Elederly, property and children!

Yes some elderly people often tend to forget that their children have grown up to be adults now and they too have their own point of view which can also be right. Some old people believe that they are always right and often tend to thrust their judgement and decisions on the younger generation. One should understand that time is changing and new things and ideas are coming in and not all are wrong. So it is wise for elderly people to also embrace these new changes.

Yes...difference of opinion is expected, also different perspective give us an opprotunity to look at a thing in a new way, but imposing one's views on other is definitely not welcome.

Wisdom lies in getting in tune with changing times and changing tastes of the people be it in a family or in society. Other wise those who cannot change will look like an odd man out.

Yes some elderly people often tend to forget that their children have grown up to be adults now and they too have their own point of view which can also be right. Some old people believe that they are always right and often tend to thrust their judgement and decisions on the younger generation. One should understand that time is changing and new things and ideas are coming in and not all are wrong. So it is wise for elderly people to also embrace these new changes.

Yes...difference of opinion is expected, also different perspective give us an opprotunity to look at a thing in a new way, but imposing one's views on other is definitely not welcome.

Wisdom lies in getting in tune with changing times and changing tastes of the people be it in a family or in society. Other wise those who cannot change will look like an odd man out.

Yes going with the flow, walking hand in hand with the newer generation is something we should all learn..after all we are all going to get to that point in our lives..better to mend our ways and make peace with ever new changes.

Yes some elderly people often tend to forget that their children have grown up to be adults now and they too have their own point of view which can also be right. Some old people believe that they are always right and often tend to thrust their judgement and decisions on the younger generation. One should understand that time is changing and new things and ideas are coming in and not all are wrong. So it is wise for elderly people to also embrace these new changes.

Yes...difference of opinion is expected, also different perspective give us an opprotunity to look at a thing in a new way, but imposing one's views on other is definitely not welcome.

Wisdom lies in getting in tune with changing times and changing tastes of the people be it in a family or in society. Other wise those who cannot change will look like an odd man out.

Yes going with the flow, walking hand in hand with the newer generation is something we should all learn..after all we are all going to get to that point in our lives..better to mend our ways and make peace with ever new changes.

Sail with the current. Not against it.

Yes with time society as a whole is going to change and so will the mindset of people. So it is always advisable to look into the benefits and positive side of this new generation and not always pointing out the shortcomings.

Yes some elderly people often tend to forget that their children have grown up to be adults now and they too have their own point of view which can also be right. Some old people believe that they are always right and often tend to thrust their judgement and decisions on the younger generation. One should understand that time is changing and new things and ideas are coming in and not all are wrong. So it is wise for elderly people to also embrace these new changes.

Yes...difference of opinion is expected, also different perspective give us an opprotunity to look at a thing in a new way, but imposing one's views on other is definitely not welcome.

Wisdom lies in getting in tune with changing times and changing tastes of the people be it in a family or in society. Other wise those who cannot change will look like an odd man out.

Yes going with the flow, walking hand in hand with the newer generation is something we should all learn..after all we are all going to get to that point in our lives..better to mend our ways and make peace with ever new changes.

Sail with the current. Not against it.

Sailing with the current should be coupled with putting aside ego hassles too..that way both all generations - old, newer and newest can go a long way.

Yes some elderly people often tend to forget that their children have grown up to be adults now and they too have their own point of view which can also be right. Some old people believe that they are always right and often tend to thrust their judgement and decisions on the younger generation. One should understand that time is changing and new things and ideas are coming in and not all are wrong. So it is wise for elderly people to also embrace these new changes.

Yes...difference of opinion is expected, also different perspective give us an opprotunity to look at a thing in a new way, but imposing one's views on other is definitely not welcome.

Wisdom lies in getting in tune with changing times and changing tastes of the people be it in a family or in society. Other wise those who cannot change will look like an odd man out.

Yes going with the flow, walking hand in hand with the newer generation is something we should all learn..after all we are all going to get to that point in our lives..better to mend our ways and make peace with ever new changes.

Sail with the current. Not against it.

Sailing with the current should be coupled with putting aside ego hassles too..that way both all generations - old, newer and newest can go a long way.

Sailing with current itself includes setting aside the Ego attitude.

Elder people also gives the space to live younger generations. Only thing is they want their people will get success in their attempts. Due to so much love having with their child they are interfering in their life. They also know the truth. They also want their generation should live happily in the society. Somethings we cannot understand in young stage while we are growing then only we can understand how the things are matching.

Elder people also gives the space to live younger generations. Only thing is they want their people will get success in their attempts. Due to so much love having with their child they are interfering in their life. They also know the truth. They also want their generation should live happily in the society. Somethings we cannot understand in young stage while we are growing then only we can understand how the things are matching.

What you're trying to say is also true...at times parents forget and cross the line because they are blinded with love for their children..what looks life interference to us now..we may do it ourselves when we get there..

Parents who mingle with younger generation freely like friends and advise the family with their valuable suggestions in time of need are very less in number. Such elderly persons are indispensable and most loved ones in any family.

Some times it may happen in tension that we are shouting on them and it mentally disturb them. They are keeping silent and never speaks any words. One thing we should admit that younger generations are losing their patience immediately when the thing not happened in their favor.

Some times it may happen in tension that we are shouting on them and it mentally disturb them. They are keeping silent and never speaks any words. One thing we should admit that younger generations are losing their patience immediately when the thing not happened in their favor.

In such situations when the younger generation loses its temper, wise parents will not interfere. They remain calm. Because elders know that very soon the younger generation will come back to normal condition as this is a temporary phase.

Lack of patience and not being tolerant enough are somethings that our generation have come to realize..soon this will be rectified too..let us be optimistic.

In an angry mood if a young man scolded an old man but realizes subsequently his fault of having angered but due to egoism he has no mind to tell sorry for his action.

Saying sorry, thank you, and please are golden words and nothing not even ego should be a deterrent in saying these words but at the same time you should mean it.

Saying sorry, thank you, and please are golden words and nothing not even ego should be a deterrent in saying these words but at the same time you should mean it.

The fundamental principle that works for having a family closely woven with good relations is, " Give What you expect from others.
Want love ? Love others.
Want Respect ? Respect others
In a house where this rule is religiously adhered to, both old parents and younger generation will live a blissful life for generations.

It is reported that children treat elderly shabbily. Usually, dispute is about property. Happily, I have neither property nor children and so have no fear of shabby treatment. .

http://timesofindia.indiatimes.com/city/jaipur/Most-elderly-people-face-shabby-treatment-from-family-Report/articleshow/38765672.cms

Yes, Such type of situation arises... But Most in rich family.......... They have more property.... In my locality a parent is killed by their children at the age of 60 because of property.........That bad........

It is reported that children treat elderly shabbily. Usually, dispute is about property. Happily, I have neither property nor children and so have no fear of shabby treatment. .

http://timesofindia.indiatimes.com/city/jaipur/Most-elderly-people-face-shabby-treatment-from-family-Report/articleshow/38765672.cms

Yes, Such type of situation arises... But Most in rich family.......... They have more property.... In my locality a parent is killed by their children at the age of 60 because of property.........That bad........

Such situations are not just restricted to Rich families. This is prevalent in all cross sections of the society.

It is reported that children treat elderly shabbily. Usually, dispute is about property. Happily, I have neither property nor children and so have no fear of shabby treatment. .

http://timesofindia.indiatimes.com/city/jaipur/Most-elderly-people-face-shabby-treatment-from-family-Report/articleshow/38765672.cms

Yes, Such type of situation arises... But Most in rich family.......... They have more property.... In my locality a parent is killed by their children at the age of 60 because of property.........That bad........

Such situations are not just restricted to Rich families. This is prevalent in all cross sections of the society.

A poor people does not have a property to dispute... Some middle family have property but the give their children a good lesson not to fight for property...............

It is reported that children treat elderly shabbily. Usually, dispute is about property. Happily, I have neither property nor children and so have no fear of shabby treatment. .

http://timesofindia.indiatimes.com/city/jaipur/Most-elderly-people-face-shabby-treatment-from-family-Report/articleshow/38765672.cms

Yes, Such type of situation arises... But Most in rich family.......... They have more property.... In my locality a parent is killed by their children at the age of 60 because of property.........That bad........

Such situations are not just restricted to Rich families. This is prevalent in all cross sections of the society.

A poor people does not have a property to dispute... Some middle family have property but the give their children a good lesson not to fight for property...............

It's a mistake to think Poor doesn't have property. Recently A beggar who died was found to have 1 crore worth of money with him. To claim this, two brothers murdered each other.

If you want to give a property give him a good education. He will never ask money from you. The rule should come like this those persons who attained the property by his hard work have the right to spend the money till he lives in the world and after that it should be given to a charity.