It's obvious that always ego and money are main things for spoiling any relationship. I also feel that proper understanding is also needed for survival of good relationship as sometime people don't take time to full listen or understand what the other person wants to say..

Thanks God, I have nothing to be afraid off. I have no money and my wife does not care for my ego. :)

LOL, that's great, so no failed relationship...Your wife seems like a verey sensible person Sunil, keeps you on your toes :P

No- being a professor of instrumental music (read Tabla) she thinks she can fix me whenever she wants to!! :( :laugh: :(

I am already trying to visualize the occasional fixings you get!!!

But yes, if a relationship has to be sustained, egos have to be thrown out the window. Occasionally, they do surface between couples, after all we are all humans, but at such times, one of two must be mature enough to take it in his or her stride maturely and be able to let go of the issue at times. Only then, can a relationship stand the wear and tear for a long time!

I feel that breaking up a relation for ego and money is most appropriate. It is also true that all relations cannot continue for ever. But the break up should also be in cordial atmosphere and for good reasons. When a relation has served its purpose and needs not be continued, the concerned parties may mutually and without malice end the relation.

I feel that breaking up a relation for ego and money is most appropriate. It is also true that all relations cannot continue for ever. But the break up should also be in cordial atmosphere and for good reasons. When a relation has served its purpose and needs not be continued, the concerned parties may mutually and without malice end the relation.

I agree with that , but very few are able to do that ! In most cases there is a lot of mud slinging on both sides with active participation of relatives and friends taking sides , some fence sitters too, adding to the general atmosphere of unpleasantness....

I feel that breaking up a relation for ego and money is most appropriate. It is also true that all relations cannot continue for ever. But the break up should also be in cordial atmosphere and for good reasons. When a relation has served its purpose and needs not be continued, the concerned parties may mutually and without malice end the relation.

I agree with that , but very few are able to do that ! In most cases there is a lot of mud slinging on both sides with active participation of relatives and friends taking sides , some fence sitters too, adding to the general atmosphere of unpleasantness....

There should be no entry into the personal matters in between partners. People would always stand on the fence while you shall be in trouble. None will cross the line to help save you from troubles. We call it "sweet ours- sour yours".

Yes I accept these are the two reasons for failed relationships

If there is love , money won't break the relation. If there is good understanding , then the ego won't break the relation.