Live and let live
There is a very famous saying “Live and let live” – everyone knows about it and to be frank there is nothing wrong in that. It only says that one must not create problems for others but live his life happily and at the same time, let others live the way they want to spend their life. However, this is not the case with every one. I am afraid this is not the case with few people because they are born trouble mongers. While the fact remains that some people live their lives happily, with joyful activities, keeping people happy around them and trying to solve problems without showing their involvement, at the same time we can see people, who are trying to create problems for others for nothing in particular but just because they were born that way. They see a ‘wrong’ in every ‘right’ that hasn't been done according to their own book. They have no faith in ‘live and let live’ others happily and that is the point that changes life of people who come in their contact.
Happiness is a package deal
Happiness is equal to money and health both, a package deal. A man is benefited in more than one way if he learns to stay happy. Happiness is as beneficial for man as body exercise is for his physical fitness. Happiness keeps his nerves system properly worked up, keeps his nervous system free from tensions. I think most of you might have seen that doctors always try to play down the seriousness of illness while talking to their patients. The modern day doctors would never let their patients feel as if they have anything serious and it works wonders on their patients. The patients feel much more self-confident and able to fight with his illness. This is all about the power of happiness, optimism and the life is full of happiness that you have to spend either laughing or whining, choice is yours.
No one is complete
This is another point where no one can disagree, not a single person is in this world is ‘complete’. Everyone has some or the other paucities in their lives, nature or behavior. Then the important part of the life lies is how a person moulds his nature. Nature is like potters-clay, which has no shape of its own but can always change according to needs. No one is born complete but everybody needs to change their attitude with total dedication and self-control to adjust to the world around them and that is not a big deal. We should not forget that this is our life and we have to live it our own way, happily, being sarcastic, criticizing others or always showing as if we are the most neglected specie of this universe. I agree that spending life joyfully is not that easy because it takes lot of self-control and efforts to be happy and keep others happy. Yes, it is the easiest way of living ones life always weeping, whining, criticizing others, playing blame-games and doing nothing to improve our own nature. There should be no doubt that if one has to live his life with total self-satisfaction, there is no other way but to change the mentality. Despite being not complete, a person should learn the art of adaptability, according to the needs of situation for a good and happy life.
Nature of a person goes a long way
There is no doubt that most of us Indians are used to living in adverse situations with lot of physical labor, three-season weather conditions consisting of either too hot and humid, too cold or rainy throughout the year. There are other factors for our unhappiness as lack of healthy food, unhygienic living conditions, and physical weak body built compared to most other developed countries and the worst of all no willingness to work or work as much that can only provide us for basic needs, in other words laziness. In fact, we are the nation of ‘Unsatisfied’ people, more than the people who live to enjoy their life and let others live happily. All these symptoms listed above are natural enemy of human but the worst of these all is the non-adjusting nature. While the good nature is the best friend of human, the bad nature could easily be the worst enemy.
The effect of bad nature can influence someone more adversely than all the illness or sickness in the world. One can get rid of his bad temper he acquires due to sickness but if it is his natural instinct, it keeps one under its influence forever. So, nature of a man influences his physical fitness way, either good or bad. If a man has a jolly nature, the chances are he would suffer lesser from physical problems or vice versa. The nature effects in more than one ways, it is not only the health part of a person but if someone is ill tempered, then the chances are he will never rise in his career. Two people with same abilities but with different mentality are bound to carry a different graph in their job career. No one wants to keep connected with an ill-tempered person.
And the influence of nature of a person is not limited to his work place but his domestic life, married life, student life or even relation in the society. Nature plays a vital role in married life. If the nature of both partners is polite and their married life never faces any troubles or even if they face problems the duo easily sort things out but any one of them is lesser understanding the chances are they go through a hard time. And if both the partners belong to ‘hot’ group, I do not have a faith in hell or heaven but perhaps, I would begin to believe in that if I am one of the partners of such a pair. There is a golden rule to be part of a happy couple, if your partner is angry, keep quite or get lost from the scene for a few minutes to come back when your partner is back to normal self.
Happiness keeps doctor away
Most of us know the importance of happiness in our lives. People who remain happy on permanent basis have a different face a different personality. Joyful people have more friends and reach to far more people than people who have ranting nature. The best part the joy can bring to the happy people the friends and a trouble-free life. But, let me tell you that not all people whom you meet everyday believe in this theory of joy and love. Some of them find joy something that gives them allergies. They do not know how to laugh and they do not want to see happy faces. Even if you find a faint smile on their faces, that will be only when they want to impress you for something or use you for any of their personal job. They know no importance of happiness because they have never done the laughing part ever in their life therefore happiness on others faces is like a curse for them. It is not that they lack in other departments of life but if they only learn to laugh and smile, they will be far better off. They certainly will do lot better.
Conclusion
People with no humor sense get no importance from others. Smile is like a flower that is necessary for a fruit-producing tree; no tree can ever produce a fruit unless it has fruit bearing flowers. I am sure you would not like to mix up with people who are rude, arrogant and have no smiles on their faces and to top it all, entirely ill mannered. I am sure your answer is going to be in negative. No one wants to meet them or talk to them but everyone tries to befriend with a person who has a smile on his face, whatever the situation he never gets irritated or mistreats his friends. If a person is successful in his field, his behavior works wonders for him making all he difference. A person is successful because he knows how to help and adjust others in need. No person with sarcastic views should expect to climb on top of the popularity chart and stay there too. That is why the saying goes “Let and let live” that is good for everyone.
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