Actually is there significant difference between son and daughter???

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Let me tell something about one of my classmates.
She is the eldest of all siblings. Her parents, after getting two daughters decided to have a third child due to their intense desire to get a son. What happened next time was, again girl was born. But this time, they were twins. Thus they got 4 daughters.
Am asking you people, actually is there any difference between these two? Is bringing up a girl kid more risky and costly, that prompts parents to think of a boy? Or is it just their desire to get the presence of a kid at their old age???

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Well! everyone likes to have a Son. Girls would be one, which will be departed after marriage.So, who will care the parents, when they will be old.
So, this is a problem, why everyone likes to SON.

Also to forward the family son is necessary.
Let me tell something about one of my classmates.
She is the eldest of all siblings. Her parents, after getting two daughters decided to have a third child due to their intense desire to get a son. What happened next time was, again girl was born. But this time, they were twins. Thus they got 4 daughters.
Am asking you people, actually is there any difference between these two? Is bringing up a girl kid more risky and costly, that prompts parents to think of a boy? Or is it just their desire to get the presence of a kid at their old age???

This is the mistakes done by many parents and they feel pain and makes the girls feel pain. There is a movie called "BAL" this is good example for the above situation.
Wel! actually, if parents have a girl, they need to do many things to that girl. They need protect the girl and at the age of marriage they need to give dowry for her. But if it is boy there is no need care to be taken or protect that boy and more over they can demand much dowry. Most of the parents desire to have boy for the sake of dowry only.
Dowry is the main reason of this.
Wel! actually, if parents have a girl, they need to do many things to that girl. They need protect the girl and at the age of marriage they need to give dowry for her. But if it is boy there is no need care to be taken or protect that boy and more over they can demand much dowry. Most of the parents desire to have boy for the sake of dowry only.
Dowry is the main reason of this.


Yes, Dowry is the also one reason for Boy.
Parents need some one need to be with them after daughter go the son only one who take care of them
Government is providing lots of facilities to female. Thus it costs less in bringing up a girl child compared to a male child. Maybe that marriage costs a lot for them. Now a days dowry is illegal and punishable by law. Thus this also can't be the reason behind it. Girls can very well look after their parents during their oldage which a son would ignore.
Finally, I would say that it is just backwardness and illiteracy.
I don't think so.Child are gift of god.So whatever it may be a boy or girl we must accept it happily.But i have seen that boys walk fast and girls talk fast.Boys are superior than girls.But nowadays no difference is there all are same.
In present world there is no difference between son and daughter. But all like to have one of both sex. But it totally depend on god.
Another cause is illiteracy.take example of Sunita willams and many other successful women in world.Actually it depends upon on treatment. If you give all support to a daughter,she can prove that she is not negligible than a son.
There are many gender based notions and prejudices. One is that a clan continues with son whereas daughter goes to another clan/ family. There will be no proper salvation of soul unless a son performs funeral pyre. Besides, the tradition of dowry system also discriminates against girls. A girl is considered as 'others property' (Paraya dhan)
Government is providing lots of facilities to female. Thus it costs less in bringing up a girl child compared to a male child. Maybe that marriage costs a lot for them. Now a days dowry is illegal and punishable by law. Thus this also can't be the reason behind it. Girls can very well look after their parents during their oldage which a son would ignore.
Finally, I would say that it is just backwardness and illiteracy.


It can't be termed as illiteracy.....because rich people are in demand of large sum of money while poor will be satisfied with what dowry they get. (Not applicable always)
Actually, many parents think that, in their old age, sons will be with them...that they can't expect from their daughter. But now, in most families, their sons are working away from home.
and some son are throwing their parents out of their house by pulling property from them
Now also, i feel, daughters love their parents more than sons. But only a few parents are able to identify their true love
Now also, i feel, daughters love their parents more than sons. But only a few parents are able to identify their true love

We can see these love now a days as their parents are living in old age homes.
Making parents living in old age homes is not love. It is just leaving the responsibilities
We people from new generation does not matter about a boy or a girls all are similar and good.In my opinion Girls are better than a Boys...........
The present generation have opened up little bit. But still, in villages, the custom of having SON is still there.
We people from new generation does not matter about a boy or a girls all are similar and good.In my opinion Girls are better than a Boys...........

Am really happy to hear it from a boy.
Thank you :) :) :)
We people from new generation does not matter about a boy or a girls all are similar and good.In my opinion Girls are better than a Boys...........

Am really happy to hear it from a boy.
Thank you :) :) :)

It was not to make happy someone........This is true now girls are growing very fast.They give their service in every field of a life........Even they reach to become a President of India..............
We people from new generation does not matter about a boy or a girls all are similar and good.In my opinion Girls are better than a Boys...........

Am really happy to hear it from a boy.
Thank you :) :) :)

It was not to make happy someone........This is true now girls are growing very fast.They give their service in every field of a life........Even they reach to become a President of India..............


Am really impressed :) :) :) :) :) :)

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