Being single on valentine may be nothing for some and may be very challenging for few who think of valentine day as a big occassion of love and enjoying with the loved one. For some people valentine day is the Most Romantic day of the year and being single on valentine day for them is very hurting. Valentine day comes every year on 14th Feb and these kinds of feelings of being alone without a partner comes to mind of most of the single.
One should not feel sad or bad that he or she is single on valentine and should not have the feeling of loneliness. One should understand there would be many people in the world who would be single and lonely on the day and he or she is not the only one who is single. May be there will be some one waiting for you too but the time is still yet to come.
Let us look at Some tips to stay happy as single on valentine
1.Enjoy with your family - One can enjoy with their parents , brothers and sisters at their home . Watch out some good movie or may be go out for a dinner. May be he will not feel lonely with his family and not even realise that he or she doesnt have a partner on valentine to enjoy.
2. Think positive - Be positive and confident about yourself. Dont think negative that i lack in something thats why i dont have a partner . Always keep good hopes about the future.
3.Plan a reunion or a adventure - Plan a reunion of some of your old friends may be old school or college friends may be you feel good with them or try to plan out a adventure May be going to a hill station , sea side or any place which you like to go and enjoy
4. Dont be jealous of others or compare yourself with them - Dont be jealous of your friends who have partners . Dont try to compare yourself with them and get upset. Be happy with what you have may be your friends would laugh at your single status just dont listen to others Be happy in your own life.
This tips will not work if you dont apply it on yourself .Just try to be happy with yourself otherwise it will just make you sad and depress.
Once British engineer visited India, the country of Sadhus and snakes. After visiting some important cities, he started for Mumbai, the Gateway of India. When he arrived at the Victoria terminus station, he was amazed at the architecture of the builder. He asked man.” Ye Kaun Banaya”? (Who built it?). Then a gentleman replied,” Maloom Nahin Sahib”. The engineer took out his diary and he wrote in it beautiful words.” The wonderful building of Victoria Terminus was built by an architect: Mr. Maloom Nahin Sahib” He then took its photograph from various angle. When he arrived at Flora Fountain, he was surprised to see the huge building. Again he asked a man, the answer was the same,” Maloom Nahin Sahib.” He thought that the same engineer has built this building too. He thought that the same engineer has built this building this building too. He made up his mind to meet the architect “Mr. Maloom Nahin Sahib” to gain some knowledge of the architecture of these buildings.
One day when the engineer was shopping, he saw a tall, good looking man coming out of a shop. He asked the shopkeeper,” Who Kaun Hai?” The answer was,” Maloom Nahin Sahib”. He thought the person was the same architect whom be desired to meet. He ran to meet him but in vain. Before he reached the place, the man had disappeared.
The next day. When he was passing though Marine Drive, there was a large funeral procession. He called a man and asked.” O Kaun Mara” The answer as it is. “Maloom Nahin Sahib”. He was shocked to know that his great wish to meet architecture remained unfulfilled. He took his hat and bade good bye to Mr. Maloom Nahin Sahib.
Valentine day is celebrated on 14th February celebrating love, care and affection between two lovers.It is celebrated from the time of Roman Empire.In Ancient Rome, Valentine day was celebrated in Ancient Rome to honor the queen of Roman Goddesses and Gods, Juno.Juno was known as Queen of women and marriages.
From 15th Feb there was first day of the festival known as the Feast of Lupercia.On 14th February all the young boys and girls of villages would write their name on a piece of paper and put it in a jar and then every young boy would draw name of a girl from the jar and that girl would be partner for the festival.
Love is the most powerful emotion or feeling . This feeling is celebrately widely all over the world on Valentine day with joy and happiness. Different people celebrate it in different way. Some people gift their loved one's with cholclates, gifts, any thing or some celebrate it by having lunch or dinner . To celebrate valentine day with feeling of romance people love to have candle light dinner on valentine day or going to a beach on it.
Many people in India are against the celebration of Valentine day they think that it against the Indian culture and we are just copying the western culture. They may be also right as many teenagers doesnt understand the meaning of valentine day they show off their love by using wrong ways. Valentine day is celebrated for the glory of love and it should be celebrated properly.
Do you guide your thoughts or are you guided by them? The power of thought is certainly the greatest of all the faculties with which human beings are endowed. A wise man rightly said: " Today we are where our thoughts have led us, and tomorrow we will be where we focus our thoughts."
What is important and interesting to know is that it takes more energy to think negatively than to think positively. A man who feels inferior will gradually attain a similar attitude towards life. Worse yet, your negative thoughts could have an adverse effect on others. If you constantly treat your child like a little monster, then rest assured he will do everything to satisfy your thoughts. Even if one hasn’t been treated well in their youth, it’s not a valid reason to treat other’s the same way. Of course the opposite is also equally true. Love your child and encourage them to be inquisitive and you will be blessed with a compassionate thinking child.
Everything that exists today was originally a thought. Whatever you do, is the result of a positive or negative thought. It's better to learn to control your thoughts than be controlled by it. Positive thoughts help the body produce astonishing energy that enables the body, mind and spirit to work in perfect harmony.
We are constantly having internal conversations within ourselves everyday. How much of those thoughts are constructive? A little introspection will tell you whether your thoughts are helping you move closer to your goals or taking you further away. If your thoughts inspire you, then you may have already mastered the art of self motivation. However, if your thoughts aren’t exactly helping you, then there’s no need to worry. You are like the most of us and your thoughts can still be programmed to direct you in the right direction.
It is true that our thoughts often come from our past experiences. As a child, there might be incidents over which some of us had no control and they continue to influence our thought process. But as an adult we have a choice to let ourselves languish in the past or to take control of our thoughts and sail into the future with confidence. If you develop a habit of positive thinking, the challenges that life tosses at you become much easier to face.
Anyway, there IS nothing special about my winters. actually. Nothing more than being in a quilt, with a blower on... and drinking some EXTRA HOT coffee, or tea!
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