Have you heard anyone commitiing suicide in your neighbor?

Only brave people can commit suicide. Am I not right? Many people are living with an intense desire in mind to die. They have reasons also. But the string path between life and death is not at all easy, though it appear so, even if life and death differs by just one beat :evil:

Suicide is not an act of bravery though it is true that nobody will dare this in normal circumstances. This results from extreme depression and so this is not an act of gallantry. However, if somebody deliberately sacrifices his life for a cause, this is an act of exemplary heroism. Havaldar Abdul Hamid is an example.

You are absolutely right,Gulshanji! Only those who dare to live are truly brave not the ones who kill themselves!! It's a psychological disorder and should be treated as such!!

Death is also not at all an easy thing.....I have heard about 'Chaver pada' of great festival 'Mamaankam' of ancient times. They know they are to die while fighting for their king, yet boys of 12 years of age complete their studies in Gurukula only for this auspicious day.......
They know well, they can't do it...yet they think, how much time I can sustain and kill my opponents before my soul leaves my body :)

Only brave people can commit suicide. Am I not right? Many people are living with an intense desire in mind to die. They have reasons also. But the string path between life and death is not at all easy, though it appear so, even if life and death differs by just one beat :evil:

I agree committing suicide needs lot of courage but people do that they automatically gets it when they are in extreme depression. :) :evil: :evil:

I have also heard about many suicides and suicide attempts in my childhood....even relatives.
One of such incidents hurt me till now.
It was about my aunty where my grand mother(Nani) was also involved.
This aunty and husband quarreled over some thing and my grand mother(uncle's chachi) entered the scene at that time. The husband, in angry was to drink acid.(they have rubber plantation) Suddenly, my grand mother seized the bottle from him. This aunty was crying and she asked my grandmother to give that bottle to place somewhere safely. Without any doubt, my nani gave it to her. Suddenly, she ran away with the bottle, drinking it and fell down dead. They had 3 children below 12-14 age. My grand mother became convict in all the persons' eyes, though she was innocent......because she never dreamt, this aunty was going to drink it.
Some days later, that uncle married again.....what happened......only loss is aunty's life....isn't it?

Committing suicide is not a small thing. People who love their life and feel their life as hell then only they go into trans and finally commit sucide

I have also heard about many suicides and suicide attempts in my childhood....even relatives.
One of such incidents hurt me till now.
It was about my aunty where my grand mother(Nani) was also involved.
This aunty and husband quarreled over some thing and my grand mother(uncle's chachi) entered the scene at that time. The husband, in angry was to drink acid.(they have rubber plantation) Suddenly, my grand mother seized the bottle from him. This aunty was crying and she asked my grandmother to give that bottle to place somewhere safely. Without any doubt, my nani gave it to her. Suddenly, she ran away with the bottle, drinking it and fell down dead. They had 3 children below 12-14 age. My grand mother became convict in all the persons' eyes, though she was innocent......because she never dreamt, this aunty was going to drink it.
Some days later, that uncle married again.....what happened......only loss is aunty's life....isn't it?

Oh that's really a sad incident.What happened to the kids after her mother died?.Only the sufferer were the kids in the incident. :(

I have also heard about many suicides and suicide attempts in my childhood....even relatives.
One of such incidents hurt me till now.
It was about my aunty where my grand mother(Nani) was also involved.
This aunty and husband quarreled over some thing and my grand mother(uncle's chachi) entered the scene at that time. The husband, in angry was to drink acid.(they have rubber plantation) Suddenly, my grand mother seized the bottle from him. This aunty was crying and she asked my grandmother to give that bottle to place somewhere safely. Without any doubt, my nani gave it to her. Suddenly, she ran away with the bottle, drinking it and fell down dead. They had 3 children below 12-14 age. My grand mother became convict in all the persons' eyes, though she was innocent......because she never dreamt, this aunty was going to drink it.
Some days later, that uncle married again.....what happened......only loss is aunty's life....isn't it?

Oh that's really a sad incident.What happened to the kids after her mother died?.Only the sufferer were the kids in the incident. :(

Of the three, younger boy was my age.....so just 7-8 years old at that time. A deedi was there, she was married to a relative near our residence. In between these 2 was a boy.
But it was really a shocking incident at that time. Can you imagine my nani's mental status, that she handed the acid bottle to my aunty.

But your nani was innocent she did not know that it would happen. :)

But i understand she might be thinking that it all happened due to her. :(

But your nani was innocent she did not know that it would happen. :)

But i understand she might be thinking that it all happened due to her. :(

Every one blamed her.
This uncle's mother and nani are real sisters. Same way, their husbands are brothers.

But your nani was innocent she did not know that it would happen. :)

But i understand she might be thinking that it all happened due to her. :(

Every one blamed her.
This uncle's mother and nani are real sisters. Same way, their husbands are brothers.

But that is wrong. Is she alright these days? Or she is in depression? :S

But your nani was innocent she did not know that it would happen. :)

But i understand she might be thinking that it all happened due to her. :(

Every one blamed her.
This uncle's mother and nani are real sisters. Same way, their husbands are brothers.

But that is wrong. Is she alright these days? Or she is in depression? :S

No not at all. this event occured before 22 years, when I was a small kid

But your nani was innocent she did not know that it would happen. :)

But i understand she might be thinking that it all happened due to her. :(

Every one blamed her.
This uncle's mother and nani are real sisters. Same way, their husbands are brothers.

But that is wrong. Is she alright these days? Or she is in depression? :S

No not at all. this event occured before 22 years, when I was a small kid

And now your Nani is alive or not?

But your nani was innocent she did not know that it would happen. :)

But i understand she might be thinking that it all happened due to her. :(

Every one blamed her.
This uncle's mother and nani are real sisters. Same way, their husbands are brothers.

But that is wrong. Is she alright these days? Or she is in depression? :S

No not at all. this event occured before 22 years, when I was a small kid

And now your Nani is alive or not?

Nani is still alive and she is 69 :P

does she still blame her the death of your aunt?. or she says it was just an incident.:)

does she still blame her the death of your aunt?. or she says it was just an incident.:)

Not yaar...it's a closed chapter now

no i haven't and it shoulfd never happen also. i don't wabnt to experience things like this

One more incident was there in my childhood, when an uncle(at that time, he was 20-22) hanged himself, when he was caught stealing money or buying a tape recorder or something, in the name of his father.
When that person came home and tell his father about the matter, this boy closed the door of fear and hanged himself. I still remember, it was a day just before Christmas or Diwali, when I was only 6 or 7