A tutor thrashes a 3-year-old boy caught in CCTV

Today I was shocked and horrified reading the newspaper headline where a lady private tutor has been caught in the CCTV beating,, punching and thrashing a 3-year-old boy at a residence in Kolkata. The newly appointed teacher has locked the door from inside and the boy's mother was banging on the doors and shouting after hearing her boy crying. However the boy is fine now. The parents have lodged a complaint against the teacher. More than that the teacher's husband has also threatened the parents asking them not to go to the police.

Such cases become common. The duty of parent is to hire private tutor that is responsible for teaching not for beating.

Again a similar incident close on the heels of a small blind boy being thrashed cruelly! :angry: :blink: One thing I did not understand is why does a 3-year-old need private tuition?

I have seen the video of the incident on T.V. It seems the motivation of the teacher was something different rather than teaching the student. Not understood that why she asked the child's family to leave her alone with the child in a separate room.

I have seen the video of the incident on T.V. It seems the motivation of the teacher was something different rather than teaching the student. Not understood that why she asked the child's family to leave her alone with the child in a separate room.

Whatever may be the motive, it's a monstrous action that made the humanity bow down its head with shame.

Today I was shocked and horrified reading the newspaper headline where a lady private tutor has been caught in the CCTV beating,, punching and thrashing a 3-year-old boy at a residence in Kolkata. The newly appointed teacher has locked the door from inside and the boy's mother was banging on the doors and shouting after hearing her boy crying. However the boy is fine now. The parents have lodged a complaint against the teacher. More than that the teacher's husband has also threatened the parents asking them not to go to the police.

Yes, i saw the video in a news channel last night..it was heart-breaking to see a 3.5yrs old to be treated and beaten like this....why on earth have people become so inhuman and merciless.

Again a similar incident close on the heels of a small blind boy being thrashed cruelly! :angry: :blink: One thing I did not understand is why does a 3-year-old need private tuition?

Exactly...even I was thinking the same thing...also..why CCTV camera....people don't or won't think of installing one unless they leave their kids with a babysitter all alone. this incident is similar to the one that happened a few months back in Pune..a babysitter beating a 1yr old bllack and blue, which was caught on CCTV camera.

Today I was shocked and horrified reading the newspaper headline where a lady private tutor has been caught in the CCTV beating,, punching and thrashing a 3-year-old boy at a residence in Kolkata. The newly appointed teacher has locked the door from inside and the boy's mother was banging on the doors and shouting after hearing her boy crying. However the boy is fine now. The parents have lodged a complaint against the teacher. More than that the teacher's husband has also threatened the parents asking them not to go to the police.

Yes, i saw the video in a news channel last night..it was heart-breaking to see a 3.5yrs old to be treated and beaten like this....why on earth have people become so inhuman and merciless.

It happens when beasts become teachers. The parents should have verified the teacher's background.

Today I was shocked and horrified reading the newspaper headline where a lady private tutor has been caught in the CCTV beating,, punching and thrashing a 3-year-old boy at a residence in Kolkata. The newly appointed teacher has locked the door from inside and the boy's mother was banging on the doors and shouting after hearing her boy crying. However the boy is fine now. The parents have lodged a complaint against the teacher. More than that the teacher's husband has also threatened the parents asking them not to go to the police.

Yes, i saw the video in a news channel last night..it was heart-breaking to see a 3.5yrs old to be treated and beaten like this....why on earth have people become so inhuman and merciless.

It happens when beasts become teachers. The parents should have verified the teacher's background.

True..verifying background is a must before hiring someone to teach very young kids. I think in the past few years these things are on the rise..not sure what is the reason though..

Exactly! First of all the parent hired a tutor for a 3-year-old I don't know why and secondly they allowed the tutor to close the door. This is the biggest mistake.

The couple appointed the teacher previously to teach their older daughter. They discontinued after few months as their daughter was not comfortable with her.

Yes you can't even watch the full video.......it is so inhumane. I don't know why people have gone to such low levels...........they do not have any conscience or mercy and they don't even leave a child.

3 year old definitely no need for tuition. First parent should know the technique of how to teach their children efficiently. Before appointing a person verifying his/her background information itself will not help you must ask the children who studied earlier under the control of the teacher. Children will never lie in almost all cases.

Exactly! First of all the parent hired a tutor for a 3-year-old I don't know why and secondly they allowed the tutor to close the door. This is the biggest mistake.

I would brand them as ignorant, over ambitious parents.

I think at times children do not listen to their parents..probably that is the reason why they must hired a tutor for such a young child. Whatever the case may be...such inhumanity is really scary. Children are not safe even if they are right under the nose of their parents/mothers.

I think at times children do not listen to their parents..probably that is the reason why they must hired a tutor for such a young child. Whatever the case may be...such inhumanity is really scary. Children are not safe even if they are right under the nose of their parents/mothers.

A child can be made to listen by knowing what he really wants. A friend of mine used to send his problem child to me for correcting him. I never talked with the child. Whenever the child enters my home, I used to take a sketch pad and start drawing. After a few days, to the parent's surprise the boy suddenly showed a change. The parents found him sitting in a corner of his home and started drawing on a paper with a pencil. The restlessness and trouble creating of breaking the porcelain cups and saucers came to a grinding halt.
After some days my friend asked me if i taught the boy how to draw. I said No. I whetted his interest.
This is how one can tame a child..

I think at times children do not listen to their parents..probably that is the reason why they must hired a tutor for such a young child. Whatever the case may be...such inhumanity is really scary. Children are not safe even if they are right under the nose of their parents/mothers.

A child can be made to listen by knowing what he really wants. A friend of mine used to send his problem child to me for correcting him. I never talked with the child. Whenever the child enters my home, I used to take a sketch pad and start drawing. After a few days, to the parent's surprise the boy suddenly showed a change. The parents found him sitting in a corner of his home and started drawing on a paper with a pencil. The restlessness and trouble creating of breaking the porcelain cups and saucers came to a grinding halt.
After some days my friend asked me if i taught the boy how to draw. I said No. I whetted his interest.
This is how one can tame a child..

It is wonderful thing to know how you stimulated the boy and led him to pursue an interest. But these two situations are different, the topic thread and the problem child over here. Whatever the case may be with the 3yr old....such brutality is not expected and should be condemned.

I think at times children do not listen to their parents..probably that is the reason why they must hired a tutor for such a young child. Whatever the case may be...such inhumanity is really scary. Children are not safe even if they are right under the nose of their parents/mothers.

A child can be made to listen by knowing what he really wants. A friend of mine used to send his problem child to me for correcting him. I never talked with the child. Whenever the child enters my home, I used to take a sketch pad and start drawing. After a few days, to the parent's surprise the boy suddenly showed a change. The parents found him sitting in a corner of his home and started drawing on a paper with a pencil. The restlessness and trouble creating of breaking the porcelain cups and saucers came to a grinding halt.
After some days my friend asked me if i taught the boy how to draw. I said No. I whetted his interest.
This is how one can tame a child..

It is wonderful thing to know how you stimulated the boy and led him to pursue an interest. But these two situations are different, the topic thread and the problem child over here. Whatever the case may be with the 3yr old....such brutality is not expected and should be condemned.

While agreeing with you that an innocent tender heart doesn't deserve such a brutal treatment, I wanted to impress on the the vital point, why a 3 yer old needed a tutor. This trait in parents has become a trend And it goes without saying that it happens in only parents who are ignorant and over ambitious. These parents fail to identify the niche in the children and in a hurry they lead to such foolish activities like employing a tutor at a tender age. It's the parent's duty to to handover their children in to the hands of a responsible and kind tutor.

By the way, it was my response to one of the hon'ble members of the discussion. The query was, "Why a 3 year old needed a private tutor.?"
I think I made myself clear.

I think at times children do not listen to their parents..probably that is the reason why they must hired a tutor for such a young child. Whatever the case may be...such inhumanity is really scary. Children are not safe even if they are right under the nose of their parents/mothers.

A child can be made to listen by knowing what he really wants. A friend of mine used to send his problem child to me for correcting him. I never talked with the child. Whenever the child enters my home, I used to take a sketch pad and start drawing. After a few days, to the parent's surprise the boy suddenly showed a change. The parents found him sitting in a corner of his home and started drawing on a paper with a pencil. The restlessness and trouble creating of breaking the porcelain cups and saucers came to a grinding halt.
After some days my friend asked me if i taught the boy how to draw. I said No. I whetted his interest.
This is how one can tame a child..

It is wonderful thing to know how you stimulated the boy and led him to pursue an interest. But these two situations are different, the topic thread and the problem child over here. Whatever the case may be with the 3yr old....such brutality is not expected and should be condemned.

While agreeing with you that an innocent tender heart doesn't deserve such a brutal treatment, I wanted to impress on the the vital point, why a 3 yer old needed a tutor. This trait in parents has become a trend And it goes without saying that it happens in only parents who are ignorant and over ambitious. These parents fail to identify the niche in the children and in a hurry they lead to such foolish activities like employing a tutor at a tender age. It's the parent's duty to to handover their children in to the hands of a responsible and kind tutor.

By the way, it was my response to one of the hon'ble members of the discussion. The query was, "Why a 3 year old needed a private tutor.?"
I think I made myself clear.

I totally agree with you about 'why a 3.5yrs old kid needs a tutor'. We never went for private tuition, but as you have already mentioned it is trend now...to send babies who can't speak to play groups..and kids as young as 3yrs to private tuitions be it at home or anywhere else. But as responsible parents it is mandatory now to do thorough background check of people who are hired as babysitters. nanny, or even tutors.s

I think at times children do not listen to their parents..probably that is the reason why they must hired a tutor for such a young child. Whatever the case may be...such inhumanity is really scary. Children are not safe even if they are right under the nose of their parents/mothers.

A child can be made to listen by knowing what he really wants. A friend of mine used to send his problem child to me for correcting him. I never talked with the child. Whenever the child enters my home, I used to take a sketch pad and start drawing. After a few days, to the parent's surprise the boy suddenly showed a change. The parents found him sitting in a corner of his home and started drawing on a paper with a pencil. The restlessness and trouble creating of breaking the porcelain cups and saucers came to a grinding halt.
After some days my friend asked me if i taught the boy how to draw. I said No. I whetted his interest.
This is how one can tame a child..

It is wonderful thing to know how you stimulated the boy and led him to pursue an interest. But these two situations are different, the topic thread and the problem child over here. Whatever the case may be with the 3yr old....such brutality is not expected and should be condemned.

While agreeing with you that an innocent tender heart doesn't deserve such a brutal treatment, I wanted to impress on the the vital point, why a 3 yer old needed a tutor. This trait in parents has become a trend And it goes without saying that it happens in only parents who are ignorant and over ambitious. These parents fail to identify the niche in the children and in a hurry they lead to such foolish activities like employing a tutor at a tender age. It's the parent's duty to to handover their children in to the hands of a responsible and kind tutor.

By the way, it was my response to one of the hon'ble members of the discussion. The query was, "Why a 3 year old needed a private tutor.?"
I think I made myself clear.

I totally agree with you about 'why a 3.5yrs old kid needs a tutor'. We never went for private tuition, but as you have already mentioned it is trend now...to send babies who can't speak to play groups..and kids as young as 3yrs to private tuitions be it at home or anywhere else. But as responsible parents it is mandatory now to do thorough background check of people who are hired as babysitters. nanny, or even tutors.s

I agree with you. Even if the parents employ a tutor, a thorough enquiry has to be made. These are the days, even before employing a maid we are making enquiries.

I think at times children do not listen to their parents..probably that is the reason why they must hired a tutor for such a young child. Whatever the case may be...such inhumanity is really scary. Children are not safe even if they are right under the nose of their parents/mothers.

A child can be made to listen by knowing what he really wants. A friend of mine used to send his problem child to me for correcting him. I never talked with the child. Whenever the child enters my home, I used to take a sketch pad and start drawing. After a few days, to the parent's surprise the boy suddenly showed a change. The parents found him sitting in a corner of his home and started drawing on a paper with a pencil. The restlessness and trouble creating of breaking the porcelain cups and saucers came to a grinding halt.
After some days my friend asked me if i taught the boy how to draw. I said No. I whetted his interest.
This is how one can tame a child..

It is wonderful thing to know how you stimulated the boy and led him to pursue an interest. But these two situations are different, the topic thread and the problem child over here. Whatever the case may be with the 3yr old....such brutality is not expected and should be condemned.

While agreeing with you that an innocent tender heart doesn't deserve such a brutal treatment, I wanted to impress on the the vital point, why a 3 yer old needed a tutor. This trait in parents has become a trend And it goes without saying that it happens in only parents who are ignorant and over ambitious. These parents fail to identify the niche in the children and in a hurry they lead to such foolish activities like employing a tutor at a tender age. It's the parent's duty to to handover their children in to the hands of a responsible and kind tutor.

By the way, it was my response to one of the hon'ble members of the discussion. The query was, "Why a 3 year old needed a private tutor.?"
I think I made myself clear.

I totally agree with you about 'why a 3.5yrs old kid needs a tutor'. We never went for private tuition, but as you have already mentioned it is trend now...to send babies who can't speak to play groups..and kids as young as 3yrs to private tuitions be it at home or anywhere else. But as responsible parents it is mandatory now to do thorough background check of people who are hired as babysitters. nanny, or even tutors.s

I agree with you. Even if the parents employ a tutor, a thorough enquiry has to be made. These are the days, even before employing a maid we are making enquiries.

There are agencies who help people find maids and turors..but it is best to employ them through friends and relatives.