Happy working couple

We can see many more women working in corporate and government sectors compared to last few decades. Time is no consideration for women any more because the private sector does not differentiate in between sexes as far the wok is concerned. Most multinational companies, media houses, BPO sector etc are appointing qualified women in particular as they find them more efficient. Women are working in other sectors apart from medicine and teaching and they have come out of limitation of 9 to 5 jobs. Overall, the professionalism has increased in working women and that calls for few precautions to follow by the couple to keep their marriage intact.

Communication gap is an unwanted factor

Communication gap is a dangerous situation in any relationship and more so for smooth relationship of a working couple. , which is very much possible due to hectic schedule of both the partners  In case the couple is going through such a situation they should use every method to keep in touch with each other as the modern technology and gadgets have made it possible. You can use emails and SMS effectively to keep in touch.

Share your feelings

Since the working couple finds lesser time to spend with each other, they find it tough to share their feelings but sharing is the best tool to solve problems. In case you are having a personal or professional problem always share it with your spouse that will make you feel better and relieved, also your partner would be in a position to solve it or suggest you way out of it. Actually, this is more important where the working wife finds herself overloaded with household chore. If the couple share the workload also that would make things easier for both of them and that is possible if they share not only the feelings but other problems including housework as well.

Ego clash

Ego is a problem that can ruin the best of relations as we can see happening in different walks of life. If you and your partner fight too often even for smallest reasons, that is a sure sign of serious problem. You should get rid of these when the matter has not turned too bad to save your relation and try to understand the reason of problem in way that is more realistic. In case one of the partners earns more especially the female that creates big problem as husband feels depressed or feels inferior than her husband, which ultimately leads to fights. Husband should feel proudly in place of jealous for being so lucky. This is is a complex related with either inferiority or lack of self-confidence, which should be avoided in any case.  

Big problem to say sorry

When two people who are complete strangers begin living together, that is but natural that they can have some misunderstanding while dealing with each other and if you feel that you have done some thing that might have hurt the feelings of your partner there is no harm acknowledging it as this may save you from further problems only. A simply ‘sorry’ is enough to pacify your partner to bring back normalcy to your relations. 

Transparency is must

This is another important factor to keep your relations intact to share and let your partner know the exact facts of every problems, Time related factors, your colleagues, work nature, demands of your job, salary etc with your spouse so that no misunderstanding takes place. Some times money becomes a major reason of a difference in between working couples. 

Quality time for each other

As a working person, you might find hard to spare enough time for your spouse but you shall have to do it despite all your business. This is your own management way to do it skillfully to manage it in a way that you adjust both your work and home with making a clash in each other. After all, you are doing your job for smooth running of your home and if you cannot keep, your partner happy nothing else would work perfectly. Therefore, this is best to utilize whatever time you can spare in company of each other. Keep reminding your partner about your love that would help a lot.

Do not feel jealous if your partner is popular

In certain cases where husband and wife work in the same office one of the partners becomes more popular, the reasons could be different like he or she is more witty, caring, supporting or smarter than the other is. This should not be a reason for feeling jealous. You should rather be feeling happy for being associated with such a nice and popular person, it’s better to follow him/her to be equally popular. 

You are for me only

This is a common problem with working couples who are not matured enough or lack in confidence. This mostly happens due to one single reason that they do not find enough time together and keeps thinking about partner’s activities while he or she is away in a different work place. Moreover, the case is more so if the partner is working in an environment where he/she has opportunities to meet other interesting personalities to mingle with and chances to get involved. However, even if that is not the case but one partner fabricates stories and finds it a reason to suspect his/her partner but that is a common problem with working couples, which should not surface in the first place. There is nothing wrong as far a little bit of jealousy is present as it only increase the feelings of love but too much of it may spoil a relation so take care.

The reason of jealousy

The main reason for jealousy in between man and woman especially in working couples is simple, the way the status of woman is growing by the day for obvious reasons. They are far better off because they are in power positions, working on Internet to understand world far better than before, exposure to outside world and traveling frequently has empowered the women to a very high level. All these reasons have given the men partners a complex of inferiority as well lack of safety. They are under the impression that they have lost their important and superiority they were enjoying thus far.

Conclusion

The only way to keep relations healthy for a working couple is to communicate properly and make the level of understanding better. Do not compare your partner with any one else and be straightforward in case you find any thing that you must know. There is one simple way to keep your relations right that you should maintain the self-respect of both the partners intact.