Man/woman being a social being , needs people around them most of the time in their life. So, it is necessary for us to have some kind of bonding with others.One needs to cultivate relationships and maintain them...
However when it comes to break ups - If we were to make a note of all the reasons why a relationship fails (it could be any kind of relationship ) , one would probably come to the conclusion and Ego and Money are the two major issues that contribute !
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Ego and misunderstanding are two reasons behind breakups. Money does not hampers relationship to that extent, if love exists.
People who are money minded and miser, often breaks relationship for money.
Money is always an issue when it has to do with shared property matters between relatives,siblings or even parents and children... Sadly ,there is a saying - When problems come through the door , love goes out through the window...
Thanks God, I have nothing to be afraid off. I have no money and my wife does not care for my ego. :)
LOL, that's great, so no failed relationship...Your wife seems like a verey sensible person Sunil, keeps you on your toes :P
No- being a professor of instrumental music (read Tabla) she thinks she can fix me whenever she wants to!! :( :laugh: :(
Thanks God, I have nothing to be afraid off. I have no money and my wife does not care for my ego. :)
LOL, that's great, so no failed relationship...Your wife seems like a verey sensible person Sunil, keeps you on your toes :P
No- being a professor of instrumental music (read Tabla) she thinks she can fix me whenever she wants to!! :( :laugh: :(
I am already trying to visualize the occasional fixings you get!!!
But yes, if a relationship has to be sustained, egos have to be thrown out the window. Occasionally, they do surface between couples, after all we are all humans, but at such times, one of two must be mature enough to take it in his or her stride maturely and be able to let go of the issue at times. Only then, can a relationship stand the wear and tear for a long time!
I feel that breaking up a relation for ego and money is most appropriate. It is also true that all relations cannot continue for ever. But the break up should also be in cordial atmosphere and for good reasons. When a relation has served its purpose and needs not be continued, the concerned parties may mutually and without malice end the relation.
It's obvious that always ego and money are main things for spoiling any relationship. I also feel that proper understanding is also needed for survival of good relationship as sometime people don't take time to full listen or understand what the other person wants to say..
Very true, so we can add communication to the list as well ! lack of communication can also spoil a relationship , so it is very important to communicate at all levels with people who are close to you ...
Thanks God, I have nothing to be afraid off. I have no money and my wife does not care for my ego. :)
LOL, that's great, so no failed relationship...Your wife seems like a verey sensible person Sunil, keeps you on your toes :P
No- being a professor of instrumental music (read Tabla) she thinks she can fix me whenever she wants to!! :( :laugh: :(
I am already trying to visualize the occasional fixings you get!!!
But yes, if a relationship has to be sustained, egos have to be thrown out the window. Occasionally, they do surface between couples, after all we are all humans, but at such times, one of two must be mature enough to take it in his or her stride maturely and be able to let go of the issue at times. Only then, can a relationship stand the wear and tear for a long time!
That is the only reason I am always in favor of women and their rights. You know I know a happy woman in a home can do wonders. Ego is not one sided affair. False ego can play havoc.
I feel that breaking up a relation for ego and money is most appropriate. It is also true that all relations cannot continue for ever. But the break up should also be in cordial atmosphere and for good reasons. When a relation has served its purpose and needs not be continued, the concerned parties may mutually and without malice end the relation.
I agree with that , but very few are able to do that ! In most cases there is a lot of mud slinging on both sides with active participation of relatives and friends taking sides , some fence sitters too, adding to the general atmosphere of unpleasantness....
I feel that breaking up a relation for ego and money is most appropriate. It is also true that all relations cannot continue for ever. But the break up should also be in cordial atmosphere and for good reasons. When a relation has served its purpose and needs not be continued, the concerned parties may mutually and without malice end the relation.
I agree with that , but very few are able to do that ! In most cases there is a lot of mud slinging on both sides with active participation of relatives and friends taking sides , some fence sitters too, adding to the general atmosphere of unpleasantness....
There should be no entry into the personal matters in between partners. People would always stand on the fence while you shall be in trouble. None will cross the line to help save you from troubles. We call it "sweet ours- sour yours".
I feel that breaking up a relation for ego and money is most appropriate. It is also true that all relations cannot continue for ever. But the break up should also be in cordial atmosphere and for good reasons. When a relation has served its purpose and needs not be continued, the concerned parties may mutually and without malice end the relation.
I agree with that , but very few are able to do that ! In most cases there is a lot of mud slinging on both sides with active participation of relatives and friends taking sides , some fence sitters too, adding to the general atmosphere of unpleasantness....
There should be no entry into the personal matters in between partners. People would always stand on the fence while you shall be in trouble. None will cross the line to help save you from troubles. We call it "sweet ours- sour yours".
But surprisingly or not so surprisingly , most people fall under that category of fence sitters ( sweet ours- sour yours ) :P , and they are at their happiest best when they see an opportunity to make gains if possible out of the situation...
If there is love , money won't break the relation. If there is good understanding , then the ego won't break the relation.
Yes thats true , a good communication and understanding forms the base of any relationship,especially marriage.But in most other relationships money and ego can pose problems...
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