Why we love A boy child rather than a girl child?

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Dear members till today also we kill girl child because they will be burden in future.

I know here all members are Educated so they will argue that against of girl child killing but just think what happening in our surrounding and be practical.

Cant we stop this by taking some serious action and creating awareness in mind of people?

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Killing of girl child is a serious crime govenment should take legal action on the doctor who killing girl child even she take birth.
people feel that if a girl child is there , there will have lot of burden. they need to spend alot of money. mostly they should give dowry for her. but for boy child they get dowry. thats why in most of the families they give more love to boy then girl. but this is really bad on the parents part and the system. I want to abolish this system of giving dowry then everything will be good and every parents love their children equally
I think girls are not not reasons to kill then reasons are Indian cultures,rules and regulation like dahej pratha,going to other home after marriage etc so peopel does not treated girls as a boy and do not want to take extra burdon due to money problem so if girl decide that he will marry without dahej and if person able to feel free from extra burdon than i think no one feel bad after girl birth . our mentality problem.
That our olden cultures are following still in some places.The village people are thinking when a baby born they are felling burden to them.One main reason is the dowry for every girl child must be given dowry this is the thing which is happening in our society.

when we eradicate the dowry the girl child's birth will be more than the boys.

when i want to be a father i pray god for a Girl twin child's.
It is previous thinking and the mentality of people changed completely by the passage of time. About 80% of people doesn't belief in caring a boy better than a girl child. We should change with the system. It is good to have such change.
yes you are right manas, but in andhra most of the families are not yet change they still give more care and love to the boy
I think who want to become bad so everyone will vote which ways are good but actual history and figure is different then poll percentage.
@santosh

Regarding what you are talking ot . I didnt understand, the answer you have given here is not relate to topic
I am saying that if peoples votes are in support of girls then its not true actully people still like boys more than girl .
you are right in our hindu custom so many bizarre customs are defined and are assumed very important that must be done into related occasion. Girls are not getting their original value because of these customs . parents think they have to spend a lot of money on them on their marriage.
Presently, population of female in India is less compared to male. When there will be no female there will be no birth of child, no happiness and no love. It is female who gives love and life to others. May after few more decades people would realise the situation without love and life.
As girls are becoming less in India so there may be chance of parents giving value to girls as in future boys may give dowry to girls
Present the population in india is having the more male than females in future the kanyasulkam will come once again.
PArents need to spend more money for all the occasions of girls and They should protect her and they feel that all these are headach to them and the main reason why they love boy child because they will get dowry when they perform boy marriage but for girl they should give dowry thats why.
female foeticide is serios crime and any one of us are aware of such practice going on anywhere then we should report it. people still have those traditional thoughts and it is merely because of lack of education. educating people is the only way out.

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