In our country Marriage was institution which was earlier engagement of 7 rebirth, when husband were treated as next to god. These things are changing fast due westernisationand western values ladies are getting equal status that is very good thing, but in a family mutual respect is very important . Generally in family , head of family is taking major decision & other are Supporting. Now things are changing , head should take decision in consultation with other members of family ,otherwise wise there will be revolt within family , other member of family should not question once decision is taken, head of family should be given full respect & any difference of opinion should be expressed with due respect and permission . I t is to be to be noted sometime people take decision , Some time decision may positive and sometime negative . Once decision is taken ,whole family should own it ,due to decision ,head should not be criticized . For wrong decision family should accepts as decision was taken jointly. In family one should not impose decision on others ,other members sentiments should also be taken care ,on important issues debate should be done ,if suggestion of some member is rejected ,he/she should be properly explained. Never behave as teacher or preacher all the time ,it will have negative effect, positive things should be discussed first and negative thinga should be discussed as well wisher ,show ,you are friend not enemy . Show you care him/ her . In todays world ,career should be selected with long term sight ,girls are also taking to good jobs , they will have to understand that they have to take care of family ,children ,husband .Do not run very much for money ,if you run then you may not give any time for family ,family may feel neglected ,that may increase tension ,dissatisfaction ultimately divorce ,whether boys or girls ,both have equal responsibility in running happy family ,hence be careful and alert before going for marriage. Due paucity of time ,divorce cases will be very high ,until unless our future generation takes care of every thing.