One more situation am introducing u. If u are in that person place what u will

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There is a girl, who is very good girl. Always obeys her parents from childhood. So when she is studying tenth class she fell in love with a guy but she never inform him as she is scade of her parents, as they already doubted her as she is been friendly with him. finally one day her mother said she will goto his house and warn him not to talk with her daughter.But that girl convinced her mom and met the guy and said not to meet him anymore. At that age, that girl don't know what is good and what is bad as she is not that matured person. So he kept that love in her only.After that she never found that guy anywhere in that city.After 9 years she met him again online and in some conversation both got opened out that they both used to love each other but never expressed.After some days the boy said he got married for sake of his mother as she is alone, she need some one to takecare.
He had a daughter also.the girl felt a bit bad , but she felt it is her fate to be late and to be afraid of her mother.He said he still love her,and still loving and he and she still in love . she said it is not a good thing to love each other as he is a married guy. But he didnt listern, he requested her to be in contact atleast upto her marriage. The girl couldnt say no to him. So she is daily talking with him. But this made her feel more about him , now her mind is full of him.So she is not in a condition to accept anyone to marry her and in that same time she dont want hurt some who kept lot of hope on that guy. SO friends tell me what that girl should do now.

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The girl has to avoid contact with him and get married immediately this is the only way to solve this problem.... :kiss:
A lost case that's all I would say! It's not pragmatic to allow emotions to rule so overwhelmingly in one's life.Consequences could be very disastrous for both!
I agree with satish that girl should not contact that boy anymore and as quickly as possible she should get married.
One cannot cling topast memories and event and must live in present. An old affair is closed on marriage of concerned involved person. Life must begin on new leaf.
Any obssessive association with the past is neither desirable nor is it going to do any good to anyone!
Sarla Mam, do you think that any ray of hope is visible to that girl or can she get to have him for the whole life, nor the boyfriend can leave his family including his daughter.

So, at last the outcome of this affair is going to be zero.It is the fact that human beings are bundles of emotions but I think here the brain should prevail over the heart.
That's right,Mukesh! The old baggage of a failed relationship should be taken to its logical end!
It is better to discontinue the talk with him.Marry the person whom the girl's parent's suggest.
Human relationships especially involving love tend to be guided more by emotion than intellect! Still we have to try in these delicate situations!
I have already indicated that in my posts. I honstly believe she should not continue this anamolous relationship and start afresh!
She is on the verge of destruction.Either she can take a tough decision to pull her back from that vicious cycle or she can continue there for little more time to finally end with a disaster.

I think she has no option but to chose the former option. she should immediately come to stop and start breathing the fresh air.
Love never die. I think this is very difficult to answer because lover already married and have a daughter so if she get then suffer that life.

So better advice is she marry with other person who can love her more than that.

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Created Saturday, 09 July 2011 22:40
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