Sarala, you are right, there is a lot of hurt involved in expecting things from others, but having just expectations is not wrong and especially for something that you truly have worked for and deserve it.
"I am free of all prejudice. I hate everyone equally." - W. C. Fields :)
Actually Human life is full of expectations. But human does not think expecting things will hurt more when they does not happen. So if we wont expect then there will be no hurt and no much pain.
Actually Human life is full of expectations. But human does not think expecting things will hurt more when they does not happen. So if we wont expect then there will be no hurt and no much pain.
This is normal when we have expectations and when our expectation don't meet we get hurt. :evil: Its better than not to have expectations. :woohoo:
but kalyani ji we are human beings and we cant stop our mind and heart from expecting things from others because its a human nature that we expect from others howsoever many of us deny from this fact but its true that we cant completely stop expecting from others.
yes you are right it reduces some kind of burden from mind and we feel relaxed after doing so as if we have won something big. :)
Thats true when i say sorry to someone or someone says sorry to me it relaxes my mind and i feel like i have put off lot of burden from my mind and heart. :whistle: :)
