What do you do when your kid says NO?

You are a loving dad....it seems....all your thread topics are overflooded with your kids....ha ha. Really nice.

My girl has to leave home sharp 7.55 and now, it's rainy season....so you know, how much difficult we are facing........we also wake up around 6.30 or 6.45. What to do.....we want our kid to sleep a little more...but max.7.15-20.
Yet, she never hesitate to bath early morning though she rarely take food. Actually she plays hide and seek with us in the early morning, laughing and make us run after her whole house....she is in a playing mood. For sometime, we will keep quiet. Then it start with shouting, if she don't obey us........beating is only very rare

Let the kid have his say. But next day, when kid asks for any thing say- No. Even for breakfast, say no. The kid will realize that many things are necessary and the whim of 'no' is useless. Going to school is as necessary as breakfast.

Let the kid have his say. But next day, when kid asks for any thing say- No. Even for breakfast, say no. The kid will realize that many things are necessary and the whim of 'no' is useless. Going to school is as necessary as breakfast.

sometimes I give beat but latter understand that afterall they are small.

Let the kid have his say. But next day, when kid asks for any thing say- No. Even for breakfast, say no. The kid will realize that many things are necessary and the whim of 'no' is useless. Going to school is as necessary as breakfast.

sometimes I give beat but latter understand that afterall they are small.

No need to beat. Just let them experience. I just gave a suggestion that would enable the child to know that saying 'no' to certain things is no good.

I am lucky- one of my kid never said no and another one went to school for the first time yesterday and the school management threw him out of the school for rowdy behavior. He is 14 though (months) :laugh: :laugh: Incidentally the school belongs to his father run by his granny.

Well, I am still unmarried ... So can't tell more about it.. But I guess it is better to wakeup them otherwise they can get such habit ..

I know, this is not easy to go against their will but you have to follow the rules and teach them to behave well. No is not allowed.

You are a loving dad....it seems....all your thread topics are overflooded with your kids....ha ha. Really nice.

My girl has to leave home sharp 7.55 and now, it's rainy season....so you know, how much difficult we are facing........we also wake up around 6.30 or 6.45. What to do.....we want our kid to sleep a little more...but max.7.15-20.
Yet, she never hesitate to bath early morning though she rarely take food. Actually she plays hide and seek with us in the early morning, laughing and make us run after her whole house....she is in a playing mood. For sometime, we will keep quiet. Then it start with shouting, if she don't obey us........beating is only very rare

Yes Sandhya i am very close to my kids reason being i have to do certain ativities for them which is supposed to be done by their mother :blink: but as you know my wife gets tired by tolerating them for whole day so i have to do these. I remember when they were born i used to sleep with my son as my daughter used to sleep with her mother and this has become a habit for my son as he never sleeps till i don't lye on bed nearby him. :)

This is a similar story for all kids i have to wake them up at 5:45 Am and they make me run to whole house while preparing them for school but they are very sincere they never say NO for school. :)

or all kids i have to wake them up at 5:45 Am and they make me run to whole house while preparing them for school but they are very sincere they never say NO for school. :)[/quote]

If they never say NO, then there is no problem whatsoever. Children like to makes some problems whatever you do but you have to be mentally prepared for them.

Let the kid have his say. But next day, when kid asks for any thing say- No. Even for breakfast, say no. The kid will realize that many things are necessary and the whim of 'no' is useless. Going to school is as necessary as breakfast.

sometimes I give beat but latter understand that afterall they are small.

No need to beat. Just let them experience. I just gave a suggestion that would enable the child to know that saying 'no' to certain things is no good.

Ok sir i will remember it.

Let the kid have his say. But next day, when kid asks for any thing say- No. Even for breakfast, say no. The kid will realize that many things are necessary and the whim of 'no' is useless. Going to school is as necessary as breakfast.

sometimes I give beat but latter understand that afterall they are small.

Beating them is not a soution.I never beat my kids they just get afraid of me when i scold them and i think that's enough. :blink:

What do you do when in the morning your kid says no i don't want to go to school today when you are trying to wake him/her?. :blink: Do you scold him/her or give a lust so that he/she may get up?. :woohoo: It very rarely happens with me as i feel my kids are the most sincere kids of the world they get up soon on the name of school. :laugh: What about you guys? :)

I have done this many times before. I told my mom, that i am not going to school and she has scolded me various times. But after scolded , i would wake up and go to school.

What do you do when in the morning your kid says no i don't want to go to school today when you are trying to wake him/her?. :blink: Do you scold him/her or give a lust so that he/she may get up?. :woohoo: It very rarely happens with me as i feel my kids are the most sincere kids of the world they get up soon on the name of school. :laugh: What about you guys? :)

I have done this many times before. I told my mom, that i am not going to school and she has scolded me various times. But after scolded , i would wake up and go to school.

Then you are most obedient.

What do you do when in the morning your kid says no i don't want to go to school today when you are trying to wake him/her?. :blink: Do you scold him/her or give a lust so that he/she may get up?. :woohoo: It very rarely happens with me as i feel my kids are the most sincere kids of the world they get up soon on the name of school. :laugh: What about you guys? :)

I have done this many times before. I told my mom, that i am not going to school and she has scolded me various times. But after scolded , i would wake up and go to school.

Oh this is everyone's story i used to say that i have a stomach pain when i used to feel not going to school. :woohoo:

What do you do when in the morning your kid says no i don't want to go to school today when you are trying to wake him/her?. :blink: Do you scold him/her or give a lust so that he/she may get up?. :woohoo: It very rarely happens with me as i feel my kids are the most sincere kids of the world they get up soon on the name of school. :laugh: What about you guys? :)

I too never had a problem with my kids as they were always ready to go to school. If and when they were reluctant I was sure that either they were unwell or had some problem at school, so just having a talk with them helped in sorting out things...

What do you do when in the morning your kid says no i don't want to go to school today when you are trying to wake him/her?. :blink: Do you scold him/her or give a lust so that he/she may get up?. :woohoo: It very rarely happens with me as i feel my kids are the most sincere kids of the world they get up soon on the name of school. :laugh: What about you guys? :)

I too never had a problem with my kids as they were always ready to go to school. If and when they were reluctant I was sure that either they were unwell or had some problem at school, so just having a talk with them helped in sorting out things...

I never had 'NO' from my kid, moreover I would not have taken it any way.

I will explain him what are the problems when he is asking for that.

I think when kids say no to school, we should make them understand, how much school is important.

What do you do when in the morning your kid says no i don't want to go to school today when you are trying to wake him/her?. :blink: Do you scold him/her or give a lust so that he/she may get up?. :woohoo: It very rarely happens with me as i feel my kids are the most sincere kids of the world they get up soon on the name of school. :laugh: What about you guys? :)

I too never had a problem with my kids as they were always ready to go to school. If and when they were reluctant I was sure that either they were unwell or had some problem at school, so just having a talk with them helped in sorting out things...

I never had 'NO' from my kid, moreover I would not have taken it any way.

Thats not fair Sunil, I am sure there would be a valid reason for saying that especially when they are regular and dont fuss about going to school..

What do you do when in the morning your kid says no i don't want to go to school today when you are trying to wake him/her?. :blink: Do you scold him/her or give a lust so that he/she may get up?. :woohoo: It very rarely happens with me as i feel my kids are the most sincere kids of the world they get up soon on the name of school. :laugh: What about you guys? :)

I too never had a problem with my kids as they were always ready to go to school. If and when they were reluctant I was sure that either they were unwell or had some problem at school, so just having a talk with them helped in sorting out things...

I never had 'NO' from my kid, moreover I would not have taken it any way.

Thats not fair Sunil, I am sure there would be a valid reason for saying that especially when they are regular and dont fuss about going to school..

May be - since i never had it so I won't know.