Respect and love in a relationship? In which percentage will you divide????

There is more respect and less love for elders, fifty fifty for equals and more less and less respects for younger and children. You may love a kid 95% and respect 5%. You may respect grandfather 80% and love 20%. Your respect and love for wife and girl friend will be fifty fifty.

But such component cannot be exactly calculated as this is not a mix like cement and sand. .

Yet, let us see how much, each of our members respect others :unsure: :unsure: :unsure: :evil: :evil: :evil: :cheer: :cheer:

Yet, let us see how much, each of our members respect others :unsure: :unsure: :unsure: :evil: :evil: :evil: :cheer: :cheer:

What do you like more- love or respect? You love because you like and you respect because you fear. I do not fear any one. So, why respect? I love all.

Yet, let us see how much, each of our members respect others :unsure: :unsure: :unsure: :evil: :evil: :evil: :cheer: :cheer:

What do you like more- love or respect? You love because you like and you respect because you fear. I do not fear any one. So, why respect? I love all.

But I always have a feel in mind, relations won't grow stronger, if at least 1% respect factor is not added to it. Even our friends, if we respect and appreciate their nice decisions and ideas, he will also give the same.
That's why it's told, "Give respect and take respect" :) :)

I don't know the unit of love and respect. Thus I can't measure it or divide it according to percentage. I love my family and respect my family. I don't know how much or how less I love and respect them, not known to me.

Yet, let us see how much, each of our members respect others :unsure: :unsure: :unsure: :evil: :evil: :evil: :cheer: :cheer:

What do you like more- love or respect? You love because you like and you respect because you fear. I do not fear any one. So, why respect? I love all.

But I always have a feel in mind, relations won't grow stronger, if at least 1% respect factor is not added to it. Even our friends, if we respect and appreciate their nice decisions and ideas, he will also give the same.
That's why it's told, "Give respect and take respect" :) :)

There is a famous couplet composed by a devotional saint poet- Bhaya bin na hoye preet gopal (There is no devotion without fear). Thus there is no respect without fear (may be small).

Yet, let us see how much, each of our members respect others :unsure: :unsure: :unsure: :evil: :evil: :evil: :cheer: :cheer:

What do you like more- love or respect? You love because you like and you respect because you fear. I do not fear any one. So, why respect? I love all.

But I always have a feel in mind, relations won't grow stronger, if at least 1% respect factor is not added to it. Even our friends, if we respect and appreciate their nice decisions and ideas, he will also give the same.
That's why it's told, "Give respect and take respect" :) :)

There is a famous couplet composed by a devotional saint poet- Bhaya bin na hoye preet gopal (There is no devotion without fear). Thus there is no respect without fear (may be small).

Sir, your idea is not clear to me. :dry: :dry:

Can you tell me, how respect is related to a feeling of fear?
Also, those whom we fear most.....I don't think we will love or respect them..... :evil: :evil: :evil:

Yet, let us see how much, each of our members respect others :unsure: :unsure: :unsure: :evil: :evil: :evil: :cheer: :cheer:

What do you like more- love or respect? You love because you like and you respect because you fear. I do not fear any one. So, why respect? I love all.

But I always have a feel in mind, relations won't grow stronger, if at least 1% respect factor is not added to it. Even our friends, if we respect and appreciate their nice decisions and ideas, he will also give the same.
That's why it's told, "Give respect and take respect" :) :)

There is a famous couplet composed by a devotional saint poet- Bhaya bin na hoye preet gopal (There is no devotion without fear). Thus there is no respect without fear (may be small).

Sir, your idea is not clear to me. :dry: :dry:

Can you tell me, how respect is related to a feeling of fear?
Also, those whom we fear most.....I don't think we will love or respect them..... :evil: :evil: :evil:

We obviously do not love whom we fear. But there may be some element of fear also. We often fear the elders in family, priests in temples and teachers in school. This fears leads to respectful behavior. .

Yet, let us see how much, each of our members respect others :unsure: :unsure: :unsure: :evil: :evil: :evil: :cheer: :cheer:

What do you like more- love or respect? You love because you like and you respect because you fear. I do not fear any one. So, why respect? I love all.

But I always have a feel in mind, relations won't grow stronger, if at least 1% respect factor is not added to it. Even our friends, if we respect and appreciate their nice decisions and ideas, he will also give the same.
That's why it's told, "Give respect and take respect" :) :)

There is a famous couplet composed by a devotional saint poet- Bhaya bin na hoye preet gopal (There is no devotion without fear). Thus there is no respect without fear (may be small).

Sir, your idea is not clear to me. :dry: :dry:

Can you tell me, how respect is related to a feeling of fear?
Also, those whom we fear most.....I don't think we will love or respect them..... :evil: :evil: :evil:

We obviously do not love whom we fear. But there may be some element of fear also. We often fear the elders in family, priests in temples and teachers in school. This fears leads to respectful behavior. .

But this fear factor is bit different from our fear towards parents, spouse, siblings etc.

I often feel love can give rise to respect also. :whistle:

Yet, let us see how much, each of our members respect others :unsure: :unsure: :unsure: :evil: :evil: :evil: :cheer: :cheer:

What do you like more- love or respect? You love because you like and you respect because you fear. I do not fear any one. So, why respect? I love all.

But I always have a feel in mind, relations won't grow stronger, if at least 1% respect factor is not added to it. Even our friends, if we respect and appreciate their nice decisions and ideas, he will also give the same.
That's why it's told, "Give respect and take respect" :) :)

There is a famous couplet composed by a devotional saint poet- Bhaya bin na hoye preet gopal (There is no devotion without fear). Thus there is no respect without fear (may be small).

Sir, your idea is not clear to me. :dry: :dry:

Can you tell me, how respect is related to a feeling of fear?
Also, those whom we fear most.....I don't think we will love or respect them..... :evil: :evil: :evil:

We obviously do not love whom we fear. But there may be some element of fear also. We often fear the elders in family, priests in temples and teachers in school. This fears leads to respectful behavior. .

But this fear factor is bit different from our fear towards parents, spouse, siblings etc.

I often feel love can give rise to respect also. :whistle:

Yes. Love also may be with respect. But this is actually appreciation of partner rather than respect. Your behavior will be friendly and very informal. When you are too close to some one, you become more informal and behave as equal. As a matter of fact, this respect is something like having pride in good qualities of your lover.

I think, in the case of our kids, more than respect, appreciation is the apt word. When we are appreciating them for their good qualities or deeds, they feel good. By this way, they give both love and respect to us. But instead, if we always try to blame or scold them, it's sure, parents will loss their respect. So, I think in this case.....I may give 0% respect to my kids.....and so, that 100% purely belong to love and affection only.

I think today lot of person are professional and they love to family to get respect I think people should respect without any expectation.

I think today lot of person are professional and they love to family to get respect I think people should respect without any expectation.

Yes, in professional era, people are showing more respect to their customers. But showing less respect to family members :evil:

I think today lot of person are professional and they love to family to get respect I think people should respect without any expectation.

I agree. But inner feelings are genuine. when you express your feelings- real or fake, this is for purpose.

Both are different in its place.Both are essential to keep a relation strong.I cannot give any percentage to it.Respect is necessary for a strong relation.And beside this love is also needed to keep a sweet relation.

Yes, People love their families without any expectation.

Mother and father loves their children without any expectations.there is no any percentage of love.

Kids love there parents without any expectations.

For every relation to grow, it needs respect too.
It's something like give and take policy. If we are not able to respect the other person, how can we expect them to respect us in return???

Why donot we divide 50 - 50 for love and respect even both can be together. For eg: i respect and love my parents.

80 Percentage for love and 20 percentage only for respect I divide. In relationship more love is needed than respect. ;) ;) ;)

In any relation, first respect should be given and then love should be there, if there is no respect then the love cannot with stand. and main thing is mutual understanding is the main for any relation