Online dating chats have nothing to do with a search for a soul mate.

Online dating chat is for

meeting New people
exchange views
You can make new Friend

but the disadvantage is

There are many people in the world that use adult chat rooms. when you make any girl friend easily that means some problem.

Mostly person waste his time in dating chat. 2 to 3 make actual contact out of 100 other people waste his time. so by using dating chat they enjoy with people without meeting him and feel free to talk openly because they do not know each other.

But i do not prefer dating chat because i always busy in our work. if i get time then i try to earn money online nothing else.

I believe that long distance relationships have always existed and that the internet has extended these possibilities. I believe that online dating is here to stay and that it makes sense for anyone involved to follow some basic guidelines. The internet has its share of love and heartache. With so many people using the internet odds are against you, but you may find your mate, provided you use common sense, a lot of patience, and a willingness to take a budding online relationship into the real world.

To my mind on line dating has just added to one more medium to fulfil the ever present need to communication and a revolutionary development in the field of communication.As every medium has its pluses and minuses one has to take a holistic view of it and one needs to be cautious as well as pragmatic in the choice of this medium while exploring its possibilities.So it is no use condemning it or developing an irrational fondness.

Hi friends Good Morning,

Online dating is a system in which couple communicate with each other over internet.Being a virtual communication from two ends there are a lot of traps in between.Different online dating sites provide different types of activities to its members and often many of them are path to cheating.In most cases the online dating chat develop a sexual relationship rather than a good relationship to lead to be a soul mate.

Technology is pacing very fast. So do its consumers also.People run from place to place without having a minut to spare.Between this restless run they get some relax by indulging in activities such as online chat and online dating.There also they have no time to arrange a physical dating(I am against this also).Here there is a clever mind.It is very difficult to reach in sexual relationship through physical dating since there is watch dog over the dating couples(in most cases).But through online dating it is very easy to attain such relations.

Let me to say some more.
In addition to above told reason we can't determine with how much persons one had online dating chats.It is known to the party concerned only whether it is a boy or girl.Also it is very easy to cheat since there is no physical connection between them(boy chating instead of girl in text chat,sister or mother for original one in voice chat,any beautyful girl for the average one in vedio chat etc).So in my opinion online dating chats will not provide a soul mate.A soul mate is one who should be the mate for rest of life.

A report says that US people spent over 500 million dollars per year on this.It is said to be the largest segment of paid content on the web other than pornography.So it is very clear that it is a well misused technological advancement.

500 million dolors!!! Its amazing. If it having so many negative shades why people are spending so much money on it?

In my opinion online dating has got nothing to do with the search for a soul mate.

Online dating is mainly done to discuss such topics freely which otherwise are difficult to discuss in the society, especially with a person of opposite sex.

Then online dating is also done in order to get a glimpse of the other person through web cam if he/she (the other person) desires so.

Another reason for on line dating is the need to communicate in a world where people especially youngsters are increasingly getting out of their homes and often feel lonely.

One more important reason for online dating might be the curiosity to know more about the opposite sex.

Mr.Maverick,
The negative shades are from my point of view.From the dating couples side and the people spending this much money for dating it will be always positive.It means positive and negative are according to the views of each.

Mr.Taraknath,
Real dating is to reduce the communication gap and to familiarise each other.But in online dating it is not curiosity to know the opposite sex but inquisity to trap the girl is always projected.

Online dating...
I think everyone who is using Internet, have used chatting service, at least once. The motto is to find some friends or Soul mates & to spend some free time.
And its true that, while chatting we meet with some real people & some Fakes.
But, I do not completely agree that it has nothing to do with Soul mates search.
I think, if you chat to search for soul mate, then their are high chances that you will be cheated. But, If you search for friends, you might not know when you will start liking your friend & he/she become your soul mates.
Lots of people spend a lot of time in chatting with their Online Girlfriend & boyfriend. They spend time in waiting for their partner to come online. And some also become soul mates.
But every couple(online chatting couple) do not become soul mate, the reason varies from regional to religion differences, cast, Age, or any other difference.

Its some thing like.. You read each other, then hear each other, then see, then meet and then you decide weather to go further.

It can be use to search your soul mate from large number of choices.

Hello Amit warkari i agree with you friend.. now a days people making friends through online then becoming sole mate..it is very difficult to find a sole mate directly through online dating..

More I think its good place for those who are little shy in nature(specially men). They hesitate while speaking to girl.. So they come online.. & chat.. after knowing each other they start talking on phone, then meeting in real... Then if they like each other ..its done.

Of course their is a chance of getting cheated,, but that chance also exists in real life friends. You may not know when your partner will cheat you.

So I think that Online line dating cannot be a complete time pass but, I think it provides time to know each other well. - Thats what is important to become soul mate.

yes i am fully agree with the statement that online dating chats have nothing to do with the meeting of soul mate. because this online dating chat is only for timepass and they just want to chat for the time and after sometime vulger chat start and they lead to that thing only.......

Pushp...
I didn't understand your last sentence.. (I think you are in hurry).
As you said its complete time pass && and as Abid(some long before) said that "US people spent over 500 million dollars per year on this.It is said to be the largest segment of paid content on the web other than pornography"
The question that arise that..
Why people spends so much for doing time pass. They pay to find real people(their soul mates) & some time they find them too.

Many indian Matrimonial website do the same thing. They charge some price & then you can visit & see profiles of other members, have a chat & so on...
They also claim their success, that, many people got marry through their website & are living happily.

Mr.Amit,
I agree to your first discussion.But the case of shy you told especially for men will only be increased on meeting after the chat.Psychologically he will have an inferiority complex and a fear about what things had I revealed in chats(In the interest of chat he might have forgotten what had told).

Also about spending of US people.I had told it is behind pornography.Don't you know pornography is merely for an enjoyment and people spends lot of time and money on that.Similarly online dating is an enjoyment to most people.Since the partner is online it will create more enjoyment and that is why people get attracted.

About matrimonial sites, it is a part of our advancement.For anything internet is the ultimate source.So why can't be our partner also through internet?That thought had been highly exploited by these people and poor guys thoughtlessly jump in.

I agree that many people do this for fun... But some does meet their soul mates..
So therefore I don not completely agree with the topic.
Some time its true that online dating is for fun.. but some time its to find their soul mate.

In my opinion getting a soul mate from online dating is an accidental case.We expect accidents at every moment but happens it rarely.
So as you told one can't blame online dating completely.

I agree with you mr.Abid.. but i think still there is a possiblity to find a sole mate because one my friend got a sole mate from online dating site only..what you think sir?

Mr.Sathish...
Your friend got mate from online site only.Very good.But he will be an odd man out of a lot of disappointed online dating men or women.Also more marriages takes place in this world (arranged or registered) in traditional way, not after dating or online dating.Why do you rise odd condition not seeing the majority cases?

Due to not sufficient participation, we would like to continue this discussion for this week as well. We would like more members participate in this contest.

Nice idea.But will the prize money for two weeks will be awarded ? :laugh: :laugh: :laugh:
What about if participation is still less? :dry: :dry: :dry: