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Do you drink in the presence of your children ?
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A new study says lot of kids have seen their parents drunk. What would be the impact on the kids ?Are the parents not responsible for such an irresponsible upbringing ?
http://timesofindia.indiatimes.com/life-style/relationships/parenting/A-lot-of-kids-have-seen-their-parents-drunk/articleshow/24488649.cms
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    A new study says lot of kids have seen their parents drunk. What would be the impact on the kids ?Are the parents not responsible for such an irresponsible upbringing ?
    http://timesofindia.indiatimes.com/life-style/relationships/parenting/A-lot-of-kids-have-seen-their-parents-drunk/articleshow/24488649.cms


    Social drinking has been accepted when it is done within limits but getting drunk is something that people should avoid.However, if does happen at times on rare occassions. When children are small it is better to take care since they are far too young to understand but once they are teemagers they are bound to get exposed to such things ...

    Pay no mind to those who talk behind your back, it simply means that you are two steps ahead !!!

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    A new study says lot of kids have seen their parents drunk. What would be the impact on the kids ?Are the parents not responsible for such an irresponsible upbringing ?
    http://timesofindia.indiatimes.com/life-style/relationships/parenting/A-lot-of-kids-have-seen-their-parents-drunk/articleshow/24488649.cms


    Social drinking has been accepted when it is done within limits but getting drunk is something that people should avoid.However, if does happen at times on rare occassions. When children are small it is better to take care since they are far too young to understand but once they are teemagers they are bound to get exposed to such things ...


    I know a man who used to organize Binge sessions in his house. In the beginning he used to entrust the job of getting the drinks from the nearby liquor shop to his two young children. And the practiced continued. Today both the sons have become drug and liquor addicts.
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    A new study says lot of kids have seen their parents drunk. What would be the impact on the kids ?Are the parents not responsible for such an irresponsible upbringing ?
    http://timesofindia.indiatimes.com/life-style/relationships/parenting/A-lot-of-kids-have-seen-their-parents-drunk/articleshow/24488649.cms


    Social drinking has been accepted when it is done within limits but getting drunk is something that people should avoid.However, if does happen at times on rare occassions. When children are small it is better to take care since they are far too young to understand but once they are teemagers they are bound to get exposed to such things ...


    I know a man who used to organize Binge sessions in his house. In the beginning he used to entrust the job of getting the drinks from the nearby liquor shop to his two young children. And the practiced continued. Today both the sons have become drug and liquor addicts.


    I guess the father was being foolish in doing that since children are very impressionable at that stage ...What I am against is some parents doing things in hiding which is again not advisable.I heard someone say the other day - I never smoke or drink in front of my parents and they don't even know I do so. How does this help anyone ? Isn't it better for the parents to know what is happening in their children's life and vice versa.Finally it all depends on upbringing and the way you have trained your children to handle situations....If not at home , they get exposed to such things outside , so we need to make sure they are able to manage themselves without getting addicted ...

    Pay no mind to those who talk behind your back, it simply means that you are two steps ahead !!!

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    A new study says lot of kids have seen their parents drunk. What would be the impact on the kids ?Are the parents not responsible for such an irresponsible upbringing ?
    http://timesofindia.indiatimes.com/life-style/relationships/parenting/A-lot-of-kids-have-seen-their-parents-drunk/articleshow/24488649.cms


    Social drinking has been accepted when it is done within limits but getting drunk is something that people should avoid.However, if does happen at times on rare occassions. When children are small it is better to take care since they are far too young to understand but once they are teemagers they are bound to get exposed to such things ...


    I know a man who used to organize Binge sessions in his house. In the beginning he used to entrust the job of getting the drinks from the nearby liquor shop to his two young children. And the practiced continued. Today both the sons have become drug and liquor addicts.


    I guess the father was being foolish in doing that since children are very impressionable at that stage ...What I am against is some parents doing things in hiding which is again not advisable.I heard someone say the other day - I never smoke or drink in front of my parents and they don't even know I do so. How does this help anyone ? Isn't it better for the parents to know what is happening in their children's life and vice versa.Finally it all depends on upbringing and the way you have trained your children to handle situations....If not at home , they get exposed to such things outside , so we need to make sure they are able to manage themselves without getting addicted ...


    You are right. It's the father's foolishness for which he's repenting now. Ultimately it all points to only thing,"Careful parenting'. Children are more quick in imitating the elders around them especially during formative years.
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    Drinking itself is offence. Drinking in presence of children might spoil your children. Child learn many activities from their parent.
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    Most of the parents think, children cannot understand. It's a wrong notion. Children grasp the things very fast. That's why child specialists and psychologists repeatedly warn even not to quarrel before the children.
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    I drink only in bar. When in service, I would drink in army mess. I never drink at my residence even when alone. I feel that there is appropriate place and time for every activity.

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    Thank you said by: rambabu
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    I drink only in bar. When in service, I would drink in army mess. I never drink at my residence even when alone. I feel that there is appropriate place and time for every activity.


    That's an appropriate thought. I agree with you that there is time and place for any activity.
    Thank you said by: Gulshan Kumar Ajmani
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    Children has tendency to do everything that their parents do. They adapt everything which is not good for them. Many a times they duplicate their parents just to show themselves to be matured. Drinking, smoking and shaving beard, etc. such habits are therefore adopted by them.
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    I drink only in bar. When in service, I would drink in army mess. I never drink at my residence even when alone. I feel that there is appropriate place and time for every activity.


    That's an appropriate thought. I agree with you that there is time and place for any activity.


    I feel that anyone wants to have a drink, home is the best place since it is safer...Most accidents happen due to drunk driving and even if you have not had too much to drik it is still against the rules, so why not drink in the safety of your home with caution. ..

    Pay no mind to those who talk behind your back, it simply means that you are two steps ahead !!!

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