Sibling rivalry may affect the mind of the child when he grows up. siblings differ and parents should guard against any rivalry among them. Each child is unique.

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Sibling rivalry may affect the mind of the child when he grows up. siblings differ and parents should guard against any rivalry among them. Each child is unique.

http://indianexpress.com/article/lifestyle/feelings/heres-how-sibling-rivalry-can-take-an-ugly-turn/


Each child is unique if only all parents and teacher could understand this small thing. Intentionally or unintentionally, parents keep comparing their children and children often grow up keeping grudge against each other. When one sibling bullies another, parents often ignore it saying the children can sort it out on their own, this is where the problem begins. Hence, parents need to take such behavior seriously and pay attention to their child within the house premises and outside.

“A mistake is a crash-course in learning” – Billy Anderson

Thank you said by: usha manohar, Gulshan Kumar Ajmani
Sibling rivalry may affect the mind of the child when he grows up. siblings differ and parents should guard against any rivalry among them. Each child is unique.

http://indianexpress.com/article/lifestyle/feelings/heres-how-sibling-rivalry-can-take-an-ugly-turn/


Each child is unique if only all parents and teacher could understand this small thing. Intentionally or unintentionally, parents keep comparing their children and children often grow up keeping grudge against each other. When one sibling bullies another, parents often ignore it saying the children can sort it out on their own, this is where the problem begins. Hence, parents need to take such behavior seriously and pay attention to their child within the house premises and outside.


Very true ! I have 3 children who are totally different to each other in every way possible and to compare them would be unfair. But practically speaking without intendimg or realising we parents do tend to compare them and may even speak about it. What is far more important is to make sure the comparison does not hurt ...

Pay no mind to those who talk behind your back, it simply means that you are two steps ahead !!!

Thank you said by: Gulshan Kumar Ajmani
Sibling rivalry may affect the mind of the child when he grows up. siblings differ and parents should guard against any rivalry among them. Each child is unique.

http://indianexpress.com/article/lifestyle/feelings/heres-how-sibling-rivalry-can-take-an-ugly-turn/


Each child is unique if only all parents and teacher could understand this small thing. Intentionally or unintentionally, parents keep comparing their children and children often grow up keeping grudge against each other. When one sibling bullies another, parents often ignore it saying the children can sort it out on their own, this is where the problem begins. Hence, parents need to take such behavior seriously and pay attention to their child within the house premises and outside.


Very true ! I have 3 children who are totally different to each other in every way possible and to compare them would be unfair. But practically speaking without intendimg or realising we parents do tend to compare them and may even speak about it. What is far more important is to make sure the comparison does not hurt ...


It is now that parents are starting to understand this fact..comparing and asking to emulate an elder's sibling's good manners and behaviour, or performance in academics is fine, but should be limited and also should be done in private and not in public..this is what hurts even more.

“A mistake is a crash-course in learning” – Billy Anderson

Sibling rivalry may affect the mind of the child when he grows up. siblings differ and parents should guard against any rivalry among them. Each child is unique.

http://indianexpress.com/article/lifestyle/feelings/heres-how-sibling-rivalry-can-take-an-ugly-turn/


This is a very important topic that you have started and many parents are quite ignorant about this fact and compare their kids which is a very unhealthy practice.

I would like to recall an incident which I heart from a friend of mine. It was about her cousin a 22-year-old boy pursuing CA. His sister is a very good student and works in a reputed firm. He failed his inter exam in first appearance. As a result of which he got such negative response from his relatives and friends and constant comparison with his sister that he just committed suicide. The boy just went into severe depression.............a very tragic incident.

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Sibling rivalry may affect the mind of the child when he grows up. siblings differ and parents should guard against any rivalry among them. Each child is unique.

http://indianexpress.com/article/lifestyle/feelings/heres-how-sibling-rivalry-can-take-an-ugly-turn/


This is a very important topic that you have started and many parents are quite ignorant about this fact and compare their kids which is a very unhealthy practice.

I would like to recall an incident which I heart from a friend of mine. It was about her cousin a 22-year-old boy pursuing CA. His sister is a very good student and works in a reputed firm. He failed his inter exam in first appearance. As a result of which he got such negative response from his relatives and friends and constant comparison with his sister that he just committed suicide. The boy just went into severe depression.............a very tragic incident.


We should not allow other persons to interfere in our work. What we are doing is right and we are the person going to face the issue. Each person has his own talent. By comparing with others we are discouraging our children. We should allow the children to take the course as per their wish so that they can involve in it and never mind about what others are saying and will concentrate on their studies.
Sibling rivalry may affect the mind of the child when he grows up. siblings differ and parents should guard against any rivalry among them. Each child is unique.

http://indianexpress.com/article/lifestyle/feelings/heres-how-sibling-rivalry-can-take-an-ugly-turn/


Each child is unique if only all parents and teacher could understand this small thing. Intentionally or unintentionally, parents keep comparing their children and children often grow up keeping grudge against each other. When one sibling bullies another, parents often ignore it saying the children can sort it out on their own, this is where the problem begins. Hence, parents need to take such behavior seriously and pay attention to their child within the house premises and outside.


Very true ! I have 3 children who are totally different to each other in every way possible and to compare them would be unfair. But practically speaking without intendimg or realising we parents do tend to compare them and may even speak about it. What is far more important is to make sure the comparison does not hurt ...


It is now that parents are starting to understand this fact..comparing and asking to emulate an elder's sibling's good manners and behaviour, or performance in academics is fine, but should be limited and also should be done in private and not in public..this is what hurts even more.


Absolutely ! We need to have an understanding that family dispute will never be spoken in front of others since more harm is done and childen or spouses tend to feel insulted, sliggted, frustrated and angry...Parents should take care to see that children are not corrected or scolded in front of others even if they are your own extended family members.

Pay no mind to those who talk behind your back, it simply means that you are two steps ahead !!!

Thank you said by: Mousumi Ghosh
Sibling rivalry may affect the mind of the child when he grows up. siblings differ and parents should guard against any rivalry among them. Each child is unique.

http://indianexpress.com/article/lifestyle/feelings/heres-how-sibling-rivalry-can-take-an-ugly-turn/


Each child is unique if only all parents and teacher could understand this small thing. Intentionally or unintentionally, parents keep comparing their children and children often grow up keeping grudge against each other. When one sibling bullies another, parents often ignore it saying the children can sort it out on their own, this is where the problem begins. Hence, parents need to take such behavior seriously and pay attention to their child within the house premises and outside.


Very true ! I have 3 children who are totally different to each other in every way possible and to compare them would be unfair. But practically speaking without intendimg or realising we parents do tend to compare them and may even speak about it. What is far more important is to make sure the comparison does not hurt ...


It is now that parents are starting to understand this fact..comparing and asking to emulate an elder's sibling's good manners and behaviour, or performance in academics is fine, but should be limited and also should be done in private and not in public..this is what hurts even more.


Absolutely ! We need to have an understanding that family dispute will never be spoken in front of others since more harm is done and childen or spouses tend to feel insulted, sliggted, frustrated and angry...Parents should take care to see that children are not corrected or scolded in front of others even if they are your own extended family members.


Every child is born with some natural talents and is supposed to develop those inherent talents. But, being part of the society, parents want them to be on the top of the world and ask them to fly over mountains, even though they don’t have wings. As a result they spoil a valuable life. Freedom has lost its meaning; dignity survives.
Sibling rivalry may affect the mind of the child when he grows up. siblings differ and parents should guard against any rivalry among them. Each child is unique.

http://indianexpress.com/article/lifestyle/feelings/heres-how-sibling-rivalry-can-take-an-ugly-turn/


Each child is unique if only all parents and teacher could understand this small thing. Intentionally or unintentionally, parents keep comparing their children and children often grow up keeping grudge against each other. When one sibling bullies another, parents often ignore it saying the children can sort it out on their own, this is where the problem begins. Hence, parents need to take such behavior seriously and pay attention to their child within the house premises and outside.


Very true ! I have 3 children who are totally different to each other in every way possible and to compare them would be unfair. But practically speaking without intendimg or realising we parents do tend to compare them and may even speak about it. What is far more important is to make sure the comparison does not hurt ...


It is now that parents are starting to understand this fact..comparing and asking to emulate an elder's sibling's good manners and behaviour, or performance in academics is fine, but should be limited and also should be done in private and not in public..this is what hurts even more.


Absolutely ! We need to have an understanding that family dispute will never be spoken in front of others since more harm is done and childen or spouses tend to feel insulted, sliggted, frustrated and angry...Parents should take care to see that children are not corrected or scolded in front of others even if they are your own extended family members.


Every child is born with some natural talents and is supposed to develop those inherent talents. But, being part of the society, parents want them to be on the top of the world and ask them to fly over mountains, even though they don’t have wings. As a result they spoil a valuable life. Freedom has lost its meaning; dignity survives.


Yes, it is also observed that some children are born extroverts and some are born introverts...but parents overlook this and put so much pressure..that this pressure to perform builds up negative feelings for siblings...and this negative feeling if not checked can take a bad shape...such as depression.

“A mistake is a crash-course in learning” – Billy Anderson

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