Attract all with your magnetism
SELF IMPROVEMENT
1. Most of us secretly desire that heads would turn when we entered the room and people would effortlessly get magnetized, energized, aroused, and attracted to us. Its little wonder then, why we are all so engrossed in beautifying ourselves, wearing the latest fashion trends or even flaunting our wealth. The surprising fact however is, that dressing well or being wealthy is not necessarily the key to becoming popular or acquiring a magnetic personality. Yet, observing and reading about people with magnetic personalities and intensely desiring to have it is certainly the primary key to achieving dynamism
2. be confident and comfortable about yourself. It’s easy to do this once you have taken conscious step to build greater self-confidence, initiative, dynamism, leadership, will-power and discipline in yourself. In other words, only when we start loving and respecting yourself unconditionally, will other start doing the same.
3. Become a friendly and warm person. Greet friends and acquaintances with a cheerful smile that makes them brighten up, feel happy and at ease.
4. Make your own style statement by dressing attractively, smartly and intelligently to suit the occasion. Practice good posture, positive body language, and dress well to get noticed, be confident and emit radiance when interacting with people.
5. Learn how to emit positive body energy and positive vibes. It is a well known fact that only happy persons can build others and make others happy. Consciously make an effort to remain happy, show genuine pleasure on meeting people, make direct yet pleasant eye contact, be appreciative, help people out and express sincere concern.
6. become an interesting conservationist, a good listener and avoid getting involved in arguments. It is well known that every man loves hearing sound his/her own voice so preferably let the other person talk more. Show interest in the other person to make him\her feel important.
7. Cultivate the art of speaking intelligently and interestingly by being well read and generally aware. What is more important however is learning to speak in a calm, easy going and friendly manner. It is essential to use tact and sensitivity towards other feelings while talking. Always have a few good jokes, riddles, songs and some lines of a foreign language e in mind and know when best to use them, to become a witty conservationist.
8. In order to be remembered as someone who stands out in a crowd, one needs to also take some extra effort. Remembering people by their names and wishing them on their Birthday’s is a great way to ensure, that you also are not easily forgotten.
9. Excel in something, be it sports, work, academics, music, literature or anything else. If you have not as yet excelled, it’s never too late, start trying now! Learn to have the confidence and attitude of an achiever, because only when you visualize will succeed.
10. Develop a strong character as the crux of your personality. With integrity, honesty, dignity and discipline being your benchmarks, build a name and credibility for yourself. A credibility that is so strong that before you enter a room, people are already waiting for you and talking positively about you!