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9 years ago
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9 years ago
Shampa Sadhya replied to the topic Complexities of human nature .
I liked the list very much. If we sincerely believe in these six points then I feel we can in many ways change our own attitude which will be good for us as individuals.
9 years ago
anil replied to the topic Complexities of human nature .
usha manohar wrote:
It is not easy to slot people since even those who appear selfish and reserved are bound to have some positive traits in them and the ones who are suppose to be virtuous have some negative points in them. As far as understanding goes people change constantly depending on their interactions and experiences, so it is not easy to judge them.It is best to adopt the policy of taking life and people as they come ..
Your link is not working here. But it is my opinion that it is not easy to understand behaviour of peoples.
9 years ago
anil replied to the topic Is there a perfect age for marriage ?.
usha manohar wrote:
anil wrote:
usha manohar wrote:
MG Singh wrote:
Personally I dont believe in a perfect age for marriage. One can marry at any age 30,40 50 or even later.
I tend to agree with that, marriage should be a personal choice not a compulsion and one should not go by the standards laid down by the society. I have a male cousin who was married at the age of 22 , an arranged marriage which broke up in 3 years time after which he was disillusioned. His wife coped better and got married again after 4 years. He went through many phases of life . Now he has found someone who he feels is the right partner for him and he is 43 years old. The entire family and his well wishers are very happy for him !
it is right that every one have right to marriage when she/he wants. Here is question ideal age for marriage. I think 50 years is not ideal age for marriage.
There is nothing wrong in getting married at 50 since with advanced health care and fitness people remain quite healthy and young even beyond 50....And, afterall it is a personal matter so if a person wants to marry at 50 to someone younger or older or whoever , it is left to the individual. Age difference can be either way, not necessarily men being older and the ladies being younger !
Yes nothing wrong in marring at 50, but only peoples who didn't find right one at the normal age of marriage, marriage at 50 years. At the age of 50 years giving birth to child is not safe and practical. At later stage when both are unable to do thier personal work who will care them.
9 years ago
Shampa Sadhya replied to the topic In Deep water..
The celebrities must reflect some sensibility while doing any advertisement or campaign. Dhoni may not consider this issue as a matter of faith but he must remember that the whole country is not filled with Dhonis only so he should have been careful before doing it.
9 years ago
anil replied to the topic Sanjay Dutt will be released on February 27.
usha manohar wrote:
The problem is our country is the kind of adoration and popularity celebrities enjoy ...we see them raking in money, power and also getting the use of government mechanism in the form of security which comes out of tax payers money. Are they not capable of funding security for themselves ? here it is made to look as if their lives are far more important than other peoples lives. So, naturally with all that it is but natural that , they will have more number of fans feeling sorry for them and wanting them out of prison and if possible not go to prison at all! Fans are that forgiving when it is their fav actor .Om the other hand a poor thief stealing because of his own misfortune is slapped and lynched by the same people ! After all we Indians are hypocrites through and through ..
No doubt life of VIP is more important than common peoples. I read many times that in government hospital woman gave birth to baby on the door or on the floor, no one worry to care them but if any VIP admitted in hospital for minor health problem, a commitee of doctors deputed to look after these.
9 years ago
Shampa Sadhya replied to the topic Sanjay Dutt will be released on February 27.
Spending money for one's own release is not at all a kind of punishment but it is a big slap on the Indian system. Once they are freed it gets proved that money can buy anything and it becomes a mockery of honesty and the book of law.
9 years ago
Shampa Sadhya replied to the topic How to restart a locked topic?.
The fact is, the problem lies in our system. If the system gives special treatment to money, contacts and power then certainly one will take the advantage of it. The system needs to be cleaned which seems to be very difficult.
9 years ago
Shampa Sadhya replied to the topic Is there a perfect age for marriage ?.
This is no doubt a very good option. Those who love cooking for them it's a great way to work, earn and feel satisfied.
9 years ago
usha manohar replied to the topic Modi Visits Pakistan for a meeting with Sharif in a lightening visit.
It is basically the disapproval from the US and other Western nations and also the tough yet smart stand taken by Modi that has somewhat changed their position and has forced them to take action. But knowing them, it may not last long because Pakistan is an unreliable nation going by the past experiences !
9 years ago
usha manohar replied to the topic Sanjay Dutt will be released on February 27.
The problem is our country is the kind of adoration and popularity celebrities enjoy ...we see them raking in money, power and also getting the use of government mechanism in the form of security which comes out of tax payers money. Are they not capable of funding security for themselves ? here it is made to look as if their lives are far more important than other peoples lives. So, naturally with all that it is but natural that , they will have more number of fans feeling sorry for them and wanting them out of prison and if possible not go to prison at all! Fans are that forgiving when it is their fav actor .Om the other hand a poor thief stealing because of his own misfortune is slapped and lynched by the same people ! After all we Indians are hypocrites through and through ..
9 years ago
usha manohar replied to the topic In Deep water..
Manoj Kumar Lamba wrote:
usha manohar wrote:
Jincy Aby wrote:
When we wear footwear, it gives full protection to our feet as well as the entire body from encountering objects which may hurt us like Lord Vishnu who protects his people from various problems that come in our way. Dhoni just gave a pose to an advertisement in a business magazine as Lord Vishnu holding several items including a shoe in his hand. Shoe is not a worst thing, it is the protector of human being. Then, why Hindu people think that he is denigrating their favorite god Vishnu.
Would Christians feel it is ok if Jesus Christ was depicted the same way in an ad with a shoe in his hand ? or a Jain or a Buddhist feels there is nothing wrong if an advertisement is made with their respective gods with shoes in hands ? It is all a matter of belief that needs to be respected ..
True, if some one has done like this for other religion, then protest against him would have started as in the case where Kamlesh Tiwari has commented on Prophet in reply of comment made by Azam Khan on Hindu's. For that Mr. Kamlesh has been arrested a month ago, but the violent protests are still going on in west Bengal and Bihar.
Exactly so ! Religion and belief overrides everything and thats where tolerance comes in..Of course people have different yardsticks of tolerance where it is their faith and religion and others !
9 years ago
usha manohar replied to the topic Are we sitting on the toilet in a wrong way?.
Apparently , the Delhi formula is a success inspite of all the criticisms....The Western /Indian formula too might work for those who have both kinds in their house, unfortunately not so in my case !
9 years ago
usha manohar replied to the topic Complexities of human nature .
It is not easy to slot people since even those who appear selfish and reserved are bound to have some positive traits in them and the ones who are suppose to be virtuous have some negative points in them. As far as understanding goes people change constantly depending on their interactions and experiences, so it is not easy to judge them.It is best to adopt the policy of taking life and people as they come ..
9 years ago
Jincy Aby replied to the topic Yoga for Eye care.
There are number of efficient infertile gynecologists around us who give infertility treatment to infertile couples. They are succeeding in this field by providing babies to their patients through their treatment. The same thing is happening in baba's case also. But I do not know the reason why they are failing to treat themselves.
9 years ago
usha manohar liked an answer to the question Which one do you prefer - a carefully cultivated garden or one with a natural look....
9 years ago
usha manohar liked an answer to the question Which one do you prefer - a carefully cultivated garden or one with a natural look....
9 years ago
Shampa Sadhya replied to the topic Complexities of human nature .
I liked the list very much. If we sincerely believe in these six points then I feel we can in many ways change our own attitude which will be good for us as individuals.
9 years ago
anil replied to the topic Complexities of human nature .
usha manohar wrote:
It is not easy to slot people since even those who appear selfish and reserved are bound to have some positive traits in them and the ones who are suppose to be virtuous have some negative points in them. As far as understanding goes people change constantly depending on their interactions and experiences, so it is not easy to judge them.It is best to adopt the policy of taking life and people as they come ..
Your link is not working here. But it is my opinion that it is not easy to understand behaviour of peoples.
9 years ago
anil replied to the topic Is there a perfect age for marriage ?.
usha manohar wrote:
anil wrote:
usha manohar wrote:
MG Singh wrote:
Personally I dont believe in a perfect age for marriage. One can marry at any age 30,40 50 or even later.
I tend to agree with that, marriage should be a personal choice not a compulsion and one should not go by the standards laid down by the society. I have a male cousin who was married at the age of 22 , an arranged marriage which broke up in 3 years time after which he was disillusioned. His wife coped better and got married again after 4 years. He went through many phases of life . Now he has found someone who he feels is the right partner for him and he is 43 years old. The entire family and his well wishers are very happy for him !
it is right that every one have right to marriage when she/he wants. Here is question ideal age for marriage. I think 50 years is not ideal age for marriage.
There is nothing wrong in getting married at 50 since with advanced health care and fitness people remain quite healthy and young even beyond 50....And, afterall it is a personal matter so if a person wants to marry at 50 to someone younger or older or whoever , it is left to the individual. Age difference can be either way, not necessarily men being older and the ladies being younger !
Yes nothing wrong in marring at 50, but only peoples who didn't find right one at the normal age of marriage, marriage at 50 years. At the age of 50 years giving birth to child is not safe and practical. At later stage when both are unable to do thier personal work who will care them.
9 years ago
Shampa Sadhya replied to the topic In Deep water..
The celebrities must reflect some sensibility while doing any advertisement or campaign. Dhoni may not consider this issue as a matter of faith but he must remember that the whole country is not filled with Dhonis only so he should have been careful before doing it.
9 years ago
anil replied to the topic Sanjay Dutt will be released on February 27.
usha manohar wrote:
The problem is our country is the kind of adoration and popularity celebrities enjoy ...we see them raking in money, power and also getting the use of government mechanism in the form of security which comes out of tax payers money. Are they not capable of funding security for themselves ? here it is made to look as if their lives are far more important than other peoples lives. So, naturally with all that it is but natural that , they will have more number of fans feeling sorry for them and wanting them out of prison and if possible not go to prison at all! Fans are that forgiving when it is their fav actor .Om the other hand a poor thief stealing because of his own misfortune is slapped and lynched by the same people ! After all we Indians are hypocrites through and through ..
No doubt life of VIP is more important than common peoples. I read many times that in government hospital woman gave birth to baby on the door or on the floor, no one worry to care them but if any VIP admitted in hospital for minor health problem, a commitee of doctors deputed to look after these.
9 years ago
Shampa Sadhya replied to the topic Sanjay Dutt will be released on February 27.
Spending money for one's own release is not at all a kind of punishment but it is a big slap on the Indian system. Once they are freed it gets proved that money can buy anything and it becomes a mockery of honesty and the book of law.
9 years ago
Shampa Sadhya replied to the topic How to restart a locked topic?.
The fact is, the problem lies in our system. If the system gives special treatment to money, contacts and power then certainly one will take the advantage of it. The system needs to be cleaned which seems to be very difficult.
9 years ago
Shampa Sadhya replied to the topic Is there a perfect age for marriage ?.
This is no doubt a very good option. Those who love cooking for them it's a great way to work, earn and feel satisfied.
9 years ago
usha manohar replied to the topic Modi Visits Pakistan for a meeting with Sharif in a lightening visit.
It is basically the disapproval from the US and other Western nations and also the tough yet smart stand taken by Modi that has somewhat changed their position and has forced them to take action. But knowing them, it may not last long because Pakistan is an unreliable nation going by the past experiences !
9 years ago
usha manohar replied to the topic Sanjay Dutt will be released on February 27.
The problem is our country is the kind of adoration and popularity celebrities enjoy ...we see them raking in money, power and also getting the use of government mechanism in the form of security which comes out of tax payers money. Are they not capable of funding security for themselves ? here it is made to look as if their lives are far more important than other peoples lives. So, naturally with all that it is but natural that , they will have more number of fans feeling sorry for them and wanting them out of prison and if possible not go to prison at all! Fans are that forgiving when it is their fav actor .Om the other hand a poor thief stealing because of his own misfortune is slapped and lynched by the same people ! After all we Indians are hypocrites through and through ..
9 years ago
usha manohar replied to the topic In Deep water..
Manoj Kumar Lamba wrote:
usha manohar wrote:
Jincy Aby wrote:
When we wear footwear, it gives full protection to our feet as well as the entire body from encountering objects which may hurt us like Lord Vishnu who protects his people from various problems that come in our way. Dhoni just gave a pose to an advertisement in a business magazine as Lord Vishnu holding several items including a shoe in his hand. Shoe is not a worst thing, it is the protector of human being. Then, why Hindu people think that he is denigrating their favorite god Vishnu.
Would Christians feel it is ok if Jesus Christ was depicted the same way in an ad with a shoe in his hand ? or a Jain or a Buddhist feels there is nothing wrong if an advertisement is made with their respective gods with shoes in hands ? It is all a matter of belief that needs to be respected ..
True, if some one has done like this for other religion, then protest against him would have started as in the case where Kamlesh Tiwari has commented on Prophet in reply of comment made by Azam Khan on Hindu's. For that Mr. Kamlesh has been arrested a month ago, but the violent protests are still going on in west Bengal and Bihar.
Exactly so ! Religion and belief overrides everything and thats where tolerance comes in..Of course people have different yardsticks of tolerance where it is their faith and religion and others !
9 years ago
usha manohar replied to the topic Are we sitting on the toilet in a wrong way?.
Apparently , the Delhi formula is a success inspite of all the criticisms....The Western /Indian formula too might work for those who have both kinds in their house, unfortunately not so in my case !
9 years ago
usha manohar replied to the topic Complexities of human nature .
It is not easy to slot people since even those who appear selfish and reserved are bound to have some positive traits in them and the ones who are suppose to be virtuous have some negative points in them. As far as understanding goes people change constantly depending on their interactions and experiences, so it is not easy to judge them.It is best to adopt the policy of taking life and people as they come ..
9 years ago
Jincy Aby replied to the topic Yoga for Eye care.
There are number of efficient infertile gynecologists around us who give infertility treatment to infertile couples. They are succeeding in this field by providing babies to their patients through their treatment. The same thing is happening in baba's case also. But I do not know the reason why they are failing to treat themselves.
9 years ago