Should we change according to situations?

It is best and better to go according to the situation then only everyone will be happy

Even then we can't make everyone happy..at least ourselves :huh:

It is not our moral responsibility to ensure everyone's happiness at all times!! Sometimes, it is all about doing things the right way and not the way others want!

It is best and better to go according to the situation then only everyone will be happy

Even then we can't make everyone happy..at least ourselves :huh:

It is not our moral responsibility to ensure everyone's happiness at all times!! Sometimes, it is all about doing things the right way and not the way others want!

Of course! I agree!!! :)

But sometimes, to make our dearest ones happy, we may accept some changes too :P
Sometimes, some situations demand so!!!

If we want others to be happy then we have to change our selves according to the situation

i always change according to the situation. It will be helpful to us be better. :cheer:

change according to situation is only good untill its not against your rights.many of you mentioned here that we should change according to situation if it makes everyone happy.
just for an example- suppose someone is asking you for bribe or suppose you have good marks and someone asking you to give donation or extra money then only you will get admission here.giving them donation will make them happy and somewhat you will also be benefited as by getting admission but its against your rule.so will you change yourself here??
i wont.
so change is only good untill its for good and without breaking the right rules.

yes baby angel, until we go in right path, we can go according to the situation

thats what i was saying if change is for good situation then only one should change not for every situation.

No one should change from his chosen path unless he/she thinks he was wrong. A rolling stone is not considered good in any case. Change should be only in case if some one was not correct in his approach.

yes exactly.and one should even not break his/her rules for any such situation which can lead to bad results.so change should not be according to situations always but sometimes we should analyse then decide what to do.

I think it is necessary to change ourselves according to the situation.now a day life are just like a river which flows away and never stops situation are also like this and so its necessary to adjust ourselves according to that.

I think it is necessary to change ourselves according to the situation.now a day life are just like a river which flows away and never stops situation are also like this and so its necessary to adjust ourselves according to that.

Nice quote used-life is like a river.

Each and every person in this world has his own concepts. Some people may be able to change colours as situation wants while a few remain stiff in all situations. According to you, should we change according to situations or remain there stern with our concepts? What do you think? :evil:

I think change according to the situations is good.

Each and every person in this world has his own concepts. Some people may be able to change colours as situation wants while a few remain stiff in all situations. According to you, should we change according to situations or remain there stern with our concepts? What do you think? :evil:

I think change according to the situations is good.

Changing according to the situation is good but changing all time is not good. If it is good things we can change our-self according to situation. but not for bad things. :cheer:

How can we change according to time, that is kind of opportunism.

We not only have to change ourselves but the rules too! After all rules are there not for the sake of them. If a situation calls for changing them,we have to!!

But if it's against our wish and principles what to do? :blink:

Yes sometimes rules too need to change as per the situation demands. Also, Sandhya sometimes you have to bend your principles for the larger good. Being strictly rigid does not help in all situations!

Change is the only thing that is permanent in this world ! Without change we would not be here today, we have adapted to new ways of doing things,using the internet,using the mobile phone which our parents or grand parents dint have access to, dressing differently changing our lifestyle...We as individuals too change without even realising it,all experiences and interactions make an impact on our mind and there is bound to be a subtle change which no matter what you may say and do, cannot be avoided since it is the law of nature. Nature itself changes all the time , so how can we not ?

We not only have to change ourselves but the rules too! After all rules are there not for the sake of them. If a situation calls for changing them,we have to!!

But if it's against our wish and principles what to do? :blink:

Yes sometimes rules too need to change as per the situation demands. Also, Sandhya sometimes you have to bend your principles for the larger good. Being strictly rigid does not help in all situations!

Change is the only thing that is permanent in this world ! Without change we would not be here today, we have adapted to new ways of doing things,using the internet,using the mobile phone which our parents or grand parents dint have access to, dressing differently changing our lifestyle...We as individuals too change without even realising it,all experiences and interactions make an impact on our mind and there is bound to be a subtle change which no matter what you may say and do, cannot be avoided since it is the law of nature. Nature itself changes all the time , so how can we not ?

Good changes are always acceptable...that's why we are here. But never bad ones, which we don't feel comfort with.....at least...we should never leave our good character traits to bend to a wrong situation

We not only have to change ourselves but the rules too! After all rules are there not for the sake of them. If a situation calls for changing them,we have to!!

But if it's against our wish and principles what to do? :blink:

Yes sometimes rules too need to change as per the situation demands. Also, Sandhya sometimes you have to bend your principles for the larger good. Being strictly rigid does not help in all situations!

Change is the only thing that is permanent in this world ! Without change we would not be here today, we have adapted to new ways of doing things,using the internet,using the mobile phone which our parents or grand parents dint have access to, dressing differently changing our lifestyle...We as individuals too change without even realising it,all experiences and interactions make an impact on our mind and there is bound to be a subtle change which no matter what you may say and do, cannot be avoided since it is the law of nature. Nature itself changes all the time , so how can we not ?

Good changes are always acceptable...that's why we are here. But never bad ones, which we don't feel comfort with.....at least...we should never leave our good character traits to bend to a wrong situation

Who is to decide what is good and what is bad ? society or yourself ? As long as your conscience is clear nobody else's opinion matters regarding anything in life including change !

We not only have to change ourselves but the rules too! After all rules are there not for the sake of them. If a situation calls for changing them,we have to!!

But if it's against our wish and principles what to do? :blink:

Yes sometimes rules too need to change as per the situation demands. Also, Sandhya sometimes you have to bend your principles for the larger good. Being strictly rigid does not help in all situations!

Change is the only thing that is permanent in this world ! Without change we would not be here today, we have adapted to new ways of doing things,using the internet,using the mobile phone which our parents or grand parents dint have access to, dressing differently changing our lifestyle...We as individuals too change without even realising it,all experiences and interactions make an impact on our mind and there is bound to be a subtle change which no matter what you may say and do, cannot be avoided since it is the law of nature. Nature itself changes all the time , so how can we not ?

Change is inevitable and desirable for survival. The ones who manage to adapt can better survive against all odds than a person who cannot accept any changes. Also, not ready to change means a person is not ready to come out of his comfort zone which may be dangerous. especially if applied to career, one has to be able to adapt and change as the situations demand. Only then can one be successful.

We not only have to change ourselves but the rules too! After all rules are there not for the sake of them. If a situation calls for changing them,we have to!!

But if it's against our wish and principles what to do? :blink:

Yes sometimes rules too need to change as per the situation demands. Also, Sandhya sometimes you have to bend your principles for the larger good. Being strictly rigid does not help in all situations!

Change is the only thing that is permanent in this world ! Without change we would not be here today, we have adapted to new ways of doing things,using the internet,using the mobile phone which our parents or grand parents dint have access to, dressing differently changing our lifestyle...We as individuals too change without even realising it,all experiences and interactions make an impact on our mind and there is bound to be a subtle change which no matter what you may say and do, cannot be avoided since it is the law of nature. Nature itself changes all the time , so how can we not ?

Good changes are always acceptable...that's why we are here. But never bad ones, which we don't feel comfort with.....at least...we should never leave our good character traits to bend to a wrong situation

Who is to decide what is good and what is bad ? society or yourself ? As long as your conscience is clear nobody else's opinion matters regarding anything in life including change !

So true! we really cannot decide what is good and what is bad. What we may consider good for us may be bad others and vice versa, what's more, something we consider good for us may not sit well even with family at times. So what should guide us should be our clear conscience and clear thinking rather than good or bad!

How can we change according to time, that is kind of opportunism.

Changing with time is not always being opportunistic, many times it is inevitable and prudent!