New Year horror at Bengaluru - netas blame women

I will digress despite offending many. In all my global travels the one thing, I have seen is the attraction of men to women.  It's normal. Remember when Taimur invaded Delhi the first thing he did was to take 200 of the most beautiful Hindu girls for his harem. Unfortunately, there was no police that time. The best course is that women learn martial arts and defend themselves even if required with a pistol, So many of my foreign friends carry pistols, they don't wait for police.

Divya wrote:

Its high time and more than the boys I feel we should bring up our girls to start reacting to such things without fear of repercussions from the society. I just dont care if my they are becoming violent, but i want them to react. We have to start to standing up how ever small the incident is. No one else will do it.

 

That is one of the ways but it is not a long term solution. Why not focus on boys too and teach them to respect women and girls as equals rather than someone who is weak and an object to be taken advantage of?

Kalyani Nandurkar wrote:

Divya wrote:

Its high time and more than the boys I feel we should bring up our girls to start reacting to such things without fear of repercussions from the society. I just dont care if my they are becoming violent, but i want them to react. We have to start to standing up how ever small the incident is. No one else will do it.

That is one of the ways but it is not a long term solution. Why not focus on boys too and teach them to respect women and girls as equals rather than someone who is weak and an object to be taken advantage of?

Definitely we need to focus of gender equality and better upbringing of our boys too. But till that time we cant allow our girls to suffer. Instead we need to better equip them to be more independent and self sustaining. That is the need of the hour. 

MG Singh wrote:

I will digress despite offending many. In all my global travels the one thing, I have seen is the attraction of men to women.  It's normal. Remember when Taimur invaded Delhi the first thing he did was to take 200 of the most beautiful Hindu girls for his harem. Unfortunately, there was no police that time. The best course is that women learn martial arts and defend themselves even if required with a pistol, So many of my foreign friends carry pistols, they don't wait for police.

I know you are being realistic and men have always tried to control women since age old times. Having said that there is scope for a society to change for the better and unless we have stricter laws and a changed mindset that stops looking at women at objects to conquer, this sort of shameful attacks and incidents would go on. What is the point in calling any society an advanced society if men are unable to overcome their basic instincts and attack at the first given opportunity?

These shameless netas by their insensitive statements actually support these wrongdoers. They say that women by dressing up in western style invite such incidents. So these rapists and molestators actually are moral police who are out on the streets to teach these women a lesson for going against the prudent culture. So they actually are on social service. Instead of shaming and punishing the act, they are glorifying them

Here is the latest news on  New year horror in Bengalure

http://www.thehindu.com/news/cities/bangalore/Bengaluru-molestation-case-four-arrested/article16991799.ece1

Arunima Singh wrote:

These shameless netas by their insensitive statements actually support these wrongdoers. They say that women by dressing up in western style invite such incidents. So these rapists and molestators actually are moral police who are out on the streets to teach these women a lesson for going against the prudent culture. So they actually are on social service. Instead of shaming and punishing the act, they are glorifying them

Some time back there was an incident in mangalore where a few students sitting in the pub were beaten up by a mob and the incident was filmed by some ..At that time the blame was put on Bahrain dal and BJP simply because BJP was in power ..How about now , when Congress is in power ? 

Another point I want to make here is not just the attitude of the society but also people in general. Apparently two sets parents ( girls' naturally) had approached these hooligans asking them to threaten the girls so that they stop going out with boys to pubs !!?

usha manohar wrote:

Arunima Singh wrote:

These shameless netas by their insensitive statements actually support these wrongdoers. They say that women by dressing up in western style invite such incidents. So these rapists and molestators actually are moral police who are out on the streets to teach these women a lesson for going against the prudent culture. So they actually are on social service. Instead of shaming and punishing the act, they are glorifying them

Some time back there was an incident in mangalore where a few students sitting in the pub were beaten up by a mob and the incident was filmed by some ..At that time the blame was put on Bahrain dal and BJP simply because BJP was in power ..How about now , when Congress is in power ? 

Another point I want to make here is not just the attitude of the society but also people in general. Apparently two sets parents ( girls' naturally) had approached these hooligans asking them to threaten the girls so that they stop going out with boys to pubs !!?

Worries of parents are right one but their deed or not right one. here is link read it what Akshya Kumar done when some one misbehave with girl.

http://postcard.news/watch-akshay-kumar-lashes-molesters-asks-girls-teach-molesters-lesson/

 

anil wrote:

usha manohar wrote:

Arunima Singh wrote:

These shameless netas by their insensitive statements actually support these wrongdoers. They say that women by dressing up in western style invite such incidents. So these rapists and molestators actually are moral police who are out on the streets to teach these women a lesson for going against the prudent culture. So they actually are on social service. Instead of shaming and punishing the act, they are glorifying them

Some time back there was an incident in mangalore where a few students sitting in the pub were beaten up by a mob and the incident was filmed by some ..At that time the blame was put on Bahrain dal and BJP simply because BJP was in power ..How about now , when Congress is in power ? 

Another point I want to make here is not just the attitude of the society but also people in general. Apparently two sets parents ( girls' naturally) had approached these hooligans asking them to threaten the girls so that they stop going out with boys to pubs !!?

Worries of parents are right one but their deed or not right one. here is link read it what Akshya Kumar done when some one misbehave with girl.

http://postcard.news/watch-akshay-kumar-lashes-molesters-asks-girls-teach-molesters-lesson/

I appreciate the views of Akshay on the unfortunate incident that happened on the streets of Bangalur. He has described the molesters,  as  Darinde' ( Bastards), who do not have the decency to understand how to behave with a woman

 

usha manohar wrote:

Arunima Singh wrote:

These shameless netas by their insensitive statements actually support these wrongdoers. They say that women by dressing up in western style invite such incidents. So these rapists and molestators actually are moral police who are out on the streets to teach these women a lesson for going against the prudent culture. So they actually are on social service. Instead of shaming and punishing the act, they are glorifying them

Some time back there was an incident in mangalore where a few students sitting in the pub were beaten up by a mob and the incident was filmed by some ..At that time the blame was put on Bahrain dal and BJP simply because BJP was in power ..How about now , when Congress is in power ? 

Another point I want to make here is not just the attitude of the society but also people in general. Apparently two sets parents ( girls' naturally) had approached these hooligans asking them to threaten the girls so that they stop going out with boys to pubs !!?

If the parents themselves have approach these hooligans, they should also be punished for the ordeal that the girls have gone through. Are they happy now that their daughters might not step out of house for a long time now after having gone through such a traumatic experience? There are better ways to make their children obey them

Here is a link of Malaika Arora's post of the bengaluru horror... and it is so to the point that i wanted it to share with you all.

http://www.filmibeat.com/bollywood/news/2017/bangalore-molestation-case-malaika-arora-statement-on-womens-safety-is-thought-provoking-251001.html

A good link. . Out of all the personalities you mentioned, who condemned in this regard,  Bangalore molestation case on the New Year night like Amir, Hrithk, Farhan Akhtar etc,  Akshay Kumar's version has been given by our member Anil, who  condemned the molesters  as 'Darinde' ( Bastards)

 Any how, your link article clearly gave a picture how the people condemned the atrocities committed in one voice on the unfortunate incident that happened in New year's night 2017.

The famous personalities, celebrities and common people have always criticized such incidents and even protested against them. But we need quick and efficient laws to put a fear in the minds of wrongdoers and curb these incidents.

As for the approach of parents, it is wrong and condemnable though it might have been with good intentions.

Do not get me wrong, but seeing the status of women in India and the patriarchal mindset, female womb killing is more justified and merciful.

Arunima Singh wrote:

The famous personalities, celebrities and common people have always criticized such incidents and even protested against them. But we need quick and efficient laws to put a fear in the minds of wrongdoers and curb these incidents.

As for the approach of parents, it is wrong and condemnable though it might have been with good intentions.

Do not get me wrong, but seeing the status of women in India and the patriarchal mindset, female womb killing is more justified and merciful.

Totally agree with you. It is because the laws in india are so lax that people have a mindset of getting away with anything and everything. But frankly i do not see any change any time soon. Till then the women of India either stand up for herself and learn self defense or thank God for each day that passes without outraging her modesty.

Arunima Singh wrote:

The famous personalities, celebrities and common people have always criticized such incidents and even protested against them. But we need quick and efficient laws to put a fear in the minds of wrongdoers and curb these incidents.

As for the approach of parents, it is wrong and condemnable though it might have been with good intentions.

Do not get me wrong, but seeing the status of women in India and the patriarchal mindset, female womb killing is more justified and merciful.

Totally agree with you. It is because the laws in india are so lax that people have a mindset of getting away with anything and everything. But frankly i do not see any change any time soon. Till then the women of India either stand up for herself and learn self defense or thank God for each day that passes without outraging her modesty.

Political netas fearlessly and shamelessly make statements because despite being half population of the nation, women have never been taken as serious vote bank.

Women have always attracted men as stated by one of the member here. But I fail to understand the attraction where you chop someone's ears ( Bhagpat case), bite a woman mercilessly ( a burka clad woman), insert rod into her body ( Nirbhaya case)...I felt attraction will make you do things soft and decent. These are beastly acts and you need to be mentally sick to do it or justify it

Most importantly women of India don't take themselves seriously , prefer being door mats calling their husbands patideva and get immersed in kitchen and basically pleasing the man of the house wi5hout having an identity of their own ..The whole problem lies there , since men treat them as objects to be used and tossed away. Even today young girls are made to believe that their ultimate goal in life is marriage and children..Unless the mindset changes and women become independent , men would treat women the same way .

Adding on, the various brainless politicians seem to be making their short dress statements without any proof just showing off their backwardness of mind, because not a single rape case had a lady or a girl dressed in short dress. In fact the latest molestation case from Bangalore involved a lady in a burqua . So, it is the man's cheap mindset and nothing else ..

Bengaluru shame continues.  Yet another case of woman atrocity has come into light

http://www.huffingtonpost.in/2017/01/06/bengaluru-shame-continues-as-another-woman-brutally-thrashed-and/?utm_hp_ref=in-homepage

If only our leaders think a little less about themselves and send some of the armed personnel provided for their protection to safe guard the women in their states and towns probably we can see some change. It is a shame that because of them there is always a shortage of police force to take care of the citizens of this country..

 The saddest part is,the woman was brutally thrashed in the presence of 1,500 police personnel, who were supposed to control the unruly New tear revelers. Another woman was molested in the eastern Kammanahalli area.