As valentine month is on its half way, let me ask your opinion. Do share your views.
One of my friends use to say, "It is good to be loved at least once before marriage. But never marry that person. If love life settles in marriage, it will mark 'the end ' to the fantasy world of love. If you want to keep your love live in heart, never marry that person. It will stay with you whole through the life"
In other words, he says, "Only unsuccessful love stories will become immortal". What is your opinion? Is he right? Does love marriages mark the end of love life?
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I know ,I know - you are getting envious!!!!
Envious that my husband won't built it for me?
He will built a Taj Mahal for me, when I am alive, not after my death :laugh:
Tajmahal is a big tomb for your info. Do you want to go there alive? please don't. :whistle: Lets have some fun here. :laugh:
I don't agree to the point.People try to keep his/her beloved with him/her for life and for that marriage is essential. :) And people do that as they find happiness in it. :)
As far as "Only unsuccessful love stories remain immortal" its also not true there are many love stories like Prithvi raj Chauhan,Jodha Akbar and many others but problem with us is we don't remember those. :) :evil:
As far as "Only unsuccessful love stories remain immortal" its also not true there are many love stories like Prithvi raj Chauhan,Jodha Akbar and many others but problem with us is we don't remember those. :) :evil:
I am against to make any memorials.The price should be distributed among poor so that they can live with some necessary which will be provided in the life time.
Can't understand anything :woohoo: :woohoo: :woohoo:
Almost all Shakespear love stories are tragedies.....we remember them till now for its failure.
A Priyadarshan movie in Malayalam, "Vandanam" remembered for its anti-climax, though it contains many elements.
Amitji married Jaya, but it's an arranged marriage...
Unsuccessful story of Amit-Rekha is remembered more by his fans, sure :P
Hello there SandhyaJi, I know what you mean by quoting about unsuccessful sories getting popular, that could be true up to some extent as those get spread due to different reasons. But there are lots of successful love stories which are as popular. Take mine for instance, mine is successful and as popular. :blush:
Congratulation on your successful love. But this cannot be story. The famous love stories like Laila majnoo, shree Farihad have tragic end. Successful love has no news value and makes no story.
Let me elucidate. If you go to a place and come back home safely, this is good. But this is not news. But if there is an accident causing death or grave injury, this has news value and will find place in newspaper.
Hello there SandhyaJi, I know what you mean by quoting about unsuccessful sories getting popular, that could be true up to some extent as those get spread due to different reasons. But there are lots of successful love stories which are as popular. Take mine for instance, mine is successful and as popular. :blush:
Congratulation on your successful love. But this cannot be story. The famous love stories like Laila majnoo, shree Farihad have tragic end. Successful love has no news value and makes no story.
Let me elucidate. If you go to a place and come back home safely, this is good. But this is not news. But if there is an accident causing death or grave injury, this has news value and will find place in newspaper.
I agree.....
But I always wish, love stories to be true.....evenif they don't form any great story.
It's better to be dead in someone's life than remain live in some one else memories. :evil: :laugh: :laugh: :laugh:
I am against to make any memorials.The price should be distributed among poor so that they can live with some necessary which will be provided in the life time.
Can't understand anything :woohoo: :woohoo: :woohoo:
Almost all Shakespear love stories are tragedies.....we remember them till now for its failure.
A Priyadarshan movie in Malayalam, "Vandanam" remembered for its anti-climax, though it contains many elements.
Amitji married Jaya, but it's an arranged marriage...
Unsuccessful story of Amit-Rekha is remembered more by his fans, sure :P
Shakespear used to write tragic love stories because he knew other's tragedies people enjoy more than other successful love stories. :laugh:
Its really a surprise for me Amit/jaya was an arranged marriage. :unsure:
I am against to make any memorials.The price should be distributed among poor so that they can live with some necessary which will be provided in the life time.
Can't understand anything :woohoo: :woohoo: :woohoo:
Almost all Shakespear love stories are tragedies.....we remember them till now for its failure.
A Priyadarshan movie in Malayalam, "Vandanam" remembered for its anti-climax, though it contains many elements.
Amitji married Jaya, but it's an arranged marriage...
Unsuccessful story of Amit-Rekha is remembered more by his fans, sure :P
Shakespear used to write tragic love stories because he knew other's tragedies people enjoy more than other successful love stories. :laugh:
Its really a surprise for me Amit/jaya was an arranged marriage. :unsure:
In fact, success in love or elsewhere is considered normal and is no story. This is like an old story- There was a king and a queen. Both died and thus ended story- Unless there are obstacles to lovers, and they struggle for their love, there will be no story. In such matters, the whole society is much stronger and consequently, love story ends in tragedy.
And there are so many kings and queens around us having fun successfully. We never look at them but always think of unsuccessful ones. Look all of us are successful lovers and living so happily.
We do not think of success or failure. This is a matter of normal or abnormal. Normal is neither story nor news. Successful love and marriage is no news. so, this is okay but no story.
Do we ever talk of love between married persons. This is always about illicit love. Similarly do we talk of people traveling and returning home okay. These are no stories and no news.
Only the unusual make stories and news.
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