If he/she returns back......

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Suppose you breakup with your lover/friend. He/she left you for a wrong reason without understanding you. If he/she returns back, will you accept that person back to your life? Will those wounds heal? Will you be able to believe him/her as before? Can broken relations be restored fully? What's your opinion? :whistle:

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Diffuclt though not impossible..
As jagjit singh ghazal lines say : Gaanth agar lag jaaye tou fir ,, rishte ho yaa dori, laakh kare koshish judne mein waqt tou lagta hai...
Diffuclt though not impossible..
As jagjit singh ghazal lines say : Gaanth agar lag jaaye tou fir ,, rishte ho yaa dori, laakh kare koshish judne mein waqt tou lagta hai...


beautiful lines.....
If wound is deeper, it may take more time. I think it depends on the situation also
It is never too late to mend. There are even cases of second marriage between the same couple. But this is proper only if there is no new relation established meanwhile.
This is not impossible if the other party understands it timely and realize his/her mistake to take the matter seriously. But some times this is not possible because the person concerned may have other commitments to keep, developed during the period .
Its fully depends upon situation if I am not single that time than I will think for settled life not to be disturb.
No its difficult to develop the relationship again with the same person who could not understood you as there is no guarantee that the same thing may not repeat in future. :blink:
Diffuclt though not impossible..
As jagjit singh ghazal lines say : Gaanth agar lag jaaye tou fir ,, rishte ho yaa dori, laakh kare koshish judne mein waqt tou lagta hai...


beautiful lines.....
If wound is deeper, it may take more time. I think it depends on the situation also


True sandhya but that will take long time to mend because everytime the fear of loosing it again will be there... Few cope up and few don;t..
I think if persone come back then you need to judge him befor being back.
It depends though once trust is shattered in a relationship it may take a lot of efforts to bring the relation back to the state it previously would have been. :dry:
If person is just lover then forget him/her. If he/she is life partner then accept him/her.
What type of relation are you saying. If I made any relation with anyone ,that remains in mind and presently makes a new relation. Both are important. One will be invisible and one is visible. He /she may be a good friend.but can't accept by loosing the present as it has no fault.
But if any did not make any relation with anybody ,can accept the old one.
If person is just lover then forget him/her. If he/she is life partner then accept him/her.


there lies the real bond and security a married life gives :)
What type of relation are you saying. If I made any relation with anyone ,that remains in mind and presently makes a new relation. Both are important. One will be invisible and one is visible. He /she may be a good friend.but can't accept by loosing the present as it has no fault.
But if any did not make any relation with anybody ,can accept the old one.


Any type of relation....friends, spouse, lover, business relations etc......am not giving any name to relations
There is always a difference in case of married couples. In marriage you may get back to the ties you once shared but in case of lovers it may not happen. As in marriage there is a kind of surety that the person will remain with you forever (at least in our country it is). But in case of lovers the insecurities may not ever end.
Suppose you breakup with your lover/friend. He/she left you for a wrong reason without understanding you. If he/she returns back, will you accept that person back to your life? Will those wounds heal? Will you be able to believe him/her as before? Can broken relations be restored fully? What's your opinion? :whistle:


Yes I will accept her or him every one will commit mistakes this is human nature but accepting their fault is the only thing they had done which is a good sign of her or his character.
Suppose you breakup with your lover/friend. He/she left you for a wrong reason without understanding you. If he/she returns back, will you accept that person back to your life? Will those wounds heal? Will you be able to believe him/her as before? Can broken relations be restored fully? What's your opinion? :whistle:


Yes I will accept her or him every one will commit mistakes this is human nature but accepting their fault is the only thing they had done which is a good sign of her or his character.


To err is human..right! But do you think if someone has broken your trust once then you will be able to place your trust on him/her again with the same faith you earlier had for him/her. ?
Suppose you breakup with your lover/friend. He/she left you for a wrong reason without understanding you. If he/she returns back, will you accept that person back to your life? Will those wounds heal? Will you be able to believe him/her as before? Can broken relations be restored fully? What's your opinion? :whistle:


Yes I will accept her or him every one will commit mistakes this is human nature but accepting their fault is the only thing they had done which is a good sign of her or his character.


To err is human..right! But do you think if someone has broken your trust once then you will be able to place your trust on him/her again with the same faith you earlier had for him/her. ?


No I cannot keep the same faith on them. He may commit that mistake again. There will be a day to know to them that they had commited mistake at that time they feel alot.
Suppose you breakup with your lover/friend. He/she left you for a wrong reason without understanding you. If he/she returns back, will you accept that person back to your life? Will those wounds heal? Will you be able to believe him/her as before? Can broken relations be restored fully? What's your opinion? :whistle:


Yes I will accept her or him every one will commit mistakes this is human nature but accepting their fault is the only thing they had done which is a good sign of her or his character.


To err is human..right! But do you think if someone has broken your trust once then you will be able to place your trust on him/her again with the same faith you earlier had for him/her. ?


No I cannot keep the same faith on them. He may commit that mistake again. There will be a day to know to them that they had commited mistake at that time they feel alot.


That is the point you may not be able to give your 100 % commitment again.
Suppose you breakup with your lover/friend. He/she left you for a wrong reason without understanding you. If he/she returns back, will you accept that person back to your life? Will those wounds heal? Will you be able to believe him/her as before? Can broken relations be restored fully? What's your opinion? :whistle:


Yes I will accept her or him every one will commit mistakes this is human nature but accepting their fault is the only thing they had done which is a good sign of her or his character.


To err is human..right! But do you think if someone has broken your trust once then you will be able to place your trust on him/her again with the same faith you earlier had for him/her. ?


No I cannot keep the same faith on them. He may commit that mistake again. There will be a day to know to them that they had commited mistake at that time they feel alot.


Not only on them even in our relations also we cannot trust the people who committed mistake.

That is the point you may not be able to give your 100 % commitment again.
Suppose you breakup with your lover/friend. He/she left you for a wrong reason without understanding you. If he/she returns back, will you accept that person back to your life? Will those wounds heal? Will you be able to believe him/her as before? Can broken relations be restored fully? What's your opinion? :whistle:


Yes I will accept her or him every one will commit mistakes this is human nature but accepting their fault is the only thing they had done which is a good sign of her or his character.


To err is human..right! But do you think if someone has broken your trust once then you will be able to place your trust on him/her again with the same faith you earlier had for him/her. ?


No I cannot keep the same faith on them. He may commit that mistake again. There will be a day to know to them that they had commited mistake at that time they feel alot.


Not only on them even in our relations also we cannot trust the people who committed mistake.

That is the point you may not be able to give your 100 % commitment again.


Yes that considers all the relations in general. The insecurities are bound to take over sometimes.

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