An expert can read our mind by looking into our eyes. Looking into eyes is one of the important aspects of effective communication. Learn some tricks that will help you to communicate effectively and positively.
Center of Eyes : The center of our eyes ie; black eye ball shows changes according to ones feelings. If one is happy normally eyeball expands 4 times of its size. And when you are angry or sad then eye ball will contract.
Eye to Eye Contact : When you speaks to somebody always keep direct eye to eye contact. By doing this you can create a feeling that you are totally involved in the discussion. By doing so your communication will be smoother. If somebody looks we feel irritated because of the changes in their look. For example if one is telling lies then he’ll look into your eyes during only one third of the discussion time.
Business Sight : If we are involved in a business discussion, there are so many things to take care of. If there is a triangle shape in the fore head of person opposite to you then concentrate mainly on that area. It will give energy and positive attitude to you. If your sight is not below the level of other persons eyes then control will be with you. It will help you for a faster discussion also.
Social Sight : If the sight is between one’s eyes and mouth then it is known to attain a social attire.
Sight from nearby : When you stand very close to somebody then normally one’s range of sight will be in the areas between eyes and chest. If the person is standing a little more further then this range will be between eyes and waist. If both like each other, then the other party gives a return back to the same areas.
Sight to both sides : It represents the disinterest in the matter under discussion or enmity. But if the sight is moved sideward with a small smile in the face, then it shows interest in the matter.
Closed eyes : If somebody closes his/her eyes while talking you should be cautious to the situations. One closes his eyes when the matter under discussion is boring. You can change your topic accordingly.
The influence of the movements of eye has strong influence in the communication. If you learn to recognize these, you can better handle a situation. Good mangers and Great personalities are always master in eye reading. Learning simple things in your life can take you to great heights