The mind is always full of thoughts and ideas. It is a bundle of thoughts. Desires are born in the mind. Thoughts are born in the mind. The mind is like a fertile field. A fertile field always yields good crop. In the same way, the mind yields thoughts.
Good seeds yield good crops. Bad seeds yield poor crops. So it is with the mind. If you sow good things in the mind, read good books, hear good music, have good company, good thoughts are born. If you don’t sow good thoughts, read bad books, have bad company, the mind will be overrun with thorny bushes, bad thoughts take over.
The mind is a very powerful instrument. If you make up your mind, you can win even when it seems as though you might lose. If you make up your mind, you will always be victorious. When the mind is free from worldly desires, then it does not care for wealth and fame. But if it is burdened by the cares of the world, then no matter how much money the person has, he remains dissatisfied.
A person who is weak in mind trembles with fear even in his own home. Physical strength is no power at all. Mental strength is true power. Most people are afraid when they chance upon a lion in the jungle. A person who has a strong mind is not afraid. Everybody should be mentally strong.
It does not matter who you are: student or teacher, doctor or software engineer, housewife or social activist, man or woman. You need mental strength to cure diseases. You need mental strength to create new software. You need mental strength to guide your family. You need mental strength to reform the society. You need mental strength to climb Mount Everest.
A weak mind makes a hundred excuses. Success comes from within. Victory and defeat exist in our mind. Take the case of Henry Frost. He lost his eye in an accident. His father was very depressed. But Henry was not. He said, “Don’t worry about me, father. The blindness will not stand in the way of success.” He grew up to become a member of British parliament.
Thus you know that your mind holds the key. It makes you weak. It makes you strong. Your mind should be firm and resolute. If you can control your mind, you can build for yourself a very bright future. It is fact. Victory and defeat lie in the mind.
A cute story about a legend.
According to the theories proposed by a child whose school considered him to be a below normal IQ person, there exists a man whose fame spreads beyond the boundaries. Niether the boundaries of his state or country nor the boundaries of this planet or universe can control his fame; but his fame spreads beyond the boundaries of time.
Yes, his name is known by all.... he is Mr. Albert Einstein.
In a vast list of amazing incidences in his life, i would like to mention one incident which i believe is really the best one. So here we go........
One day, Einstein had to go to a college for lecture. No one knew how he looked. Einstein was not feeling well that day. So he decided to send his driver for that lecture with a few precautional guidelines.
After a fruitful negotiation his driver agreed to go and take that lecture. So both of them exchanged their clothes quickly. His driver feeling confident in the new suit went to take the lecture.
Soon he realised that its not a walk in the park. Because one of the students had some query regarding a very difficult topic. Quickly, the driver in the disguise of Einstein made up a very smart answer. He said in a firm voice "this question is so easy that even my driver can answer this." and he called his driver (i.e. Einstein). And the rest is history.
This story is very close to my heart because it reminds me of my engineering days, where the teachers asked us questions and we made all the smart answers ;)
Good progress is the combination of physical and mental development. Distraction is natural one. It is difficult to give full attention to one thing for a long time. But we must try to do it. Swami Vivekananda has said: “The mind is like a spoilt child. The spoilt child is always dissatisfied. The mind is also always dissatisfied. This is why we should not spoil the mind. We must keep it under control.” But it is very difficult to control the mind.
The mind is as still as the mountain. The mind is as wavering as a tree. The mind is like a blade of grass – it is carried aloft by the gentlest breeze.
Those who are like the mountain are strong-minded. They are firm. Those who are like the tree are not so strong-minded. They waver, but they manage to steady themselves.
Those who are like the blade of grass are fickle-minded. They give in to all the temptations and distractions of the world.
If a student keeps getting distracted, it is clear that he will take a long time to learn anything. Since he gives in to temptations, it is quite likely that he will get misled. If an employee getting distracted mind, he looses his responsibility.
The mind has one very good quality. We can train it well. If it enjoys doing something, it will always do that thing well. It will not forget. So, we should try to train it in the right direction. The mind can work wonders. If the mind gets used to good habits and good things, it will never turn towards bad habits and bad things.
The fact also is that the mind is really a person. The best way to keep you from getting distracted is to be busy. An idle mind is a devil’s workshop. So, don’t let your mind be idle. Keep yourself busy all the time. Do something all the time.
It is important to have a healthy mind as well as healthy body. If your body is engaged in work continuously, it remains healthy, In the same way, keep the mind absorbed in something – it will remain healthy.
Winston Churchill was a very famous Prime minister of England. He used to work 18 hours a day. He was once asked if he ever got worried. “I have so much work to do,” he replied, “that I don’t have the time to worry.”
The well known scientist Louis Pasteur has said that peace can be found in only two places – the library or the laboratory. You are so absorbed in your work in both these places that you simply do not have time to waste. Involve yourself completely in your work. Make your mind your slave.
Of course, you cannot be working or studying all the time. But you can be busy all the time. Play for a while; clean your room; wash your clothes; bring vegetables from the market; polish your shoes; and do some gardening.
Swami Shraddhananda once said that instead of letting the mind idle, it was better to tear apart your shirt and stitch it up all once again! All that he meant was that you must keep yourself busy. You keep the mind so busy that it hardly gets time to think of useless things.
The history of mankind in certain aspects resembles the story of the wolf and the lamb. We have read the history of the Romans who were fond of throwing slaves to the lions and enjoying the ‘fun’. Those who wielded power oppressed the poor, extracted labor from them and lived on the profit. In the meanwhile, some strong men started exchanging the poor people and getting remuneration for it, calling it commission etc. Finally they started selling them as commodities. Human beings were sold and bought in the market like rice, fish, vegetables or cattle. Condemning such mean and inhuman dealings the Quran declared: “…He (the Prophet) will relieve them of their burden and the fetters they used to wear” (7:157). However, slavery was not some thing that could be eradicated just by declaration. First, Islam exhorted the people that it does not approve of slavery and that it was going to destroy the system. The Prophet declared that no one should call a person kept under him as “my slave” (Bukhari). Similarly, the slaves were prohibited from calling a person ‘my master’ or ‘my guardian’.
We all wish that prohibition is implemented. Many Governments have expressed themselves in favor of such a step. Still, it was not been possible for Government to implement it. The reason is clear. It is a problem intimately connected with the economic and social life of the people. When this problem is touched upon, one will have to face the problem of economic disaster. Hence action is being taken very slowly in this field.
Similarly, if slavery is abolished at one stroke, the result would be to destroy their financial status and structure over night. The number of slaves was very large, and it was not possible for the Islamic administration in those days to pay ransom to their masters. In such a situation it was hardly possible to free all the slaves straight away.
There was yet another forbidden problem. Job opportunities in the field of agriculture and labor were rare. In such a situation it would have almost upset the lives of millions of people, if they were all on a sudden freed from their masters. Islam showed tact, diplomacy and wisdom in dealing with this difficult problem. It prepared a phased plan to put an end to the problem gradually.
The Quran strictly forbade prisoners of war being sold or kept as slaves. “Either free them (the prisoners) showing generosity or on getting ransom” (47:4) - this was the Quran’s ruling in the matter. There is no evidence anywhere to show that the Prophet or his followers at any time kept any prisoner of war as a slave.
Thus the Quran stopped slave-trade at its source. What remained was the existing slave. The Quran prepared a scheme to free them too.
- The Prophet went on advising the people who were keeping slaves to free them. Thus many slaves became free. First, it was the Prophet himself who set an example. He freed his own slave Zaid Bit Harith.
- An important source of revenue under an Islamic government is Zakat. The Quran ordered that 1/8 of this income should be set apart to free the slaves.
- The Quran gave the right to the slaves to enter into an agreement with their masters to the effect that on payment of a stipulated sum they should be set free. It was also laid down that a share of this ransom should be given by the master himself. (24:33).
- There was the custom of lascivious masters using the bondwoman for adultery. This was forbidden completely (24:33) Then the Quran ordered that the slave women should be married off (24: 32) besides, the compensation stipulated for some crimes, is that slaves should be bought and freed. Some examples of such cases are cited below.
- If during war one kills a Muslim accidentally, the compensation prescribed is setting a slave free and giving compensation to the family.
- If during a war between a Muslim country and its enemy, a Muslim accidentally kills a person who happens to be a Muslim, a slave should be freed in penance.
- If a Muslim accidentally kills a member of a community that is on treaty with the Muslims, the compensation prescribed is freeing a slave (4:92).
- Of one breaks an oath, one way to make amends is freeing a slave. (5:86)
- In a fit of rage, one takes an oath that he would not touch his wife and then in saner moments, wants to go back on his words; he should free a slave before going to her. (58: 3).
- Earlier the law was that if a slave killed a free man, the slave as well as another member of his family should be killed as punishment. Islam abrogated this and ruled that if a slave kills somebody else, he (the slave) alone should be killed and none else, thus bringing about uniform penal procedure for slaves and others.
Besides this, the slaves were given citizenship by Islam and some conditions were imposed in the matter of making them work (Bukhari). It was ruled that marriages and divorces involving bondmen were to be effected only with their consent. (4:25)(also Ibn Maja-Kithabuthalaq). The Prophet declared that a Negro was entitled to obedience (as much as anyone else) if he comes to rule over Muslims on the basis of the Quran (Bhukhai). Zaid, son of former slave, was appointed General of Muslim Army, when even Umer and others like him were only ordinary soldiers in that army.
Thus the number of slaves in Arabia was gradually bought down. At the same time, the means by which slaves came to being was closed. When the above provisions regarding the slaves were made, some people thought that the Quran was recognizing the system of slaves. They did not consider the circumstances and the situation that were prevailing in Arabia 13 centuries ago. The steps taken by the Quran were intended to put an end to the system of slavery and not to retain it. It is to be noted that the provisions laid down by Islam are applicable not only to Arabia but for the whole world.
Steps taken to root out slavery.
By the time Umer came in to power financial strain of the administration was nearly over. Immediately, he wanted to plan to eradicate slavery completely. He gave orders to his officials to collect details regarding the slaves in Arabia, their number, previous history, etc. Accordingly, they submitted a detailed report to the Caliph in the matter. When this report was received, he freed all the slaves of Arabia and paid compensation to their owners. The slaves were sending back to their homes.
This incident is reported by the reputed scholar, Imam Aboo Ubaid (who lived nearly 1100 years ago.) in his book “Kithabul Amwal”. He has recorded that all the persons who were prisoners of war and kept as slaves during the Dark Ages and the children born to women among them were all freed and sent back to their families by Umer (p.133). The compensation was at the rate of 100 dirhams or five camels. Thus all the slaves existing in Arabia were set free with none left behind. There was no chance for new slaves to enter the scene since the Quran had already stopped the practice of keeping the prisoners of war as slaves.
The expression in the Quran meaning “those, whom your right hands have possessed” has been taken by some to mean slaves. This is a simple misunderstanding. The word ‘malaka’ means ‘possessed’, and ‘ayamani’ means right hands. The first word is often used in Arabia to mean ‘exerted self control’. Many examples for this are cited in dictionaries like Munjid, Qamoos, Mufradathul Quran, Asasul Bulagath etc. The Quran itself has used this word with this meaning in the passages: 5:25; 5:76; 10:31; 20:89; 34:42; 43:86; 48:11; 5:41; 7:188; 10:50; 60:4; 72:21; 13:16; 17:56; 17:100; 19:87; 25:3; and 29:17;. In this context, the passage which is generally translated as ‘those your right hands have possessed’ would mean ‘those who live under your control’. Imam Zemakshari, the famous Quran commentator has particularly pointed out that the term ‘those your right hands have possessed’ is only a metaphorical usage.
Once when Umer heard that an administrator had treated his subjects as if they were inferior, the Caliph warned him and asked him: ‘All people were free when they were given birth by their mothers. When did you begin keeping them as slaves? (Husnul Muhalara 2:1)
Keeping Concubines:
There was in the Dark ages the system of keeping slave women as concubines. No distinction could be seen here between a Muslim and non-Muslim. What mattered was the whim of the rich and the lords and not the ruling given by any religion. There is no evidence anywhere in the Quran sanctioning such a practice of keeping slave women without marrying them.
Those who were not able to marry free women and support them were allowed to marry slave women. (4:25). Being used to a nomadic life, the slave women had no self-respect left in them-not to speak of high qualities or noble thoughts. Hence there was the likelihood of their children begetting their qualities. That is why the Quran ordered that those who could afford to do so should not marry from this sector.
Those who are financially weak can marry the slave women. But there is no difference in such cases in the formalities to be observed. The Quran has ordered:”….So wed them by permission of their folk, and give unto them their portions in kindness, they being honest, not debauched nor of loose conduct…” (4:25).
The Quran’s order is not to buy and sell slaves as commodities but to provide that (1) slave women should be married; (2) ‘Mahr’ should be given in the case of these women also; and (3) As in the case of other women, those who marry off these women should be their guardians. People who say that Islam sanctions the system of keeping slave women are unaware of the significant provisions made by Islam in this regard. In the places where marriage is mentioned, the category, “of women who are under your control” is specially mentioned, which makes some people think they should not marry slave women. In fact, mentioning this category specifically is significant. As has been stated earlier, they are a category that has lost its morale and status. Hence, they should be treated separately as far as possible. Islam’s strategy is to isolate that category, arrange marriages among themselves, and raise them to a higher status gradually.
You are born alone. You die alone. Then why seek the help of others during life? When you are sad, you experience the sorrow yourself. When you are happy, you experience the joy yourself. Don’t you walk on the strength of your own two feet? The truth is that you are your own best helper. “God helps those who help themselves.” You are responsible for your own success or failure. It depends upon your self-confidence. If you lose your self-confidence, you lose the game. If you build self-confidence, you win. Besides, if you do not have confidence in yourself, how can a second person give you any help?
If you want to walk, you have to use your feet. The moment you become dependent on someone else, you lose your self-confidence. And unless you have self-confidence, you cannot be successful. Help yourself, you will succeed.
Have you not heard the story of the bird and the farmer? So long as the farmer waited for someone to come along and harvest his field for him, the bird lived comfortably with her chicks. She had nothing to fear because she knew no one would come to help the farmer and her nest would remain safe. One day, the farmer and his son decided to harvest the crop themselves. The bird was forced to find another nesting spot.
Of course your mother, father, brothers, sisters, and friends – all of them will come to your aid. But their effort is very small and temporary. It cannot last for ever. Look at the huge figures made during Dussehra. They stand up with the help of ropes. But they are quite flimsy and one strong wind can blow them off. Now look at the tree. How straight and strong it stands. This is because it stands on its own roots. You too must learn to stand on your own feet.
Do you know what makes you strong? God has given you hope, courage, patience, self-confidence, fearlessness, calmness and so many good qualities. How can you be alone? When you read about the lives of great leaders, you realize how you must live.
When Gandhiji went to South Africa, Indians there were being treated very badly because of the color differences in that country. He was the first person to fight racialism.
On March12, 1930, when he undertook the now famous Dandi March from Sabarmathi in order to break the salt law. People did not even imagine that by merely walking up to the sea and making salt, it was possible to win freedom from the British. Gandhiji managed to shake the foundations of the British empire in India by his action.
Even now thousands of people from all over India go to Hardwar for the Kumbh Mela. They believe that if they bathe in the river Ganges during the Kumbh Mela, all their sins will be washed away.
Swami Dayanand was a social reformer. He saw how people were being fooled into believing this was true. He was troubled by their blind faith. So, when people collected at Hardwar, he stood up and declared to them: “Good people, the images you worship are made of stone. They have no life. They will not make any of your wishes come true. You cannot wash your sins away in this water. Water cannot wash off the dirt in your heart. You must purify your heart for that. Do not run behind pandits and purohits. Run away from them.”
These reformers were all alone. When these people can go ahead alone and turn the rising crowd from the path they feel wrong, can you not help even yourself? Did not these people put forth the example that nothing is impossible for even a single soul.
The lion always walks alone. It is the sheep that keep in a herd. Have faith in yourself. Believe in yourself. Trust yourself. You cannot climb Mount Everest if you depend on others. Remember, you are not alone. You have yourself.
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