I read this news in Times of India yesterday? We all aware that divorces are increased in India than earlier days.
What do you think on those who divorced and remarrying the ex-partner?
You can read the article here.
http://timesofindia.indiatimes.com/life-style/relationships/man/woman/Why-are-divorced-Indians-remarrying-their-exes/articleshow/13119341.cms
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[quote]If that's actually happening - that's a great thing! Couples who walked out on their marriage predominantly being influenced by their egos and imperfect understanding of each other,could not have been more right in reuniting themselves! [/quote]
True! Yet the sad part is that it takes one divorce for them to realize that they are suited to each other as life partners! Ironic indeed!
True! Yet the sad part is that it takes one divorce for them to realize that they are suited to each other as life partners! Ironic indeed!
Hope it never takes a fatal decision like divorce to make them come back to their senses!!
There is Hindi proverb- subah ka bhoola shaam ko ghar laut aaye to use bhoola nahin kahate. (If some one loses the way at morning but returns in the evening, he has not forgotten track)
So, if a couple separate because of misunderstanding but rejoin later on better sense, they have no misunderstanding. Their rejoining is welcome.
I think reasons behind the decision of divorce also important. In arranged marriage, may be they are just like toys of elders in the family. In Love marriage, they realized the reality once they started to live together. If they realized their mistakes and learnt from it then the reunion will be successful. :woohoo:
I think reasons behind the decision of divorce also important. In arranged marriage, may be they are just like toys of elders in the family. In Love marriage, they realized the reality once they started to live together. If they realized their mistakes and learnt from it then the reunion will be successful. :woohoo:
Be it arranged or otherwise, cases of divorce present one of the greatest challenges of our times. While there are some genuinely hopeless situations which justify dissolution of marriages but the ones driven by frivolous grounds are best avoided!
Obviously, marriage is not so sacred or significant for many, especially those who would break marriage on slightest pretext. For them marriage is nothing more than changing a shirt. If you can again wear a shirt, why not again marry a woman.
Absolutely!
i have even read about Hollywood stars who had divorced again(second time) :laugh: :laugh:
May be they are realized their mistakes, or may be they want to repeat them again.. :blink:
Anand you know it even being unmarried. :laugh:
But that's right once they realize their mistake they go back to their exes. :)
There are too many examples around.. No need of experience for that. :laugh:
This is such a complicated issue, besides I am finding so many cases of divorce so often these days that it makes me think that why do they go for marriage in the first place. A broken marriage in a week- That is so strange...
Do you think.. This is why they should stretch engagement for long(not tooooo long) so that they can understand each other properly... :whistle:
This is such a complicated issue, besides I am finding so many cases of divorce so often these days that it makes me think that why do they go for marriage in the first place. A broken marriage in a week- That is so strange...
Do you think.. This is why they should stretch engagement for long(not tooooo long) so that they can understand each other properly... :whistle:
Not necessary people can take their time before being engaged and this is what people do now a days but then too there are divorces. :evil:
This is such a complicated issue, besides I am finding so many cases of divorce so often these days that it makes me think that why do they go for marriage in the first place. A broken marriage in a week- That is so strange...
Do you think.. This is why they should stretch engagement for long(not tooooo long) so that they can understand each other properly... :whistle:
Not necessary people can take their time before being engaged and this is what people do now a days but then too there are divorces. :evil:
Some times it may boomerang some people get bored while still in engaged stages, they break because they feel they have nothing more to do whatever they have already done what they would have done later.
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