What to say when you meet your future mother in law?

by Swetha Shenoy in General Discussions

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12 years ago

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Dear Family,

I donot know if this is the right place to keep this question but since many of you are married, i know you guys will help me out!

I am going to meet my future mother-in-law for the first time to talk about my marriage to my boyfriend of 9 years

So they are traditional Telugu family and i am from Konkani family

The thing is, i am a very talkative girl .

So, i need tips, what do i get for her?( not saree) should i get the water for myself in glass after i sit in their home? should i keep quiet? should i keep talking? when do i talk? what do i talk??????????????

I am very jittery now! :dry: :dry: :dry: :blink: :blink:

Swetha Shenoy

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Suny Ag

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12 years ago

#317433

First of all ask her about number of tea sets available in her house as the newly married brides generally loose balance and break crockery. That will help you budget the number of breakages initially. While my wife did it first time my mom said- no big deal and smiled but when she did it again next day my mom was worried. :laugh:

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RAM PROSAD ACHARYYA

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12 years ago

#317435

Give due respect and talk politely, you will enjoy her heart-I am sure.
Talkative girls are free minded and simple_ am I right.

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rambabu

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12 years ago

#317441

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Dear Family,

I donot know if this is the right place to keep this question but since many of you are married, i know you guys will help me out!

I am going to meet my future mother-in-law for the first time to talk about my marriage to my boyfriend of 9 years

So they are traditional Telugu family and i am from Konkani family

The thing is, i am a very talkative girl .

So, i need tips, what do i get for her?( not saree) should i get the water for myself in glass after i sit in their home? should i keep quiet? should i keep talking? when do i talk? what do i talk??????????????

I am very jittery now! :dry: :dry: :dry: :blink: :blink:

Ask her about her "Ishta Daivam" (Her fav God") When she says some name of the god, You show all your astonishment and say, "Amma, what a surprising coincidence, I too worship the same God as my ISHTA DAIVAM." See the effect.

Gulshan Kumar Ajmani

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12 years ago

#317442

Be yourself. Instead of talking too much, let her talk more and answer well and sincerely.

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Ronark Bhardwaj

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12 years ago

#317443

I haven't met my mother-in-law and may be it will some 4 to 5 years, but still i could suggest some tips.

As you said you are talkative person, so there you should be little silent. You should know more and more information from their talk only.
As you and your boyfriend are together for 9 years, so Your mother-in-law would like to know some secret about your boyfriend from you. So, my little advice that you should tell them all the things, otherwise your boyfriend might get angry.

As far as any gift is concerned, you should buy something which can be useful to them, which can be used daily and when they use it, they would remind that my HONEWALI BAHU bought.

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Swetha Shenoy

121 1.94k 23.4k

12 years ago

#317458

Okay!

well, after i talk to them, they will talk to my parents :)

Swetha Shenoy

121 1.94k 23.4k

12 years ago

#317459

with chinmoy ji gone and sandhya,kalyani,sarala busy, and i dont know many of the people here,i dont have much to do on boddunan

I may as well take a big break and come after few years

bye all!

Swetha Shenoy

RobertP

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12 years ago

#317491

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Dear Family,

I donot know if this is the right place to keep this question but since many of you are married, i know you guys will help me out!

I am going to meet my future mother-in-law for the first time to talk about my marriage to my boyfriend of 9 years

So they are traditional Telugu family and i am from Konkani family

The thing is, i am a very talkative girl .

So, i need tips, what do i get for her?( not saree) should i get the water for myself in glass after i sit in their home? should i keep quiet? should i keep talking? when do i talk? what do i talk??????????????

I am very jittery now! :dry: :dry: :dry: :blink: :blink:

Swetha,

My Advance wishes to you. May God bless you (Couple) with all the blessings abundantly! Kindly let her (Mother-in-law) speak and listen to her. First impression is the best impression.

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Kalyani Nandurkar

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12 years ago

#317518

Hey Swetha, sorry I could not reply earlier! My suggestion to you is just be natural, be yourself, do not pretend to be what you are not. Your fiance would have already told you about you, your nature etc. so just be yourself and try to stay calm. Even if you are jittery, she will be understanding , all women pass through that phase once! :) As to what to get for her, do not buy any stuff like saree or any such things, because yours and her tastes may differ. The best gift for the first meeting is to buy some flowers for her, 'gajra' specially, I am sure all telugu women like to wear gajras in their hair! All the best!

"I am free of all prejudice. I hate everyone equally."
- W. C. Fields :)

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