We expect to do a lot of things in our life. But no deed of us moves forward. So we need to have a stable goal. But the plan which we follow may not be right. How much we try to move forward in our career and studies. But our thoughts end up to our imagination only and they never come true. In this whole world, the crores of people have the same situation. If we want to know where people go wrong then we need to study about them.
Though we work well, but we feel tension whether we get promotion or not. Though we study well, but we fear whether we will get good result or not. When we don’t have confidence and belief in our success then it is unnecessary to expect it. We should make up our mind in such a way that we can achieve anything we want. If we have this feeling in our mind then only we can wait for our success. Whatever we tell to our mind that will be performed. If we order our brain without any belief then we will get result according to it. But most of the people think negatively and oppositely.
No change in imagination
Within next 5 years there won’t be any change of your position at your work place. But also we continue working. So we relax, that there is no change is going happen. But we cannot expect what will happen in the next minute in our life. Many people fail in facing such situations. Most of the people think, if any change occurs then that change becomes an obstacle for their further development. So people are not getting ready to welcome the changes into their life.
Sometime your opinion may be a mistake
We may not know what is going to happen the next minute and even tomorrow. We may feel that is it necessary to work hard now. These kinds of feelings separate winners from normal people. Some people don’t care to have any recognition in the society and world. Such people mind settles that there is nothing more to achieve in this world for them. But when you aim or expect people should recognize you in a particular manner then you will have good result and you need to work hard by following correct plan to achieve it with stable goal.
Everything is in our hands
When our finger gets a cut while chopping vegetables or fallen from the vehicle, we say “nothing is in our hands”. Telling this saying has become a routine to the people. We say “whatever happens, happens for our good and benefit, everything god will look after” and leave the situation. But we never try to change the situations. Most of the people believe, whatever is happening in life, contains some unknown reasons and everything has a reason. But they lose the situation. Most of the people pass their time saying nothing is in our hands. When we feel everything is in our hands. Then only we can change the situations. Then without our effort some problems get solved by themselves. Remaining we need to struggle and face them then finally solve them.
Some people feel that they got jobs and their life got settled and it is enough for them. But if there is an opportunity and people are not moving forward then it is known as real failure. Feeling satisfied is good. But we should improve our satisfaction capacity. When we achieve new things then the success of everyone’s satisfaction will be yours.
Another journey:
If you believe that you have achieved highest position and there no other thing to achieve. Then you need to start another journey (That means another stream). Actually there is no highest position. It may be studies, job, knowledge anything you feel, you achieved highest position then you need to start another field. Because the topics which made you feel satisfied may make you bore after some days. If you don’t want to be out of this satisfaction feeling, then you need to go for another field. The people who know what to achieve then they will also know how to move forward. These are the reasons which stop most of the people from achieving their goals. When we know our defects clearly. It is not hard to overcome them and achieves our goals and dreams.