In our life, nothing is accidental.The deeds done by us in present decide our future.So every work done by us decides our future.But our FUTURE is hidden from us.In normal course, we can not penetrate in our future.With the help of some occult sciences like Tarrot, Astrology or by DOWSING, we can penetrate in our FUTURE,we can know certain things of our future, evn we can know whether any particular deed will fetch us good results in future or will bring miseries to us.

The simplest technique is DOWSING.

We can have answers in YES and NO by use of Dowsing in first Stage.

Generally DOWSING is done with a pendulum.The PENDULUM receives information from UNIVERSAL vibrations, Energy, Waves emitted by persons, thoughts etc.and becomes a communication device between our CONSCIOUS and SUB-CONSCIOUS MIND. The vibrations passes from Cosmos to Dowser's Sub-Conscious Mind.This energy then passes to PENDULUM to give you answers.

Below are given the simple steps to learn DOWSING:-

Making/Charging/Programming of PENDULUM:-The DOWSER is required to use a Pendulum. The Pendulum can be made by attaching any weight to the end of a string or chain. However, it is advisable to use any pointed crystal or a real small Pendulum for dowsing.The dowser should wash it by putting in a salty water for 10-15 minutes to remove any type of Negative Energies.Then hold it in between your hands to given positive energy and to make a personal harmony to it. The purpose of programming is to get accurate results.

Receptive Stage:-The Dowser should go to relaxed/meditative stage to become receptive.

Knowing about YES and NO:-Hold the end of string in your first two fingers.Then in normal tone or even silently mentally, ask the Pendulum which direction will indicate a 'Yes' response.,whether Clockwise or Anti-Clockwise direction or a Vertical movement or a Horizontal movement. The Pendulum will start its movements.It can be any of the four directions i.e. Clockwise direction, Anti-clockwise direction, Vertical movement or Horizontal movement.Then instruct the Pendulum to move in opposite direction if the answer is 'No'.

Example:-Suppose, the Pendulum starts Clockwise movement for 'Yes' answer. If your name is RAM.Ask your Pendulum, whether my name is Ram.It shall start revolving in Clockwise direction.It shall revolve on its own without any effort on your part. Now, ask if your name is Sham(Although your name is Ram), it shall start revolving in Anti-clockwise direction.That is fine.Now your Pendulum is fully programmed to give you all types of answers to your questions.By this the Dowser gets all the required answers.

Getting Answers:- Keep a close rapport with your Pendulum treating it as a very trusted friend. Now you are ready to ask your questions.All questions should be framed so that their answers are either in 'Yes' or 'No'.

Framing Questions:-Whether I will get 80% marks in Physics ?

Whether I shall pass in Maths ?

Whether so and so business will be suitable for me ?

Whether I should make so & so as my Business Partner ?

Whether so and so is my friend ?

Whether so & so loves me ?

Whether I should switch over to so & so job or whether so & so job is suitable for me?

Whether my preparation in so & so subject shall fetch me so & so % marks?

Whether I shall secure first division in so & so subject ?

You can frame as many questions and get correct answers.

CAUTION:- Before starting Dowsing, we should be in cool, calm and meditative stage.This is necessary since in case we are interesting in getting a positive answer,then our Sub-Conscious mind will interfere and Pendulum will give you 'Yes' answer.I mean to say that you should not be biased to get an answer,rather you are to get the answer from your trusted friend-PENDULUM' without any answer in your mind.You should keep yourself blank and ready to have the correct answer.

Whenever I sit to write something, I always find myself short of time.If time permits, I shall explain many more things on DOWSING so that everybody becomes a FORTUNE TELLER.

          If you just got the news that your partner is pregnant, chances are that you're experiencing a rush of emotions. Maybe it's all happiness and excitement. If you feel shocked, panicked, overwhelmed, scared, or like you're just not ready for this, you're not alone. Like any major life change, this is going to require a major adjustment. And if the pregnancy wasn't planned - half of all pregnancies aren't - you may be feeling these emotions in an even more intense way. You don't have to feel guilty or anxious about having these mixed emotions; it's completely normal. Although you can't prevent these feelings, there are steps you can take to get more comfortable with the pregnancy, the idea of parenthood, and the preparations that can make both go as smoothly as possible. Fatherhood can be particularly daunting at the beginning of the pregnancy. Maybe every time you think about it, the worst-case scenario pops to mind. Here are a few of the details that you may be sweating right off the bat, and a few ideas to help keep things in perspective. Remember that you're not going to have to tackle every part of fatherhood all at once. For the first few years, a lot of the parenting is going to involve skills that you can learn and improve through practice. You can learn a lot of these skills in childbirth classes. It's like a lot of other new roles that you have taken on in your life. When you got married, you didn't automatically know how to be a good husband. You learned along the way with your partner, in the way that worked for you both. You have plenty of time before you are going to have to be setting curfews, teaching your child to drive, and doling out ethical guidance and relationship and career advice.

All of these opportunities for teaching your child will come up one at a time, and when they do, they will likely feel like a natural progression. If you need guidance, there are plenty of resources in the community, and there are even parenting classes. It may help to talk to and spend time with other fathers you know and talk about any issues you may be grappling with. If you feel like you have issues about your own father that you need to work through, it's a good idea to talk with someone - maybe a counselor or a family member - about them before the baby is born, so that they don't get in the way of your relationship with your own child. Feeding, clothing, and educating another human being is going to cost money that's now being spent on other things - there's no question about it. But there are things you can do to reduce your stress about the finances. It may help to get a sense of what your costs will be right after the baby is born. Your health insurer, employer, or your partner's employer may be able to give you a sense of the costs and what will be covered. Many workplaces now allow for some paid paternity leave for fathers, so you may want to inquire about that. You may want to meet with a financial planner to get some money-management guidance. You may also want to talk to other new parents who live in your community to get an idea of how they managed and where any unexpected expenses cropped up. You can open a college fund - or any kind of bank account - any time to save up for any of your new child's expenses. You may want to start putting away a few dollars each week to fund items like child care and diapers.

That way, the day your child arrives in the WORLD , you'll have a head start on meeting all of his or her financial needs. Remember there will be a lot of expenses for your partner's pregnancy and new child you won't have to pay for. For instance, if you and your partner decide to breastfeed, you will save money on the cost of feeding your baby for the first few months. Also, many families share maternity and baby clothes because pregnant women - and new babies - wear a particular size of clothes for such a short period of time. Fatherhood doesn't have to spell the end of activities that bring you enjoyment. True, you may not get much sleep or time for yourself during the first few months after your child is born before he or she starts to sleep through the night. But eventually it will happen. As the baby sleeps more, you and your partner will have opportunities to do the activities that you enjoy, together and individually. Again, it's important to work together, communicate, and trade off on the child-care responsibilities so that you each get what you need. Also, remember that in the first few years of life, you will likely be able to include your child in the activities that you enjoy. There will be times when your child will be able to sit with you while you watch a basketball game or while you read the newspaper or a book aloud. There are even special baby carriers that will enable you to take your baby on walks and hikes. It's a good idea to get to know other people who have recently had babies. They may be able to give you more perspective on this. Remember that it's easy to imagine - and fear - all the free time you may be losing out on when your baby arrives. But you have to wait until your child is born to find out how much you will enjoy spending time with him or her. While your partner is pregnant she is going to be experiencing huge physical, hormonal, and emotional changes, while also grappling with the same life changes that you are. As she deals with these changes, it may affect both of your moods. Moodiness can be tough to deal with no matter what the cause. But your patience and understanding can go a long way. Any hormonal changes that pregnant women tend to experience typically stabilize by the fourth month of pregnancy. You may be able to help her work through any stress she might be feeling about the pregnancy and parenthood. If you're not feeling stable or good about your relationship with your partner, it's a good idea to work through the issues as soon as possible.

Many couples mistakenly think that a baby will bring them together. But a baby can't fix a relationship that is falling apart - that's the job of you and your partner. And the sooner you resolve any issues, or find a way to work together, the sooner you're going to feel more comfortable with your impending parenthood. As you're dealing with all of the stress about fatherhood, there are things you can do to help this scary, abstract prospect seem more real and manageable. If you know other families with newborns and young kids, it may be helpful to spend time with them. If you don't know anyone with a newborn, your partner's doctor or your local childbirth center may be able to put you in touch with other families in your area. It's also a good idea to go with your partner to any doctor appointments that relate to the baby. There you will be able to ask the doctors any questions, gather more information, hear the baby's heartbeat, and see an image of the baby on a sonogram. You may also want to tour the maternity ward at the hospital or birthing center where you plan to have the baby. It may also help you to start preparing your home for the baby by making any needed home improvements or renovations. That way, you can use the skills you already have to help take care of the baby. Remember that anxiety about pregnancy and parenthood is like anxiety you might feel about anything else. It's a good idea to execute the stress-relief strategies that work for you. It may be exercise or immersion in movies, books, music, or sports. Any constructive strategy you have that effectively helps you cope with tension can't hurt here. Remember that millions of guys have  been experiencing - and surviving - fatherhood for millions of years. There's no magic elixir that you have to drink to be a good father, there's no secret handshake, and you're not supposed to just instinctively know how to be a good dad. There are things you can do to prepare for fatherhood and much of it will be on-the-job training. Luckily, there are many resources that can help you get through this. All you have to do is reach out for them.

  Always its good feeling to be a father...and a good feeling of experience to be shown as a GOOD FATHER finally!!!!

I once read in a newspaper that a poor man bought a lottery ticket.He won the first prize of ten lakhs rupees.He was so happy that he went almost mad. If I had won the same lottery I would not go mad. I would use it in the following way.

I would keep five lakhs of rupees for myself. I would invest it wisely in order to get some regular income for myself. the remaining five lakhs I would use for a variety of good and benevolent activities . I would deposit one lakh with H.D.F.C. 15% interest would work out to RS.15,000. I Would give Scholarship of Rs.1000/- each to fifteen bright students of my village to enable them to pursue their studies. there is a very bright student in my village. If he is helped he can become a good engineer. I would use one lakh of rupees for his education.There is a small technical school in my village. It does not get government help it needs. I would give two lakhs of rupees as a donation to it so that it may be able to train more boys of my area who can afterwards get employment.

I still have one lakhs rupees left. I would deposit it in monthly income scheme of the government. I will get Rs.1200 interest per month. I would start adult literacy class and pay two teachers RS.400 each per month. Two hundred rupees per month,I would spend for buying books and notebooks etc,for the adult students and the last two hundred per month i would give to my village reading room for buying newspapers and periodicals.

This is how i would share my fortune with my own village people. The light of Knowledge will spread. There will be hundred percent literacy. On my death-bed i will have the joy of having done some good to my village. Even after my death my good work will continue. I pray to God that I may become a Millionaire.

Mind is divided in two zones:One is Conscious Mind and the other is Sub-Conscious Mind. All our memories are recorded in our MIND. The memory is mental recording,which we replay,whenever there is need. The example of driving a car is good enough to understand the working of Conscious Mind and Sub-Conscious Mind. When we learn to drive a car, we have to remember all steps and we keep on reminding ourselves of all steps like pressing clutch and changing gear,then slowly releasing the clutch by left foot and giving acceleration by our right foot, applying brakes by right foot while pressing clutch by left foot.We have also to take care of hand to change the gear and also look on the road. With a little practice all the steps are stored in our Sub-Conscious Mind and then there is no problem in driving a car.Afterwards driving becomes a pleasant thing for us and automatically all actions are performed without applying our mind.

The above example clearly shows that once our Sub-Conscious Mind is trained, we do not find any difficulty in performing any task.

In order to train our Sub-Conscious Mind, we need to repeat our actions consciously so that they are stored in our Sub-Conscious Mind. Once stored in Sub-Conscious Mind, we can get the desired results without any effort.

There are enormous powers within us and we can get all the desired results by training our Sub-Conscious Mind. Suppose we want HEALTH, we can repeat 'HEALTH..HEALTH'.As already explained we have to repeat this word consciously i.e. our focus should be on this word.Within no time we will feel healthy,since message has been conveyed to our Sub-Conscious Mind that we need Health and IT knows all the ways to give us health.

We can try it for WEALTH also.

In India,we are told to perform MANTRA JAPS.It is repetition of a MANTRA related to some power.We are told to repeat the Mantra by focusing on the words.It means we are consciously repeating a word and of course getting desired results.TRY IT.I will try to discuss it further in details for benefit of our readers.