MY LITTLE ANGLE

I would like to ask this to every mom what type of MOM would they like to become Stay at home MOM or working MOM??? I know for this question there is no perfect answer, the idea of writing this article came in my is because i have lived a life of both types of MOM. Here comes my expereinces...

As I have a degree of Business Management I always wanted to work and want to become a successful and well established women, before my marriage I Had worked for 5 years with few financial companies, but the life had changed when I became a 'MOM', God has blessed us with a very lovely baby girl whom we both desperately wanted. I thought that after one year i will get back after leaving her with my parents who livee in other state, and finally the day came we celebrated her first birthday and I left her with her Nana and nani and came back and searched a job again, but I coudn't sleep at nights she lived there for not more than a month but this month was more then a year for me. I left the job and brought my lovely angle back with me, but still there is a guilt inside me. I donot know how many activies of her i missed in those 30 days which cannot come back. Now she 4.8 years old and I had joined the same school as a Teacher in which she is studying now a days.

What a stay at home Mom can do

1. If you are a Staying at home MOM you can nourish and enforce her child with good and healthy food habits as stay at home MOM has much time to cook all types and vareity of meals of a day starting from a good  breakfast, ending to a healthy  dinner.
2. Stay at home MOM has more time to spend quality time with their kids which means we can care of there every need.   
3. Stay at home MOM is there every time when your child needs you.
4. You get back to your own childhood with your lovely kids by playing with them diffrent tyoes of games and spend more and more time with them and make them learn good manner.
5. You have much time to concentrate on their studies as your child need constant attention of her/his MOM.
6. You can be more hygenic as you can spend more time to clean your home.
7. Instead of sending your kid to any hobby class, Once again you can enjoy your own hobbies of drawing art and craft etc. with your own  kids.

Working MOM

1. Working MOM donot have much time to do much household work, i can tell you how one of my neighbour is in full time job with an MNC bank she left her home at 9 am in the morning and returns back at 8 pm in evening,she doent have time to spend in kitchen, hence her family has to eat whatever is cooked by their maid.
2. You cannot concentrate with the studies of your kid hence there opens a way for tuition classes.
3. For extra co curricular activities you have send your kid to any hobby class though you, yourself is expert in the same art.
4. Cleanliness- again you have to compromise with the cleanliness as what ever you maid is doing you have to adjust.
5. You cannot play with you kids as you donot have time to spend time with them.  

So keeping above factors in mind I chose school job  so that i have time for my angle but still you are human you get tired and hence I spend less time with as compared to before, Now i dont have time to take her to the garden everyday as i have other household works to do. My angle is fussy eater previously I spend a lot time during her meal, but now i cant do this.

It is totally my opinion that

• You should join a job when your kid is around 8 to 10 years of age because till then they learn to manage many things by their won.
• You should choose a part time job instead of full time job.
• If you live in nuclear family there you have more responsibilties as in joint families kid donnot feel lonlya sther many member for taking care of your kids.

NOTE: the above article is totally based on my own expereince, it is not to hurt the feelings of any person.