Do Every parents treat their all Children equally?
Do Every parents treat their all Children equally?
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Yes they do partiality but that's OK as far as it does not hurt or get noticed by other kids. :)
But this is wrong. I don't think we should do partiality with our Kids.
No one does it intentionally it happens like in my case my daughter is more dear to me and I do some partiality but that's not intentionally. :)
Parents do not practice knowingly. It happens without their knowledge.
Most parents are attached very strongly with all their children, but there are children in a particular family who need special attention while others need to be treated as normal ones. This depends on person to person basis but that is not partial in any way. that in fact is attention for the needy one.
Yes they do partiality but that's OK as far as it does not hurt or get noticed by other kids. :)
But this is wrong. I don't think we should do partiality with our Kids.
No one does it intentionally it happens like in my case my daughter is more dear to me and I do some partiality but that's not intentionally. :)
Ok, Now i got you. You love your daughter very much, so you give little more love than your Son. That is fine. But I think Son, should not feel that partiality.
Yes they do partiality but that's OK as far as it does not hurt or get noticed by other kids. :)
But this is wrong. I don't think we should do partiality with our Kids.
No one does it intentionally it happens like in my case my daughter is more dear to me and I do some partiality but that's not intentionally. :)
Ok, Now i got you. You love your daughter very much, so you give little more love than your Son. That is fine. But I think Son, should not feel that partiality.
No I equally love my son but sometimes i become partial on some situation but that's on small issues. :laugh:
Yes they do partiality but that's OK as far as it does not hurt or get noticed by other kids. :)
But this is wrong. I don't think we should do partiality with our Kids.
No one does it intentionally it happens like in my case my daughter is more dear to me and I do some partiality but that's not intentionally. :)
Ok, Now i got you. You love your daughter very much, so you give little more love than your Son. That is fine. But I think Son, should not feel that partiality.
No I equally love my son but sometimes i become partial on some situation but that's on small issues. :laugh:
I have seen, that father love their daughter more. Its fine. There is nothing wrong in that kind of love :)
Yes they do partiality but that's OK as far as it does not hurt or get noticed by other kids. :)
But this is wrong. I don't think we should do partiality with our Kids.
No one does it intentionally it happens like in my case my daughter is more dear to me and I do some partiality but that's not intentionally. :)
Ok, Now i got you. You love your daughter very much, so you give little more love than your Son. That is fine. But I think Son, should not feel that partiality.
No I equally love my son but sometimes i become partial on some situation but that's on small issues. :laugh:
I have seen, that father love their daughter more. Its fine. There is nothing wrong in that kind of love :)
Even everyone at my home love my daughter more than my son since their birth as my daughter is more sensible than my son. :)
Yes they do partiality but that's OK as far as it does not hurt or get noticed by other kids. :)
But this is wrong. I don't think we should do partiality with our Kids.
No one does it intentionally it happens like in my case my daughter is more dear to me and I do some partiality but that's not intentionally. :)
Ok, Now i got you. You love your daughter very much, so you give little more love than your Son. That is fine. But I think Son, should not feel that partiality.
No I equally love my son but sometimes i become partial on some situation but that's on small issues. :laugh:
I have seen, that father love their daughter more. Its fine. There is nothing wrong in that kind of love :)
Even everyone at my home love my daughter more than my son since their birth as my daughter is more sensible than my son. :)
Happy to hear this.
Parents love all children and take best care of all. But the children may be different needing different treatment. I am reminded of an incident. a woman distributed sweets in her village as her son passed matriculation exam in III div. A few days later, her another son passed graduation in I div. The woman did not care. On asking why this time she was so indifferent to her success, she said that thus was not unexpected. She loved both but rejoiced more on success of her incompetent son. There is also a story in Bible of Prodigal son. Father rejoices as his truant son returns. On complaining by his loyal son, he says that when a sheep is missing, the shepherd ignores all but the one missing and rejoices on getting back the missing one.
This is very commonly seen in middle class family. Later this affects the mind of the child. One is celebrating for his success and the other don't get chance to celebrate because it is obvious with him.
I remember one incident. Father bought a cycle for his son after he failed in his exam. This is nothing but affection which I did not understood. On the other hand, girl is good in all aspect she is ignored most of the time. This is how they train their daughter to learn to sacrifice her wishes for the sake of her family. Is this fair?
Do Every parents treat their all Children equally?
Sometimes children think that they are ignored by his parents. Later they realise that they were wrong. Parents do many things to brought up their child and try to provide them according to their requisits. Hence very few children can realise and understand this fact.
In very few cases, where two children are of the same age may get ignored by their parents. Problem becomes serious if both are twins.
I remember one incident. Father bought a cycle for his son after he failed in his exam. This is nothing but affection which I did not understood. On the other hand, girl is good in all aspect she is ignored most of the time. This is how they train their daughter to learn to sacrifice her wishes for the sake of her family. Is this fair?
This is not fair. But this is more a question of social gender bias rather than parental love. Recently, such discrimination has been noticed in China also. The boys are getting preference in college admission there. Girls are protesting by shaving off hair on their heads. But Chinese Government views that this discrimination is in national interest.
I am not sure what you mean by treating children equally , is it with regard to providing basic necessities which of course you do or is it regarding financial matters which again you do or is it about emotional needs. As far as that is concerned you have to take them as individuals and treat each one differently to be fair ...
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