The change of Life.
How it was and how it is
Life is/was so beutiful but it has end.life is a journey which starts with the growth for 9 months in the mothers woomb.
Many people speaks that a kid start listening reacting from 6th month onwards in the woomb itself, but really it is the case? If so why your date of birth start from the date when you appear out of woomb why not the day when you start gworing inside the woomb..all mistery. The life at the start is very good life everybody will love you pray for you, admire you. Your small mistakes, murmering talk is like a gods word for parents and relatives. But as the days/years passes, you keep growing with the age and the things try to become different, the silly mistake will look very bigger for parents, If you fight with with some one in midd age till 10 you will be beaten like anything, they are also correct as they want their kid to get proper discipline.
After all its life which has many phases which we need to pass to get admitted in to next phase. Now in this 21st century the condition becomes well worst, since the childhood a kid need to carry a big bag with a load more than their weight called as School bag. The time passes the kid grow more more and the condition bacomes worst worst, some kids grow properly in to youth( a good boy) some becomes youngsters( the world called them idiots).
Before learning how to play now a days kids are learning A B C D. where are the days when kid used to go to the school after 5 years, now parents wants their kid to go to convent in early age fo 1.5 yrs or less just to have competition among the coworkers, society, but the same parents who were thinking about the kids laugh kids activity they started thinking about future which is going very far ahead, had a long journey since the 1 year onwards only.is it good? once you complete your schools days struggled for markes and try to get admission in good college to get good marks to get good university for degree/diploma inspite to get good job, good life good wife.
The life is over, now its your turn to handle all the responsibility and care about your kids. Thats life so small, same pattern! But many people are forgetting that life has its value and we have to use it, DOnt just live a life to pass the phases of life, live a life to achieve phases of life. Let the kid grow the directtion where they want, let them play let them enjoy, putting pressure just can earn respect in society but not in yourself, just to achieve good marks in school/college we are beating our kids, putting pressure , thats not fare its his own lief let him njoy. He will learn how to live good life soon.
There are few points which every parent should keep in mind about the their kids.
1) Hardly put the pressure about the study.
2) Let them grow as they want
3) be strict where its required but not everywhere just to show status in society.
4) first think about yourself then think about others.
5) Dont ever prompt kids about others kids growth, sometime they will mislead in future.
As life is very short, kids has to grow start the education get the job earn the money, get married, reproduce and finally old age. and all over...a death.
Keep yourself young always .