You become happy or jealous?????

Yes a real friend always ready to help other friends and it is difficult to get a real friend.

Yes,its very difficult to find such a friend that gives you support in all situations.I am still in search of that,i haven't found even one.

Guys,make sure that you should have fews friends,which believes in you and gives you support.

Friends are very important in your life.

Yes,its very difficult to find such a friend that gives you support in all situations.I am still in search of that,i haven't found even one.

Guys,make sure that you should have fews friends,which believes in you and gives you support.

Friends are very important in your life.

Yes friends are essential in life like anyone as there are things which you can share it with friends only. :)

I do have lot of friends with whom i share my feelings sometimes i feel lighter when i share my sorrows with them and feel more happier when i share my happiness with them. :)


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Yes everyone like to go pass to other person in every form of life if other pass him then he become jealous.

Ya It is good to have a nice and kind natured smart and intelligent friend as a good friend takes us to good path also

Ya It is good to have a nice and kind natured smart and intelligent friend as a good friend takes us to good path also

Really I loved it!!!!!

Yes, I personally believe that, if we have an intelligent friend, it will only help us.
In our language there is a proverb, meaning, "FULLY FILLED POT NEVER SPIT/Overflow. "...i.e Only half filled pot makes noice.
If he is really an intelligent person, he will never feel jealous, since he is well confident over himself.
If we get such a friend in our life, we are really lucky because he can never harm us.
I do have a friend. I have made him join this site, though he can't find time.
Till now, I think he is the most intelligent person I have ever met in my life..I am no one before his knowledge....literature, philosophy, GK, English grammar, Malayalam movies, he is an ocean. I can disturb him at any time even with my silly questions. I will get answers readily. So, when I have such a friend, do I need to feel trouble for unknown answers????
Really I feel proud to tell you people also that I have an intelligent friend.
If I feel jealous with him, will it help me???? Will I be able to increase my knowledge?????Never.......as it is told, "Blowing another one's candle will never make yours shine better"
What's your opinion???

yes, sandhya, you are absolutely correct. blowing another one's candle will never make yours shine better"

But I believe that " light your candle by borrowing fire from others candle"

that means we should take inspiration and work out but we should not feel jealous of it and make loss to the person who is in good position

yes, sandhya, you are absolutely correct. blowing another one's candle will never make yours shine better"

But I believe that " light your candle by borrowing fire from others candle"

that means we should take inspiration and work out but we should not feel jealous of it and make loss to the person who is in good position

Really, you have added something nice....i have never noticed it earlier.
So, you have brought up that thread back to discussion...isn't it?
So nice of you.

Yes, this is the same friend I am talking about. :)

Sandhya , what are you talking about? I didnt understand your last line

I become first happy and later become jealous and try to become like him.

Mostly all feel like that way.. It is like mix feeling of happiness and jealous.

We are all human. Feeling of jealousy is inherent in our nature. When a child is born in a family, the siblings- also baby- get somewhat jealous as love and attraction is shared by the newly born. This remains in adulthood also. But if you are more self confident, jealousy will fade.

Yes,what gulshanji told is in human nature,and that is how human's are. :)

Getting intellegent friend is good thing of our life.

there is a proverb having one intellegent friend is better than having a group of fools

It's better to be a servant in the kingdom of wise people than to be king of the kingdom of fools!

But some people would do just the opposite and would try to topple the smarter guy out with Sam, Dam, Dand, Bhed, to sink their own boat perhaps. Because they misjudged the abilities of their smarter friend.

But some people would do just the opposite and would try to topple the smarte guy out with Sam, Dam, Dand, Bhed, to sink their own boat perhaps. Because they misjudged the abilities of their smarter friend.

Misjudging someone is bad you never know he/she can be smarter than you. :)

I have seen in many instances that we think someone weaker comes out to be lot more stronger than us. :)

Never mind, this is the way life is. We know it but some times we forget it. But that's perfect human, no comments.

There are some people who beat on others tummy. I dont know how they feel happy by making others hardwork waste and they feel happy. If they feel jealous of the person who is winning then they should take it a challenge and work harder than the person who is working harder and winning. But blackmailing them and making them feel bad and making loss to their effort is really bad. For such a thing God also wont forgive them

That is right people sometime don't take competition as a competition which spoils the sport.People should not feel jealous instead they should take inspiration and try to perform better than this person. :)