Every person should have a different mind set in different-different situation. I do change, according to the person, i face or talk.
If you change your outlook and ideas according to occasion, you will be considered a rank opportunist and will lose all integrity. Nobody will believe what you say.
Changing according to new circumstances is okay. But changing according to person or place is very odd.
Every day we meet different- different people. If one person we meet is Commanding us, then we can't stay quiet.
Today i went to buy vegetable. So, i can't buy, at whatever pricee he/she sells.
I have to do bargaining to reduce his/her vegetable price.
If we meet other person, who is very silent,simple and very kind, so i try to be very simple and according to his/her standard. I don't try to Command on him/her. That is how people should be. I hope i have cleared you Sir.