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Do you hesitate to say "SORRY" to anyone?

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Earlier i was hesitate when i have to say sorry to someone for any mistake or anything because of my ego. But from the day I started doing so I feel good. Because I feel that atleast I have done my part now its upto that person to forget me or not. But i feel a little bit calm after doing so.

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Sarala, you are right, there is a lot of hurt involved in expecting things from others, but having just expectations is not wrong and especially for something that you truly have worked for and deserve it.
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Actually Human life is full of expectations. But human does not think expecting things will hurt more when they does not happen. So if we wont expect then there will be no hurt and no much pain.
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Actually Human life is full of expectations. But human does not think expecting things will hurt more when they does not happen. So if we wont expect then there will be no hurt and no much pain.


This is normal when we have expectations and when our expectation don't meet we get hurt. :evil: Its better than not to have expectations. :woohoo:
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but kalyani ji we are human beings and we cant stop our mind and heart from expecting things from others because its a human nature that we expect from others howsoever many of us deny from this fact but its true that we cant completely stop expecting from others.
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I never feel hesitate in saying sorry for my mistakes. It is like reducing one kind of burden.
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yes you are right it reduces some kind of burden from mind and we feel relaxed after doing so as if we have won something big. :)
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yes you are right it reduces some kind of burden from mind and we feel relaxed after doing so as if we have won something big. :)


Thats true when i say sorry to someone or someone says sorry to me it relaxes my mind and i feel like i have put off lot of burden from my mind and heart. :whistle: :)
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It is always like that.. Realization of our mistake and accept it in front of others always reduce our burden of that mistake.
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Why should one hesitate if he or she has good reasons to say so!
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There are few people who have ego to say sorry for their mistake. This is really bad
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Most of you people have answered, "I will say sorry, if I find that I have done mistake". It's sure, I also say so. But no one has told till now, ARE WE ABLE TO REALIZE OUR MISTAKES B)

The problem with we common people is that, we can't identify our mistakes and will always say, our horse has 3 legs. Am I not right???? :woohoo:
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When this word comes off my lips I mean it!! Not a mechanical production or reproduction!!
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Whenever i find myself wrong, i say 'Sorry' immediately. I dont care 4 my ego. Ego is not bigger than anyone's emotions. :)
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Whenever i find myself wrong, i say 'Sorry' immediately. I dont care 4 my ego. Ego is not bigger than anyone's emotions. :)


Ego is what we should avoid to make relationships better. :)

I never keep ny ego issues up as i know ego will harm us in any case. :evil:
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I do realize my mistakes also but not at the very moment. sometimes i say sorry first and then realize what bad i did and sometimes i realize and then i say sorry but in both sorry there is a big difference.when i realize it first i feel so guilty that i keep that person sorry until and unless he/she accepts that and forgive me.
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Whenever i find myself wrong, i say 'Sorry' immediately. I dont care 4 my ego. Ego is not bigger than anyone's emotions. :)


Ego is what we should avoid to make relationships better. :)

I never keep ny ego issues up as i know ego will harm us in any case. :evil:


That's the perfect SJ. Ego surely break relationships in to time. From both person one should understand this thing.
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I never keep ny ego issues up as i know ego will harm us in any case. :evil:[/quote]

That's the perfect SJ. Ego surely break relationships in to time. From both person one should understand this thing.[/quote]
I never mind saying sorry if I am wrong. But I do not like people with wrong intentions. I never care for them.
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When this word comes off my lips I mean it!! Not a mechanical production or reproduction!!

Yes, of course. I also believe so....
But among friends no need to say sorry...only need to feel it
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When this word comes off my lips I mean it!! Not a mechanical production or reproduction!!

Yes, of course. I also believe so....
But among friends no need to say sorry...only need to feel it


saying sorry has got no meaning one should realize it by heart. :whistle:
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