Most of the members in this topic discussing about parents pressure.But look at the children,if suppose we won't give pressure means,many children could not get marks.So,pressure is needed to some extent.

Encouragement and pressure both are necessary. But the pressure should be reasonable and a child's potential and inherent ability should also not be ignored. You can't expect magical performance from a child. Treating a child like a race horse will be counter productive.

Most of the members in this topic discussing about parents pressure.But look at the children,if suppose we won't give pressure means,many children could not get marks.So,pressure is needed to some extent.

Most of the members in this topic discussing about parents pressure.But look at the children,if suppose we won't give pressure means,many children could not get marks.So,pressure is needed to some extent.

It depends on how you put this pressure on them - make them understand their responsibilities in life or simply burden them with ylour own ambitions and aspirations for them. A positive appraoach does help but any negative impact can make a child rebellious and no amount of force will produce any productive outcome...

Most of the members in this topic discussing about parents pressure.But look at the children,if suppose we won't give pressure means,many children could not get marks.So,pressure is needed to some extent.

It depends on how you put this pressure on them - make them understand their responsibilities in life or simply burden them with ylour own ambitions and aspirations for them. A positive appraoach does help but any negative impact can make a child rebellious and no amount of force will produce any productive outcome...

I noted some parents using ‘Family prestige’ as tool to pressurize the children. A typical dialogue is, ‘ look, ours is a family of highly placed people. Don’t bring disgrace to the family by ending in a clerical post.’

Let the child excel in his/her area of interest. Studies alone wont provide career for all of them.

Most of the members in this topic discussing about parents pressure.But look at the children,if suppose we won't give pressure means,many children could not get marks.So,pressure is needed to some extent.

Encouragement and pressure both are necessary. But the pressure should be reasonable and a child's potential and inherent ability should also not be ignored. You can't expect magical performance from a child. Treating a child like a race horse will be counter productive.

I agree. Pressure should be there. But to what extent ? A healthy balance can always be struck between pampering and extreme penalizing.

Most of the members in this topic discussing about parents pressure.But look at the children,if suppose we won't give pressure means,many children could not get marks.So,pressure is needed to some extent.

Encouragement and pressure both are necessary. But the pressure should be reasonable and a child's potential and inherent ability should also not be ignored. You can't expect magical performance from a child. Treating a child like a race horse will be counter productive.

I agree. Pressure should be there. But to what extent ? A healthy balance can always be struck between pampering and extreme penalizing.

Sorry for late reply sir.The pressure should be kept on the children until they realize and attain their ambition. This pressure will safeguard the children from other distractions.The pressure should not be only on studies.The parents should identify the interest of the child where the pressure should be kept.