No, I did no loose if you won
Never should one think that if he won means that the opponent lost. The winner only used his abilities better than the one who lost. This is not wise to feel and show that you are the proud winner. This is better to take your success normally. This is still better to get prepared for the tougher competition that one may face in the future. Be ready for that. This is the new challenge that keeps us active and prepared to reach to new heights. I know this is too tough to be a winner every time but if one is prepared there is no reason to loose any battle that life has on offer on every step.
Yes, one has to loose if the other wins that is part of the game because both cannot win at the same time. However, that does not mean that the other one lost forever, he is going to come back with new tactics and planning so be prepared to face him, there is no other way to block him but get prepared in a better way. One can do that just by updating his abilities and willingness to win. That is only possible while you try your best to achieve your best. One has to give his every thing to be a winner, an undisputed winner. In addition, trust me this is not only you who wins the race but the whole team that you are a member of gets its benefits. Because you being one of the most important part of the team which you are leading or managing.
Dreams are must
I was participating in a forum where members were discussing about dreams, daydreams and open-eyed dreams. They did not understand my point when I said that even day dreaming is an important part of the planning that may take us to places. What I feel that we plan it there for the future success while we dream, daydream. Unless our mind works on a particular plan, how can we take it ahead? Every one must dream big to plan for the future of a project for his company, family or whatever he intends to do in future. One can never succeed without a plan and plans take a shape in ones mind. Plans always take a shape while you are active thinking about them and for me that is daydreaming.
One gets wiser with experiences
Yes that is right, dreams are your real driving force and you dream bigger as much you grow. You learn from your experiences. You know about your dreams and planning. You also know that this is not possible to achieve every dream due to some or the other problems. Anyway, you certainly know about your limitations and capacity. Try to enhance your capacity because that is the main factor and driving force as long as your success rate is concerned. This is possible up to some extent that you might change your way of working if you face some problems completing a particular plan. However, never cease to dream big if you really want to achieve your targets. There is no way you can reach there unless you have no program to do that. This is like a drawing you did with a black pencil, now this is time to color them with right shades.
Never Give-up
The way to success is tough. A time would make you feel to runaway from every thing leaving your project behind. You may even reach to a breaking point. That would be the real time of your test. You shall have only two options. You shall either have to back-out and leave every thing and regret it later or face it with all your might. The best part of the hardships we face is that make us more determined, more strong. I know all of us are talented and capable but we cannot reach to our destination with that quality alone. One must have determination and willingness to succeed. That is one of the important factors to reach to the top. Some people stop thinking and planning after getting a little bit of success thinking that they have reached to their desired destination. That is not the right way. The process of success never ends; in fact, the ones who feel satisfied too soon never go beyond a certain point.
Boasting is dangerous
I am not ashamed of accepting that I am not aware of a particular thing. I am not a perfect one yet, I would never be. No one is perfect in one life as one life is not enough. One can attain some qualities and some knowledge but not all. Therefore boasting of knowing all would only make us laughing stock nothing else. The time is all about information technology and every thing is available online. Still there is no one in the world who knows it all. As the saying goes, ‘one learns some thing until he breathes his last’ therefore boasting is no good even for the one who may deserve it.
Be happy to do things in a better way
I am someone who made the surroundings lighter in my workplace. I never acted big unless someone not made me to do that. I even acted funny to keep things in a playful way. All right, we should take things seriously while it comes to work but we also need some humor and positive attitude to make atmosphere of an organization in a pleasant mode. We can always work as a team if we keep the environment light and happy. Some people turn it too heavy by acting too big and inserting their solo importance. They cannot see others emerging and chipping in with their participation. That can be lethal, start infighting, and finish the organization. So no more infighting please, that would never work for taking the project ahead.
This is not leadership
One should always know the meaning of leadership. A good leader is our best friend; he is the one who leads us from the front in every way. A good leader always tries to give every one of his team a chance to make good suggestions. This is not necessary that you are the only one who knows it all because you are in charge of the team. Others are also qualified to do the job because they are here in the team based on their qualifications. Just try them out, they might prove to be useful for your team. They can add new ideas to your project. They are part of a team and treated like that. They certainly want to do their best provided you show your trust in them and let them make their contribution.