Girlfriends are commonly found in urban areas such as shopping malls or multiplexes, but their primary source is the college campus. Girls and boys tend to meet in the interiors of this region, where they may or may not get a chance to understand the physical nature of each other depending upon the catalysts or anti-catalysts whichever is abundant. The conversion of a girl into a girlfriend involves a tremendous financial blow accompanied by numerous lecture bunks, which later on results in poor internal marks. The girlfriends are primarily made up of short clothings such as short skirts or low waist jeans, abundance of tears dissolved in some unknown substance which is still under study by several of leading girlfriendologists.
Properties of a girlfriend:-
1. Physical properties
a. They have a good physical appearance with a modern glamorous look.
b. They tend to retain their shape, size and mass even after an extensive fast food exposure.
2. Chemical properties
a. Highly reactive in nature and tend to change the physical, chemical and financial properties of the boy they react with, decreasing his reactivity.
b. The intensive ones remain unstable only till they react with some boy, but the extensive ones may remain unstable even after an irreversible chemical reaction.
c. Some of the girlfriends might become unstable after the boy looses some of the financial properties.
d. Highly combustible in nature. Burns to ashes even on a little hint of her boyfriend's indulgion with another girl.
3. Psychological properties
a. Sometimes chemical properties become highly unexpected leading to a major diversion from the ideal nature.
b. Chemical tests fail to produce reasonable results when the internal combustion doesn't accompany the expected physical and chemical response.
c. Absence of external traits make an observer unable to predict the mechanism of internal combustion correctly.
Types:-
1. Intensive
They may be of one to one or one to many type, but the primary property is their reactivity towards only a single boy, irrespective of the no. of boys they talk to.
2. Extensive
They are also categorised in one to one or one to many types but their primary property is the universal reactivity.
There are some other categories too, but they are considered as the sub-categories of these two.
Usages
1. Industrial:- The industrial use is of significance only when the girlfriend and boyfriend are working in some industry. The include winning over the boss's girl or actually the boss if she is beautiful, or the collaguates for some form of unfair advantage.
2. Laboratory:- The girlfriends tend to have a good learning ability, thus enabling the user to make her do the practicals for him, hence securing good marks.
3. Classroom:- Sitting in classroom holding hands and asking her to explain the meaning of what the lecturar is teaching, also asking her to sit closer in case the user is feeling cold etc, comes in the classroom usages of the girlfriend.
4. Library:- Library is the place where the girlfriend proves to be most useful. She acts as a teacher when sitting in the view of others, but as a practical physics material when sitting in the corner where on one can disturb.
5. Canteen:- She acts as a status enhancing object in canteen. The increment in status has an exponential relationship with the physical properties of the girlfriend.
6. Domestic:- A girlfriend may turn out to be a wife material later on, but the conversion may result in physical disfigurement with the increment of size and mass.
Precaution:- One should be highly cautious while handling them. Improper handling may result in burns, injuries or sometimes fatal accidents. The most common result of such handling is the production of tears. It is a highly persuading liquid, hence one must not let them come out under any circumstance.
Mr. Rajashekahr Reddy was a great congress leader.
He was a good administrate chief minister.
He was great brave man.
He had no afraid, he done the some good to the Andhra Pradesh people.
He played in central also for standing UPA government.
He sanctioned Rs 200 for old age people.
He allowed free electricity for farmers in his government.
He granted Paula Vaddi runalu (loans) for the village ladies people.
He allotted houses to the poor people by the project name of Rajeev Gandhi Gruha Pathakm.
Health Arogya Sri Pathakm is fully successes in his period.
He was called by Aparabhagiratha; by reason of he has been built many water projects.
He was started Padayatra (walking) village to village before election and elected after as chief minister.
He helped economically to the farmers through bankers. And he has been right of bank loans, which formers lose by heavy rains and no rains.
He was a political leader. He was controlled party rabbles.
And he was given good answer and he explained very well in assembling quotation hour to opposite party members.
He was not interest to do the separate state Telanga to divide Andhra Pradesh state as two parts or three parts. He said ``we are Teluguwala, all are one’’.
He was born in Puluivendala, Cuddapah district date of 08-07-1949.
His father name is Raja Reddy. He was a great political leader.
He was studied in science medical degree at in Gulbarghr, Karnataka state, from the MR collage.
He was opened 70 bed charity hospital in a Jammalamadugu village and he serviced to the poor people.
He was loved Lord Jesus chariest.
His Jagan Mohan Reddy is parliament member. There will be chance to elect congress legislate party leader and chief minister of Andhra Pradesh.
He was to travelling to attend Rachchabanda meeting- Prajalavaddake mukhya mantri (chief minister near to people, died in the middle date 03 –September -2009 in helicopter crass (blast) at Nalamal forest, Kurnool district.
He was good man and great chief minister. He lives always in Andhra Pradesh people hearts.
Getting married is not a debate, it is something every girl and boy eventually do. Man being a social being needs a companion. However there are different ways companion are chosen. Online, Marriage Bureau, The mom's network, Relatives. Love Marriage. Before the final stage of companionship takes place. A lot of under work training takes place. A lot of this training is given to girls in India.
Most common sentences heard by a mom would be.
- You are a girl , so much attitude is not good for you.
- Don't show her so much luxury, eventually she has to go to her husbands house how will she adjust.
- You are a girl learn to adjust .
- You should not argue so much, all this anger will land you in trouble one day.
- If this is how you are going to continue, your husband will soon leave you back with me.
All these statements, as innocent they look are extracts of experience by every married women, every mother who wishes for her daughter to leave happily with her husband , teaches her a lot of things like cooking, cleaning, keeping the house well. But more than anything the mothers try to tell the girl she needs to adjust and never complain. This was a formula to successful marriage until a few years back.
Chance being the only constant thing in the universe, this formula got a lot of deviations. Girls started working and earning equal to the guys, including they guy they may marry. Girls started working 3rd shifts, They started going to discos, late nights. A girl knows how a beer tastes, she knows how much alcohol a Berrzer contain. A girl knows what is investing in the market, they can debate on which stock is better than the other. Man lost a lot of ground to monopoly due to, all the chances that have taken place off late. Marriage is still believed to be a mans word and women's sacrifice, However there is an alternate solution that was found to break this rule. The increase in love marriages.
Love is a feeling, it is no calculation, no politics, no formula. It is " I love you." It is the butterfly effect that happens in once stomach after seeing a guy walk into the induction room. It is the your eyes following one guy and keeping a tab of this guy's activities. It is the sleepless and anxious nights that go, waiting for the day to begin so you can meet the someone special. Love is formed by emotions. As girls and boys socialise more than before, the love disease has spread in a greater proportion and made almost everyone around a victim. Every girl has a boyfriend, every guy is always looking for a girl friend.
This love disease, results in creation of couples, These couples start to talk, gossip, roam and some go an extra mile and live with each other in the same house and then decide if they want to live with each other forever and after. Most of these couples, dream not plan.
What are these dreams, They dream about being happy forever, and being with each other and happy forever. The smile that never disappears in their 2 hours meeting every days. They dream that this smile will never leave them, it will always stay with them. All these couples feel they will be able to create an example in the society of how happy couples are . They feel they love each other so much that nothing can ever come between them. They will never have any arguments because they understand each other. They feel they will never have any problems and even if they do they will be able to solve it because they love each other. Everything is a dreamy picture where they are holding hands and flying in clouds smiling. Girls more than any one else dream holding hands of their beloved and getting married and living happily ever after. They feel they will get an equal status as their husband in the marriage, because they are working, earning. And this sweet guy they are with will never try to dominate them or be unfair in anyway. They feel if they marry the guy choosen by their parents, They can never know if he is right for them, and they will never be able to create a chemistry with a guy they have meet just two days back.
The couples in love move towards marriage. There is the normal argument with mother and fathers who don't prefer the love marriage. The couples come out of the shell and get the point of view about how the world feels about their pair. A variety of point of view produce numerous statements, that this dreamy couple never thought about. They start to discover, the flause of their pair. They start looking at each other differently. They are not as sweet to each other as they were a couple of days back. The girl has hear her mom say the below
- He is working as an associate, doesnt even have his own property yet.
- He is so young/ so old how is going to take the responsibility of life
- How much does he earn
- What is his education
- What caste is he
- He doesn't look that good
- Does his parents agree
- What does his parents do
The boy has heard her mom point out the below.
- I can get so many better girls than her
- She is not from our caste
- What kind of girl is this, she has too much attitude
- What does her parents do
- So you plan to marry her without taking anything / She will come empty handed
- What will our relatives say
- You leave the girl, or you leave our house
- We have already seen a girl for you
- What have the parents made for her
These are the absolute worst case scenarios, a lot of marriages happen without any issues. However what happens next.
Due to the disliking of the parents, some quit the relation and decide to go with the parents choice. Some manage to be rebel's and make their affair a legal bond of marriage. However now the 2 hours or meeting is a 24 hours living zone. This zone requires house arrangement, a house, furniture. This living zone, has rent, water bill,electricity bill, phone bill, grocery. It has everything that the 2 hour meeting did not have. This zone has you seeing everything beyond your knowledge.
This living zone, does not run with love, its requires your energy to make it functional. You will have furniture that needs cleaning. Water that needs to be stored. Grocery that needs to be cooked everyday. There are payments that need to be made. Love doesn't change responsibility. Even if your boyfriend was an excellent cook. He will not cook everyday meal. The specific order in the restaurant and casual comments of your boy friend about things he does not eat, all those are now items you cant cook, even if you like eating them. This mild statement poiting "this dress does not suit you," is now an order to never get such clothes. His moms smile in the wedding about how, she talks too much, is now rude eyes asking you to keep quite.
The boyfriend you had decided to marry was
- Late only by few minutes, and always showed up to meet you. There was always a valid reason why he was late
- He use to take you to a good restaurant and order everything you liked, You never ordered much
- He use to buy you flowers, and dresses and everything all the time
- He was jealous of your friends, and told you so.
- He was the sweet guy, you came to pursue you after a argument or fight.
The man you married is
- Gets up late, he needs his tea and newspaper before you ask him to get up
- You have to iron his clothes so that he can go out. If not ironed he gets angry. Yes this boyfriend has anger
- This man, apparently likes the food made by his mom better than you, and expects you to learn from the mom
- This man, does not always do what you live and say
- He does not think of buying you anything anymore
- He has a budget that does not allow going to the restaurant all the time
- He doesn't come to pursue you after fights, he wont even realise you haven't had your food until you mention it after the fight.
The mother in law eventually tells you, you don't know what is happening in our house. She will eventually point out that your family did not give enough in marriage. The husband will agree with the mother in law. You will finally realise that everything that was true before marriage has changed after the day you married your boyfriend.
The difficulty of marriage don't change because you have a love marriage, they only take a new form. Its like this law on energy, that it cannot be created or destroyed just transferred from one form to another.There is no short cut to a succesful marriage, It requires hardwork, No matter what.
The boyfriend you marry, is also a man. Every man is a set of problems, by changing the man you only exchange a set of problems. You have to work hard on making relationships a success
Every person who is getting married or planning marry, plans a lot of things. They plan the special day with atmost importance. For every girl this is a fairy tale dream. A dream were they are the princess dressed in satin, embedded with crowns and holding the diamond stick. This is the day that the bride and groom are highlights of the show. This day summanies all the excitment.
- The wedding dress
- The bags filled with new clothes
- The jewelery
- New bags
- New shoes
- A brand new husband
- Honey moon plans
- New furniture
- Lot of smiling faces
This is the greeting card of an Indian marriage, this is how the proposal of marriage looks inside a girls head. This is all she sees and dreams about. The wedding day begins doing all of that, it is infact the same dream come true, However once the brides hand is given in the grooms hand. The myst of that dream starts to unfold into reality. Once you wear that magalsutra, you are now no longer mama's girl who can get up at 10-30 ask for coffee and wait around the TV for breakfast. You are no longer the girl who can pop out of house at your own will. Once that thread surronds your neck, you become the pride and honer of a man. They become each others Better Half.
The brides plans dont cross the borders of the wedding dress, However the beauty of that dress that she wears only onces in her life, fades and looks unreal, if the person does not understand the commitment a marriage is. If one does not understand the responsibility one is expected to behold.
Marriages are said to be made in Heaven, However with the reducing gap between Man and Women, and the fast food life that we are living. The macro world that we today belong to, allows us to be selective listeners and viewers of life. We want all the good and want all the bad to disappear. Marriage has become limited to the glory of that one day, Its got limited to the planning of the Wedding dress.
Marriage is an action that has effects in our entier life, it is a commitment that is given to accept every chance that takes place there after.
Every mantra and sloka that is said to get one married , the 7 rounds of agni each have a meaning. They are a commitement to accept the person in his good and bad, in his health and disease, in his poor and rich, in everything that comes and that goes. With those solaks we give a commitment , we take it also. It is not only for the girl it is applicable to the boy as well.
Soon the guy you saw coming on a horse and dress in a silver dress will change in his short and sit watching TV. The glory of the wedding day disappears and leaves the naked truth and reality of the married life in your Henna dress hands. Marriage is not about that day, but everyday after that .
With the industrial revolution, women has become equal to men, that is a good thing. However along with this a lot has changed . With the increase in working women, there is also an increase in divorse rate, why is this increase, there is a logical reason behind every trend that takes place, Every women wanting to be a revoltionery and wanting to argue and make it a point to fight back. Women are known to mature before a man, known for their patient and more than anything for the art of a smile. Everything can be done with a smile. Patience is the virtue to all the problems that arise in a marriage. One has to give and take. However for a girl the giving comes first and taking comes for the rest of her life. Delaying gratification is what this term is called. Delaying Gratification means keeping the rewards for the end, so that you have a purpose to do the entier work. If you take the rewards before the work is complete you will feel sad and unhappy for do the pending task.
Delaying gratification is a very important thing when it comes to anything in our life, right from our childhood to our death we should master this skill to be sucessful and happy in life.
If a worker picks all the light boxes in the earlier part of his duty, he will be left with the heavy boxes for the end of the day. He is already tiered and there is nothing easy left to be done for him. However had he worked hard and picked all the heavy boxes first when he was fresh and had the strength in the beginning of the day, he would have been tired but the rest of the day would have become a lot easier for him as there is just a few light boxes left to be moved. With this thought, he would have managed to do the entier day and end on a happy note.
We all choose the work we like, first, and then go to the work we dislike. The same is done in a new marriage, Honeymoon roaming, partying all these are the easy bits of marriage, And as soon as they are over one is left with nothing else to look forward to . Had one invested time and energy in understanding family difficulties and things that need to be put in place for a functional house hold. One has the entier life to go on tours and shopping as everything else is already taken care. But we all finish the happy part and stretch it to extensive levels, untill it looses all its charm and then find ourselves with arguments and disagreements that distroy the little left
Discipline and hardwork and the motto to everything in Life.
Rampant Poverty in Villages & Slums
We live in cities, move on two-wheelers or four-wheelers, beat summers and winters by electric appliances and live a life of a modern human being. We might not lead luxurious lives; yet, we get food to eat, clothes to wear and a shelters for covering our heads. We are busy in earning our bread and struggle to survive.Nevertheless, there are more unfortunate people, in rural India, who do not get even one time food to fill their bellies. They are undernourished because of prolonged starvation. They struggle around for getting a handful of food with eyes sunk in the eye-sockets and rib-cage bones projecting out of their sunburnt dark skins. We on the other hand discuss for hours reaching out for the best possible sunscreen lotion on internet and find solutions for sun tanning.
It is not only in rural India; the people living in the slums in metros also live lives that are even more pathetic. I remember a couple of poor children picking grains of boiled rice from an open drain in Pune. Such scenes are common where there are open drains near restaurants and the housekeeping staff dump leftover food along with the garbage.
That is the reason that I felt offended when I read reviews about the British film ‘Slum-dog Millionaire’. I observed with pain and helplessness the inhuman neglect of the slum kids after the release of the film, its box-office success and the award giving ceremony in Oscars. I felt it so intensely because I have seen poverty so very closely whenever I made trips to villages close to my hometown Narsinghpur in MP and dedicated visits to slums and downtowns in different metros.
I had the same feeling when I saw poor people in the US also, I happened to visit Washington DC and New York while being on a long stay in Ashburn, Virginia County. When I went to visit a nearby area for spending an evening, I saw a poor man on a road crossing, holding a placard in his hands written with a request asking for alms . On an other day, I happened to see a poor man squatting on the floor of a staircase in a metro-station when I was on a trip to New York.
When I went to Maryland for shopping of some Indian stuff, I felt as-if I was in an Indian town a place dominated by middle class crowd, mainly from asia. The American glamor and luxurious style of life was just missing in Maryland. There were very few cars around; most of the people were moving around on foot.
After seeing the people living in super-luxury and on the other hand, the most unfortunate poor people living in utter-poverty and struggling to survive in a starving hell, I have concluded that the various religions and casts and creeds followed across the world, are only eyewash...
There are only two religions and they are ‘The Rich’ and ‘The Poor’.
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