Do Every parents treat their all Children equally?

I remember one incident. Father bought a cycle for his son after he failed in his exam. This is nothing but affection which I did not understood. On the other hand, girl is good in all aspect she is ignored most of the time. This is how they train their daughter to learn to sacrifice her wishes for the sake of her family. Is this fair?

Do Every parents treat their all Children equally?

Sometimes children think that they are ignored by his parents. Later they realise that they were wrong. Parents do many things to brought up their child and try to provide them according to their requisits. Hence very few children can realise and understand this fact.
In very few cases, where two children are of the same age may get ignored by their parents. Problem becomes serious if both are twins.

I remember one incident. Father bought a cycle for his son after he failed in his exam. This is nothing but affection which I did not understood. On the other hand, girl is good in all aspect she is ignored most of the time. This is how they train their daughter to learn to sacrifice her wishes for the sake of her family. Is this fair?

This is not fair. But this is more a question of social gender bias rather than parental love. Recently, such discrimination has been noticed in China also. The boys are getting preference in college admission there. Girls are protesting by shaving off hair on their heads. But Chinese Government views that this discrimination is in national interest.

It would be better if all the children are equally treated. Then only healthier society will be formed.

Love can not be weighted but to parents all are equal and they loves equally. Giving something or not is not called love.

I am not sure what you mean by treating children equally , is it with regard to providing basic necessities which of course you do or is it regarding financial matters which again you do or is it about emotional needs. As far as that is concerned you have to take them as individuals and treat each one differently to be fair ...

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some parents treat some difference their children. but maximum parents here to treat equally because children is our life, dream, and trust.

some parents treat some difference their children. but maximum parents here to treat equally because children is our life, dream, and trust.

I request all the parents to treat all their children equally. Let us create a healthy society.

My parents treat us equally only. There is no partiality.

My parents treat us equally only. There is no partiality.

My Parents treated us well & equally. Ours case its ok. But think about others.

Yes you are right. All should treat their all children equally. If we dont treat equally jealous between each other will create. It is the reason for sibling fights.

Yes you are right. All should treat their all children equally. If we dont treat equally jealous between each other will create. It is the reason for sibling fights.

The major reason behind the sibling fights for the properties is children feel that they are not being treat equally. But we are not aware of this. we think that it is for property. We are not to ready to make analysis to find the real factor behind these fights.

No parent will treat their all children equally. Especially they show difference between girl child and boy child alot. They give more freedom to the boy and very less freedom to girl.

Yes you are right. All should treat their all children equally. If we dont treat equally jealous between each other will create. It is the reason for sibling fights.

The major reason behind the sibling fights for the properties is children feel that they are not being treat equally. But we are not aware of this. we think that it is for property. We are not to ready to make analysis to find the real factor behind these fights.

I personally feel that parents can only be equal to all the children while giving them food and other basic needs. But where treating them with regard to any other matter we have to treat them differently because they are different individuals and have their own personalities which a parent should bear in mind.That is my experience since I have three children very different in their nature , with their own strong personalities and individual preferences and I have to see that they are treated the way they want to be,,,

To my point no parents will not treat thier children equally they will show partiality between a boy and girl.

Not only in girl and boy even in boy and boy also they show difference. but mostly girl and boy they show more and more difference

Not only in girl and boy even in boy and boy also they show difference. but mostly girl and boy they show more and more difference

What you said is exactly correct Sarala Madam. Every human being has recognition and evaluation system. If you see some unknown people, you wont like or get irritated without any reason. Whereas few you like to have relationship with. When coming to children, it shouldnt go beyond the limit.

It depends based on the mind set and behaviour of parents and children. B)

Yes I have seen many parents who do not treat their children equally.But many of them cannot do so.Children are same in the eyes of their parents.So parents must not do this with their children.