!