Is one day enough to know a person completely ? his likes, dislikes, favourites and his overall persona OR it takes months to know him ? Or may be years?

This is really a tough thing to tell. The days never count to judge a person on his personal and professional ground. It might be a case when we consider ourself to better know a person but after few years of friendship we realise that he was not the one of whom we made a subtle image in our mind . That day becomes a nightmare and that friend becomes a stranger.

 

 

Sad but this is true as it is one of my personal experience and have heard of such incidents from other lives too. It takes few days to know the person’s habits,likes and dislikes but it takes years to know why exactly that person was or is in your life.

 

The only solution for not being backstabbed or be cheated upon by the behaviour of others is to not let yourself be taken for granted . Its good to befreind people but you cannot know them completely unless you stay with them day and night long. Never indulge in an emotional relationship with such person whom you are not sure of. It hurts more when you consider yourself knowing your friend completel and believe in him blindly but at the end of the day you realise that you were really blind to be easily fooled upon.

 

Its very true that if you have a group of seven friends then only one or two out of them would be your loyal and special friends. The concept goes like this – Never get attached to everybody around you as you cannot make everybody happy . Go out and make friends , enjoy life with them going parties and hangouts and endless gossips but make sure you  have the courage to let the person be the way he is and does not make a differen image of his in the back of your mind.