Lessons from the Sun and the Moon!

we are all humans Kalyani....so, personally hurting words can hurt anyone, you or me.
But it doesn't mean I should silently keep accepting every insult happening here. am also a normal human being. I am not digging old things. What I stated above is based on incidents in the past few months. Actually I don't have time too, to think about past.
i know it well, I don't have respect here and more than friends, I have earned enemies. It happened only because I saw these virtual relations and this site, a part of my life. That's why it hurts me. If my mind was able to see it as a mirage and virtual world, I have no problems at all. you know well, every person has some defects and no one is perfect. perhaps it may be my negative side. I am not asking you people to pardon my mistakes. i don't expect anything in return also. ....even love or appreciation, anything.....
just one request on behalf of every member here.....
Intellectual members, please don't insult others in forum even unintentionally....I know well, every person here is working to have a little fun, not fighting one another.
also, I have never drawn anyone's attention towards my achievements.......nor will i do it purposefully.
i know well I won't get love,respect or any good thing from this site, I have learnt that big lesson through all the previous incidents happened here. Every old member here, knows well what events have happened in the last 11 months......
so, I have gained nothing...no self respect or no friends...so, no problem, whatever you people can think and say about me. Only the persons gained something have the fear of losing something. if I have gained nothing, why should I fear to lose?

Even I feel the same way if someone feels like what you said let him/her say it as we have nothing to lose here. I would suggest you Sandhya never to take things very seriously online better to concentrate on other things and neglect what other says and feel about you. There are people who have the habit like saying things about others and it should be our habit to neglect them otherwise if we care for every such person then it would make our life a mess. :blink:

The cow of my story has been made to sit atop the branch of a tree! What originally started off highlighting the significance of patience as a virtue has veered into a search for the sun and the moon! Do put your minds to the basic theme of the thread! :ohmy: :ohmy: :ohmy:

As always it happens here...lol :P

when i leave after 20 k, everything will be ok. hoping it will be enough :whistle:
no spams and unwanted replies.... :P
at least a few persons will be benefited by my exit :)

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Ignore.... :P :P :P :P

it's just not an anger of a moment...but the sadness and open insult am feeling for the past few months. now it has reached its climax.
ceemji, everyday am facing insults here. I can't express my feelings here..yet am working here without responding to those posts, thinking about others. afterall there should be some difference between me and others :P but now, this decision is final. even if one person will feel peace of mind seeing my absence , am ok.......i will concentrate on other works :cheer:
i will be here as a virtual member, posting a few replies...because i am earning through articles now :laugh: :laugh: :laugh:
now question section is also there ;) ;)

The kind of name and fame you have earned and more importantly the money!! I don't see any reason for your feeling sad!
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we are all humans Kalyani....so, personally hurting words can hurt anyone, you or me.
But it doesn't mean I should silently keep accepting every insult happening here. am also a normal human being. I am not digging old things. What I stated above is based on incidents in the past few months. Actually I don't have time too, to think about past.
i know it well, I don't have respect here and more than friends, I have earned enemies. It happened only because I saw these virtual relations and this site, a part of my life. That's why it hurts me. If my mind was able to see it as a mirage and virtual world, I have no problems at all. you know well, every person has some defects and no one is perfect. perhaps it may be my negative side. I am not asking you people to pardon my mistakes. i don't expect anything in return also. ....even love or appreciation, anything.....
just one request on behalf of every member here.....
Intellectual members, please don't insult others in forum even unintentionally....I know well, every person here is working to have a little fun, not fighting one another.
also, I have never drawn anyone's attention towards my achievements.......nor will i do it purposefully.
i know well I won't get love,respect or any good thing from this site, I have learnt that big lesson through all the previous incidents happened here. Every old member here, knows well what events have happened in the last 11 months......
so, I have gained nothing...no self respect or no friends...so, no problem, whatever you people can think and say about me. Only the persons gained something have the fear of losing something. if I have gained nothing, why should I fear to lose?

Even I feel the same way if someone feels like what you said let him/her say it as we have nothing to lose here. I would suggest you Sandhya never to take things very seriously online better to concentrate on other things and neglect what other says and feel about you. There are people who have the habit like saying things about others and it should be our habit to neglect them otherwise if we care for every such person then it would make our life a mess. :blink:

yes Sanjeev
I am trying to learn that lesson from you, not from now.....but from a few months back, the first time you told me so. :)
Actually I hate the word, Thank you......
Yet, Thank you...Thanks a lot for such a lovely and wonderful post :)

The cow of my story has been made to sit atop the branch of a tree! What originally started off highlighting the significance of patience as a virtue has veered into a search for the sun and the moon! Do put your minds to the basic theme of the thread! :ohmy: :ohmy: :ohmy:

As always it happens here...lol :P

when i leave after 20 k, everything will be ok. hoping it will be enough :whistle:
no spams and unwanted replies.... :P
at least a few persons will be benefited by my exit :)

{CJATTACHMENT ["id": 9365]}

Ignore.... :P :P :P :P

it's just not an anger of a moment...but the sadness and open insult am feeling for the past few months. now it has reached its climax.
ceemji, everyday am facing insults here. I can't express my feelings here..yet am working here without responding to those posts, thinking about others. afterall there should be some difference between me and others :P but now, this decision is final. even if one person will feel peace of mind seeing my absence , am ok.......i will concentrate on other works :cheer:
i will be here as a virtual member, posting a few replies...because i am earning through articles now :laugh: :laugh: :laugh:
now question section is also there ;) ;)

The kind of name and fame you have earned and more importantly the money!! I don't see any reason for your feeling sad!
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:P :P :P :P :P :P :laugh: :laugh:

Yes love this site and don't take any seriously. Do only your work. All may not be friend but all are not enemy. Work and work for friends only.

Yes love this site and don't take any seriously. Do only your work. All may not be friend but all are not enemy. Work and work for friends only.

you know it well, I love this site and its people more than anyone else. If loved ones hurt us, it hurts because we care for them. Otherwise no problem :)

You know in water swam and crain swim and swam eats only fish and crain insects. :cheer: :cheer: :cheer: :cheer:

You know in water swam and crain swim and swam eats only fish and crain insects. :cheer: :cheer: :cheer: :cheer:

what does it mean? :whistle: :whistle:
hearing for the first time :S :S

You know in water swam and crain swim and swam eats only fish and crain insects. :cheer: :cheer: :cheer: :cheer:

what does it mean? :whistle: :whistle:
hearing for the first time :S :S

Even i did not understand what he meant to say?. :laugh:

It means stay like a king and ignore small things. One can tease you and you might be in fire and you will be looser and teaser will win.

It means stay like a king and ignore small things. One can tease you and you might be in fire and you will be looser and teaser will win.

as the title of thread is suggesting, patience... :) :)

let me tell you a Tamil proverb this time...."amanja maattinu thelinga vellam'.
A calm cow will get clear water.... (it means, if it's haste and not patient enough, he gets mud water to drink) :cheer:
Ceemji, we are again back to track :cheer: :laugh: :laugh:
let us continue :cheer:

It means stay like a king and ignore small things. One can tease you and you might be in fire and you will be looser and teaser will win.

Exactly one should have patience as it can cure many things. :)

I never get impulsive I just take my time to think and then normally respond to people. :blink:

It means stay like a king and ignore small things. One can tease you and you might be in fire and you will be looser and teaser will win.

Exactly one should have patience as it can cure many things. :)

I never get impulsive I just take my time to think and then normally respond to people. :blink:

yet, patience also has an extreme :P
let sun and moon decide it :laugh: :laugh:

It means stay like a king and ignore small things. One can tease you and you might be in fire and you will be looser and teaser will win.

Exactly one should have patience as it can cure many things. :)

I never get impulsive I just take my time to think and then normally respond to people. :blink:

Yes that is i am saying. Keep patience and continue.

It means stay like a king and ignore small things. One can tease you and you might be in fire and you will be looser and teaser will win.

Exactly one should have patience as it can cure many things. :)

I never get impulsive I just take my time to think and then normally respond to people. :blink:

yet, patience also has an extreme :P
let sun and moon decide it :laugh: :laugh:

It has limits but yet no limits it depends on person to person you need to stretch your patience a bit more. :laugh:

It means stay like a king and ignore small things. One can tease you and you might be in fire and you will be looser and teaser will win.

Exactly one should have patience as it can cure many things. :)

I never get impulsive I just take my time to think and then normally respond to people. :blink:

yet, patience also has an extreme :P
let sun and moon decide it :laugh: :laugh:

It has limits but yet no limits it depends on person to person you need to stretch your patience a bit more. :laugh:

Okkkkkkkkkkkkkkk
Stretched a little moreeeeeeeeee
Enoughhhhhhhhhhhhh? :cheer:

Yes love this site and don't take any seriously. Do only your work. All may not be friend but all are not enemy. Work and work for friends only.

you know it well, I love this site and its people more than anyone else. If loved ones hurt us, it hurts because we care for them. Otherwise no problem :)

How do you react when you are praised to the sky? You must accept criticism in the same spirit that is known as pragmatism. You must be sensitive not touchy! :angry: :angry: :angry: :angry:

Yes love this site and don't take any seriously. Do only your work. All may not be friend but all are not enemy. Work and work for friends only.

you know it well, I love this site and its people more than anyone else. If loved ones hurt us, it hurts because we care for them. Otherwise no problem :)

How do you react when you are praised to the sky? You must accept criticism in the same spirit that is known as pragmatism. You must be sensitive not touchy! :angry: :angry: :angry: :angry:

who is praising me here Ceemji, now?
No one... :P
am ready to admit my faults.....but the other person should be sure enough :cheer:

Yes love this site and don't take any seriously. Do only your work. All may not be friend but all are not enemy. Work and work for friends only.

you know it well, I love this site and its people more than anyone else. If loved ones hurt us, it hurts because we care for them. Otherwise no problem :)

How do you react when you are praised to the sky? You must accept criticism in the same spirit that is known as pragmatism. You must be sensitive not touchy! :angry: :angry: :angry: :angry:

who is praising me here Ceemji, now?
No one... :P
am ready to admit my faults.....but the other person should be sure enough :cheer:

If you have narcissistic ambition I won't advise you to continue but never fail to look at your Karma and thanks score, you have nothing to complain about! Some honest critics and their honest criticism would be always there and you need to learn to live with it and if you can't, I don't know the solution! :unsure: :unsure: :unsure:

Sandhya, I cannot stop you, but I can tell you few things and remaining up to you.

why do you feel that someone are pointing you, some are commenting you and hurting. Why don't you feel they are jealous of you as you are the topper of this site and those people who are commenting you or hurting you have no chance of reaching you. So they just want to hurt you and make you down. this is such persons aim over here. Never bother about such people. Just go on with your rocking work and rock. For your clear understanding, Suppose you are going some where, and if you find a cowdungt on the way then what will you do? You just ignore it and change your way na or you will bring dust pan and clean or you stamp it with your feet ? tell me. To my knowledge you will ignore it and go in other way because for you reaching the place is important, but not the way which you reached must be clean right. So just take this as an example and understand what am trying to tel you.
Here in this boddunan, I have faced many insults, I even tried to leave the site. But it is the magic of this site. So I was back. I feel let them insult. I just want to ignore thats it. IF they insult also, this is not a newspaper or international channel to feel that i am insulted. This is just site to have fun and earn few bugs thats it. So I stopped bothering people who comment or hurt me, Many people commented on my English language. I know my English is low standard, but i am happy compared to others. I know how to develop. Just i need time. the people who have high English have worked on it before but i neglected. thats it. So therefore, finally i am working boddunan just for my sake, not for the other people. So no need to feel insult or anything. Sandhya Just ignore those people who hurt you. Just ignore their posts and reply to the posts who are good to you. ok.

After reading this, I hope you may change your decision.