why parents always try to scold their children?
Though the children do good and even bad.
But they always want to hurt their children. and sometimes they make their children feel why they born to them and why not in orphanage?
Slow and Steady Wins the Race.
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Nobody is fully mature. Even parents are not so mature as to effectively deal with children. But they are responsible. They try to bring up children the best way they can. Hence, children of more educated and mature parents outshine.
Parents do not itentionally hurt children. There are many tensions and provblems. Also children may not like what parents consider right. They scold either for rectifying the children or when they are in short temper for any reason.
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I too believe that parents have to take this most unpleasant measure to discharge their parental duties.But the problem is case specific.No child should fail to see the overwhelming sense of well-being that drives parent to do this.But in doing so the parents too understand and appreciate the feelings of their wards.
I personally believe that there has been a change in the attitude of parents towards their children in the recent times and they do really try to understand their problems but it is also a fact that there also exists such things as hitting and beating the children which doesn't do any good in the long run and sometimes it has adverse affect on the children and they become more stubborn in their lives. Such practice should be avoided by the parents if they want their children to grow into a perfect individual...
no one can understand what a parent goes through unless you become a parent yourself.there are mistakes they also make,its best to learn from the mistakes we see and give the best when our turn comes.
I'm pretty sure that when we are parents,we too would make some mistakes...no one is perfect!
When we become parents , atleast we should stop scolding unnecessarily. We should always treat our child with love and effection then only we will have good value and trust and even love in their hearts. or else if we behave as our parents behaved with us then there will be fear in their hearts and they never share anything with us.
