There are times when some people take advantage of you openly without caring for your feelings. One can recount many such instances where people take advantage of others and keep doing it again and again especially when the circumstances are favorable to them.. It is definitely unfair when people do that .It can happen between relatives or friends...
However, It is also true that one cannot take advantage of us unless we let them do so !
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Only ignorant would allow any one to take advantage of them. People who know ways of the world would never allow any one to take advantage.
I agree! Also, people who use the internet as their personal sounding board, to only give vent o their frustrations and keep talking about personal problems are the ones easily duped by others!!
Only ignorant would allow any one to take advantage of them. People who know ways of the world would never allow any one to take advantage.
I agree! Also, people who use the internet as their personal sounding board, to only give vent o their frustrations and keep talking about personal problems are the ones easily duped by others!!
Gaining sympathy is OK as long as it is done within your friend circles or through private messaging.But when it happens on the open forum ( I have seen people washing dirty linen on other sites ) it is an open invitation to a verbal duel, noT all people are sympathetic...
Only ignorant would allow any one to take advantage of them. People who know ways of the world would never allow any one to take advantage.
I agree! Also, people who use the internet as their personal sounding board, to only give vent o their frustrations and keep talking about personal problems are the ones easily duped by others!!
Gaining sympathy is OK as long as it is done within your friend circles or through private messaging.But when it happens on the open forum ( I have seen people washing dirty linen on other sites ) it is an open invitation to a verbal duel, noT all people are sympathetic...
Some even smile and use it as laughter show.
Only ignorant would allow any one to take advantage of them. People who know ways of the world would never allow any one to take advantage.
I agree! Also, people who use the internet as their personal sounding board, to only give vent o their frustrations and keep talking about personal problems are the ones easily duped by others!!
Gaining sympathy is OK as long as it is done within your friend circles or through private messaging.But when it happens on the open forum ( I have seen people washing dirty linen on other sites ) it is an open invitation to a verbal duel, noT all people are sympathetic...
Some even smile and use it as laughter show.
LOL, it takes all kinds to make this world :dry: I was reading an article about the subject and the author called such people who take undue advantage of others as Emotional Vampires who in the veil of friendship suck the energy out of your life ! :ohmy:
It is of course easy to overcome this by being firm in most cases , but when it becomes a nuisance and when it comes from people who you consider close to you then you have to deal with it in a very diplomatic manner ...the following article has some excellent tips !
http://www.lifehack.org/articles/communication/9-ways-to-manage-people-who-bother-you.html
http://www.lifehack.org/articles/communication/9-ways-to-manage-people-who-bother-you.html
It is of course easy to overcome this by being firm in most cases , but when it becomes a nuisance and when it comes from people who you consider close to you then you have to deal with it in a very diplomatic manner ...the following article has some excellent tips !
http://www.lifehack.org/articles/communication/9-ways-to-manage-people-who-bother-you.html
Yes the best way to control and time tested method to go smoothly but most people would agree without considering them when it comes to follow these in practical.
It is of course easy to overcome this by being firm in most cases , but when it becomes a nuisance and when it comes from people who you consider close to you then you have to deal with it in a very diplomatic manner ...the following article has some excellent tips !
http://www.lifehack.org/articles/communication/9-ways-to-manage-people-who-bother-you.html
Yes the best way to control and time tested method to go smoothly but most people would agree without considering them when it comes to follow these in practical.
Thats the tragedy of life !If each individual behaves in a responsible manner things would be so much better all round...I know that is just wishful thinking :huh:
Experience can only let us know how to keep things at our side and don't allow people to take undue or due advantage of us...
Absolutely correct Rajani. Till we experience, we can't know how we have got caught.
Thats true, there are some people who know how to take advantage at the right time with the right people..they dont bother or target those who are smarter and know how to tackle their moves ...
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