Love is a feeling of mind that creates a pleasant sensation in mind. After birth a newborn loves warmth, sucking breast, feed, fullness of stomach, mom’s face, light, sound, gradually love goes on expanding… toys, dad, relations, friends, home, city, nation, nature,

The person you love varies with time – mom, grandpa-granny-friend-lover-spouse-child-grandchild.

Thing you love varies – toy, a thing that cost Rs 10 when you were 5years age, later it’s a dress 5000 or a car of 5lacs or a house 5crores…..even one may love one’s small hut.

One loves coz feeling of love makes him / her happy. Person or things vary, but feeling is same.

Actually LOVE is always without expectation.

When you expect return from d person you love, its no more ‘love’, its business, like any buy n sell, I give you this, so you give me that in turn. Don’t mistake it as love, its selfishness, that’s you want something in exchange you give.

So love can never hurt you, that goes against definition. What hurts is expectation, fear of non-fulfillment of that expectation and sorrow of lack of self-gratification. So whatever you may name it, be sure it is not LOVE.

Of course girls have hearts, even transgender eunuchs too have hearts, or else how oxygen glucose will be carried to different parts of body? No living being can be heartless, we need it for pumping blood / circulating fluid throughout body. (this organ beats fast under influence

adrenaline secreted in emotions - like fear, lust, anger, jealousy, sorrow .so often people link 'love' with heart).

Do you mean boys don’t need money? Of course everyone needs money. It depends on one’s satisfaction threshold, whether one is contented with what he has, or suffers from dissatisfaction. satisfaction is also a positive feeling of mind like ‘love’ that creates pleasantness in mind.