Money is something which man made and now it some what rules there mind and there are some people who are crazy for money. The craze for money is specially increasing among the teenagers . There may be many reasons for it but this craze may not have a good effect .Let us have a look at some of the reasons which are affecting the minds of teenagers and making them crazy for money.
1. Jealousy - Jealousy is a major reason which is making many teenagers crazy for having money . When teenagers see their friends and other guys and girls having bikes, wearing costly dresses, carrying costly gadgets they feel jealous that why they think why they dont have what other have? why cant they also have it? This all things in their mind make them crazy for money. They start thinking about ways which can help them to make good money. If they fail to get any way to earn they may also get indulgedin bad activities.
2 . Craze for carrying High cost products - Some teenagers feel inferior when they see others carrying high cost products like costly bikes, costly mobile phone. They think that they want to be superior than others by status and they need to carry the costliest gadgets among their friends.This craze for carrying costly products make them try to search for ways which could give them big amount of money.
3. To fulfill their wishes - Some teenagers wish to have bikes and cars . They have various wishes like to have many cars or riding a racing bike on the road at high speed . All such wishes make teenagers go crazy for money.
4. Influenced by television and movies - Many teenagers get influenced by television and movies. In many movies and tv serials they see people in the same family figthing for money and property . These all things effect the teenagers and they also want to have more of money and more wealth. These days there are many bollywood songs which have words like money, paisa and all which infuences the teenagers a lot.
There are various reasons which effect the minds of teenagers and this all reason leads to changes in a teenager and he starts thinking always of having more and more money.
Parents should be strict some times with their children . If Parents give complete freedom to their children they can go out of their hand. If parents are not strict with their children their children doesn't hear to them and do things they want to according to their wish . Parents some time think that if they shout on their children or behave strictly with their children it will hurt their children, make them sad or even spoil their relation with them.
Parents should make a time table for their children for their hobbies , sports, going outdoors with friends , watching television etc. Maintaining a proper schedule for different things will help their children to concentrate on studies and enjoy life also. If parents try to rule our their children or fully restrict them they may then also get out of their control as doing anything over is wrong. That goes same with restriction put on children .
Some children hate being restricted in doing some things as they think that they have grown enough to have freedom and do things they like but they may be wrong as thus they are thinking of enjoying their life and not their future carrier. As one grows up and build sa good carrier he then remembers the shouting's he received from his parents which helped him to achieve what he has got. He then realised if his parents didn't control him then he would have achieved such things in life.
Whenever parents expect a lot from their children or shout at them just to get good marks it may harm their children emotionally and thats why their are cases seen of suicides done by children. Their should be good relationship maintained between the parents and children and parents should understand the capability and interests of their children .
Parents should't support the children in wrong things they should be totally against it as if children start doing wrong things they may keep doing it through their entire life. I have heard about some cases where children have been caught copying in exams and parents supported their children by saying lies like their child was practicing on the writing pad or some body else was copying from my child and my thats why my child got caught. Parents shouldn't allow their children to do or try wrong things like smoking, drinking alcohol or any kind of bad activity.
Thus to conclude i would like to say that parents should be strict in some matters with that children and in some matters parents can also behave calmly with their children and explain them what they want.
This is my first ever article I write on boddunan about one secrets of life .Yeah..That is about secret behond positive thinking.I think this will be my one of best postings in boddunan. Apart from this,the article has nice scenario explaining “why you should think positively??”.Perhaps I believe that u will also develop the habit of positive thinking.
People surrounding me always been reading and hearing people saying “Think positive” . Yes I do think positive but I never knew the exact reason why one should think positive. I think positive because it makes me feel better. This is how I look at it. Suppose there are two people aspiring to reach their destinations. They both start at a point A and have to get to point B. One of them is very positive about the results and the other one is all pessimistic about the results. In most of the cases we spend like 90% of the time to get to the destination and stay at the destination for like 10% of the time and then the next journey begins. One who is thinking positive about the destination is all happy during the journey. His mind just knows that it will gets what it wants. He is cheerful all the time. The negative person is continously telling himself “i wont be able to get to the destination, there are so many problems in life , Life sucks”. At this point none of them knws for sure whether they will get to their destination. But the positive person had made 90% of his life already happy . It doesnt matter whether he will get to the destination, he has already succeeded. Lets see how Mr Negative is doing . He is thinking only about negative things. His 90% of life is already screwed thinking crap and negative thoughts about the destination. Now even if he gets to his destination, he is a failure. So by thinking positive you can surely make 90% of your life better if not 100%.
I knew all this but what I didn’t know was the Law Of Affinity, which says similar incidents attract each other. One who is thinking positive is attracting only positive incidents like meeting some nice peple on the way, beautiful things and more learning. This negative person is having all negative thoughts and attracting similar negative incidents like flat tire, accidents and other unpleasant events which makes his belief stronger that Life sucks.
Sometimes I used to have arguments with some pessimist people . They would say that I think positive because my life has been full of positive events and I havnt seen many hardships in my life. They think negative because of what they have seen in their lives. People have left comments on one of the posts saying the same thing. I used to think “Yes they are right. Probably I have seen mostly positive things in my life so I am a positive person” . Now I realize that I was not thinking positive because positive things happen in my life instead I think positive so I attract positive incidents and life has been all full of positive events. Either the incident was positive or my way of looking at it was positive. Both the things make life beautiful. Everybody gets his share of problems and happiness. But when we face some problem in life like loss of job, loss of a dear one and we continuously think of these negative events of our life we are indeed attracting more such negative incidents making our life worse. This is the reason that people who crib like ” I have no money, I dont have a good job , my life sucks , my partner doesnt love me ” continue to attract negative incidents and continue to crib throughout their lives.
This is not some philosphy but there is whole science behind this law of affinity. I dont want to stretch this post but the words you say has lotta impact on how you feel and what incidents you are attracting. You have no idea how much power the words you speak have. When you say “I m tired ” , that itself saps off your energy. When you says “Not doing grt man ” , smile goes off fro your face .When you say “Life sucks” , it indeed start sucking. When I say “Life is Beautiful” , it indeed becomes beautiful.
Even today I cant think of one good reason why one should think negative or say negative words. For some people positive thinking comes naturally but other can always and always make concious effort to think positive and hence make life more beautiful.
Life is beautiful and will always be fine...
This anonymous word "GAP".I have seen it in many T-shirts..What is this???
GAP is a term I have coined and it stands for Guy or a Girl with Attitude Problem. Here is a management story and the climax is open for discussion.
A and B are working for a company and A terms B a GAP. Given below are the reasons for it.
a) Personal – Sometime back, B passed a sportive comment about A in front of others and A did not like it. A resorts to passing degrading personal comments about B in front of others. B was sportive enough to brush them off subtly. A becomes furious and the grudge volcano in him starts boiling.
b) Professional – B reports to A and A is the authoriative person to take decision in his project. B suggests certain changes to the process and substantiates the same with necessary facts and details. A does not understand this and snubs B. After a while, A finds that B is correct and makes changes and takes credit for the same. A also thinks that B may overtake him and by this time, the grudge volcano in him is ready to explode.
c) Cheap - A commands B to do a personal job for him. B refuses it. A explains B how one should do all this to climb up the corporate ladder et all. B listens patiently and says to A that he does not want to climb up the ladder at all if he had to resort to cheap ways. The grudge volcano explodes and the climax is, B is termed a
The God is standing in front of me & I was trying to convince him, Like I do with my boss, Neither a quarrel nor an attitude of enemy; it's just the effort to make others understand my point of view! So I did it with the God also... God & I were face to face.. & I was trying to convince him that, “dear God you've created lots of hurdles to earn the 'Gyan'! don't you think so?
After spending half of our life we get realized that we actually wasted our lives. We were trying to grab those things which are like crap!" God was smiling with smirk on his face, like lord Krishna use to looks in every image.
Then I told god "no god it's not ending here, after this realization the next complex comes to my mind that, to grab these crap, or to entertain our selves, or for any other reason, we damaged Nature, we add fuel to Global warming, we did harmful things to men & coming generations as well.? God was absolutely shocked! "Our realization is not enough to make these losses compensate? lots of species of trees, birds, animals, etc. are about to vanish, many of them are already gone...
If my realization is coming after anybody?s death; then that’s also a Crap! Means before & after this realization we are earning only crab! God please give us 'Gyan' before we create mess anymore!" And you know what I make God to think about it. He came with smirk, but went with commitment on his face. No matter though it was a Dream!!!
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