Pros and cons of working wife

If the women works outside the home just as the man does, then the house chores are split, not the sole responsibility of the women. Even if she didnt work outside the house, she should not only expect help from the man, the man should want to pitch in, too.

Adjustment is name of the game that can work well with working or non working women. Since this topic is related to adjustment about a couple working in same place so we must consider this point. I think working in same place has an advantage for the couple.

Working wife should know how to manage the office as well as the house. If the working women can't manage this, she shouldn't work.

Otherwise, she could spoil the her house.

Working wife should know how to manage the office as well as the house. If the working women can't manage this, she shouldn't work.

Otherwise, she could spoil the her house.

A typical Indian male mentality :huh: :sick: They simply dont realise that a house is made of two adults and they should contribute equally to make it a happy place for all, instead of being control freaks ...

Working wife should know how to manage the office as well as the house. If the working women can't manage this, she shouldn't work.

Otherwise, she could spoil the her house.

A typical Indian male mentality :huh: :sick: They simply dont realise that a house is made of two adults and they should contribute equally to make it a happy place for all, instead of being control freaks ...

But I am sure he would go for a working wife while he decides to marry. :laugh: :laugh:

Working wife should know how to manage the office as well as the house. If the working women can't manage this, she shouldn't work.

Otherwise, she could spoil the her house.

A typical Indian male mentality :huh: :sick: They simply dont realise that a house is made of two adults and they should contribute equally to make it a happy place for all, instead of being control freaks ...

But I am sure he would go for a working wife while he decides to marry. :laugh: :laugh:

Most Indian males want a package deal, a working wife who brings in a decent pay and also be an expert at house management , so that they can put their feet up and take it easy !!!! :huh: :dry:

Working wife should know how to manage the office as well as the house. If the working women can't manage this, she shouldn't work.

Otherwise, she could spoil the her house.

A typical Indian male mentality :huh: :sick: They simply dont realise that a house is made of two adults and they should contribute equally to make it a happy place for all, instead of being control freaks ...

But I am sure he would go for a working wife while he decides to marry. :laugh: :laugh:

Most Indian males want a package deal, a working wife who brings in a decent pay and also be an expert at house management , so that they can put their feet up and take it easy !!!! :huh: :dry:

That includes me, but I never forced things on her and asked her to resign the day I did. Although she was eligible for pension having completed 20 years in her job.

Working wife should know how to manage the office as well as the house. If the working women can't manage this, she shouldn't work.

Otherwise, she could spoil the her house.

A typical Indian male mentality :huh: :sick: They simply dont realise that a house is made of two adults and they should contribute equally to make it a happy place for all, instead of being control freaks ...

But I am sure he would go for a working wife while he decides to marry. :laugh: :laugh:

Most Indian males want a package deal, a working wife who brings in a decent pay and also be an expert at house management , so that they can put their feet up and take it easy !!!! :huh: :dry:

That includes me, but I never forced things on her and asked her to resign the day I did. Although she was eligible for pension having completed 20 years in her job.

Sunil what matters is mutual understanding and if a lady is willing and happy to do it then thats it - evident from your life where you both have been happily together for so many years ! what is wrong is this over expectation about having a working wife who should also take care of all other matters ..

When man and woman both work in the same organization, male ego is okay as long as wife remains in a junior position. But there is no guarantee that the husband will remain a senior or superior throughout career. The wife may prove more talented and get promoted earlier. I have seen many such cases. Even in film abhiman, it was not known before marriage that the wife (Jaya Bhaduri) would prove more talented. When wife runs faster than husband, male ego disturbs. Happily, now people reconcile to this.

There is a tendency that husband and wife are posted in same office/ station. I feel that they should be posted at different stations though these may be nearby so that they could daily travel using M.S.T. of railway. This will not disturb their life- official as well as domestic.

When man and woman both work in the same organization, male ego is okay as long as wife remains in a junior position. But there is no guarantee that the husband will remain a senior or superior throughout career. The wife may prove more talented and get promoted earlier. I have seen many such cases. Even in film abhiman, it was not known before marriage that the wife (Jaya Bhaduri) would prove more talented. When wife runs faster than husband, male ego disturbs. Happily, now people reconcile to this.

There is a tendency that husband and wife are posted in same office/ station. I feel that they should be posted at different stations though these may be nearby so that they could daily travel using M.S.T. of railway. This will not disturb their life- official as well as domestic.

I am not in favor of posting them in different places or even branches if they can manage to keep them together. You know they ad their relations only improve eating together, traveling together and looking at each other while still working, this improves working efficiency also they can plan better. We have had many IAS/IPS couples posted in same districts.

When man and woman both work in the same organization, male ego is okay as long as wife remains in a junior position. But there is no guarantee that the husband will remain a senior or superior throughout career. The wife may prove more talented and get promoted earlier. I have seen many such cases. Even in film abhiman, it was not known before marriage that the wife (Jaya Bhaduri) would prove more talented. When wife runs faster than husband, male ego disturbs. Happily, now people reconcile to this.

There is a tendency that husband and wife are posted in same office/ station. I feel that they should be posted at different stations though these may be nearby so that they could daily travel using M.S.T. of railway. This will not disturb their life- official as well as domestic.

I am not in favor of posting them in different places or even branches if they can manage to keep them together. You know they ad their relations only improve eating together, traveling together and looking at each other while still working, this improves working efficiency also they can plan better. We have had many IAS/IPS couples posted in same districts.

The senior officers act responsibly and they may be posted in any manner. But there is problem with juniors and clerical staff. They waste more office time if posted at same place. There are other complications also. The wife remains tense and hesitant in even normal talk with colleagues in presence of her husband in same office.

When man and woman both work in the same organization, male ego is okay as long as wife remains in a junior position. But there is no guarantee that the husband will remain a senior or superior throughout career. The wife may prove more talented and get promoted earlier. I have seen many such cases. Even in film abhiman, it was not known before marriage that the wife (Jaya Bhaduri) would prove more talented. When wife runs faster than husband, male ego disturbs. Happily, now people reconcile to this.

There is a tendency that husband and wife are posted in same office/ station. I feel that they should be posted at different stations though these may be nearby so that they could daily travel using M.S.T. of railway. This will not disturb their life- official as well as domestic.

I am not in favor of posting them in different places or even branches if they can manage to keep them together. You know they ad their relations only improve eating together, traveling together and looking at each other while still working, this improves working efficiency also they can plan better. We have had many IAS/IPS couples posted in same districts.

The senior officers act responsibly and they may be posted in any manner. But there is problem with juniors and clerical staff. They waste more office time if posted at same place. There are other complications also. The wife remains tense and hesitant in even normal talk with colleagues in presence of her husband in same office.

I am not much aware about government sector but in corporate sector they prefer to appoint professional couples to keep them interested to remain in company. Couple to prefer it that way 'cause this saves them lots of troubles. Even they have arrangements for baby sitting to make it easier for couples with kids.

When man and woman both work in the same organization, male ego is okay as long as wife remains in a junior position. But there is no guarantee that the husband will remain a senior or superior throughout career. The wife may prove more talented and get promoted earlier. I have seen many such cases. Even in film abhiman, it was not known before marriage that the wife (Jaya Bhaduri) would prove more talented. When wife runs faster than husband, male ego disturbs. Happily, now people reconcile to this.

There is a tendency that husband and wife are posted in same office/ station. I feel that they should be posted at different stations though these may be nearby so that they could daily travel using M.S.T. of railway. This will not disturb their life- official as well as domestic.

I am not in favor of posting them in different places or even branches if they can manage to keep them together. You know they ad their relations only improve eating together, traveling together and looking at each other while still working, this improves working efficiency also they can plan better. We have had many IAS/IPS couples posted in same districts.

The senior officers act responsibly and they may be posted in any manner. But there is problem with juniors and clerical staff. They waste more office time if posted at same place. There are other complications also. The wife remains tense and hesitant in even normal talk with colleagues in presence of her husband in same office.

I am not much aware about government sector but in corporate sector they prefer to appoint professional couples to keep them interested to remain in company. Couple to prefer it that way 'cause this saves them lots of troubles. Even they have arrangements for baby sitting to make it easier for couples with kids.

On Government sector also, it is policy to post husband and wife at same station, as far as possible. what I stated are my personal suggestions and not government policy. I still feel that they may be posted at same station but preferably in different offices/ locations.

When man and woman both work in the same organization, male ego is okay as long as wife remains in a junior position. But there is no guarantee that the husband will remain a senior or superior throughout career. The wife may prove more talented and get promoted earlier. I have seen many such cases. Even in film abhiman, it was not known before marriage that the wife (Jaya Bhaduri) would prove more talented. When wife runs faster than husband, male ego disturbs. Happily, now people reconcile to this.

There is a tendency that husband and wife are posted in same office/ station. I feel that they should be posted at different stations though these may be nearby so that they could daily travel using M.S.T. of railway. This will not disturb their life- official as well as domestic.

I am not in favor of posting them in different places or even branches if they can manage to keep them together. You know they ad their relations only improve eating together, traveling together and looking at each other while still working, this improves working efficiency also they can plan better. We have had many IAS/IPS couples posted in same districts.

The senior officers act responsibly and they may be posted in any manner. But there is problem with juniors and clerical staff. They waste more office time if posted at same place. There are other complications also. The wife remains tense and hesitant in even normal talk with colleagues in presence of her husband in same office.

I am not much aware about government sector but in corporate sector they prefer to appoint professional couples to keep them interested to remain in company. Couple to prefer it that way 'cause this saves them lots of troubles. Even they have arrangements for baby sitting to make it easier for couples with kids.

On Government sector also, it is policy to post husband and wife at same station, as far as possible. what I stated are my personal suggestions and not government policy. I still feel that they may be posted at same station but preferably in different offices/ locations.

Yes that may be helpful in case of government sector where they have no work culture and when bothof them will share the same office they would be more busy talking personal affairs.

Working Women, can reduce the pressure of financial crises in the family. Women becomes little independent.

It is good to work for a wife to help their husband financially.But some times they fail to fulfill their duty.The duty towards their home .

Differences of opinion may create big problems between both husband and wife. They should try to remove the differences in opinions.

I never preferred a working wife as I knew it kids have to suffer a lot when both parents are working :blink: .Though after marriage I gave my wife a freedom to do a job through her abilities she found a job as a customer care executive in IDEA CELLULAR she did it for 2 years before the birth of my kids as we had planned it but suddenly she understood it that call centers jobs are not meant for girls who are not broad minded so she left the job and joined a job as an executive in Just dial yellow pages but after working there for just 1 month she realized it that she is not fit for job in corporate world and she should take up with house hold responsibilities or should try for a teaching job and soon after this episode we had kids so she never asked me for the job even after my kids have become of 4 years.But sometimes she feels that she should have a job though a teaching job but still I never stopped her for not searching job but she knows it how difficult would be a life now if we both start doing job so she is not trying it now. :)

These days there is greater trend of working wife. These days we may find husband and wife together in a work place. What are the affects of this?

http://in.finance.yahoo.com/photos/how-your-work-spouse-could-be-helping-and-hurting-you-slideshow/

Most important is mutual understanding and giving respect to the job. If wife is working, she can support the family financially, thus utilizing her time more effectively. She can even help her spouse for his activities. But most destructive factor is, a ego. :evil: . Never give space for ego in your relationship

I never preferred a working wife as I knew it kids have to suffer a lot when both parents are working :blink: .Though after marriage I gave my wife a freedom to do a job through her abilities she found a job as a customer care executive in IDEA CELLULAR she did it for 2 years before the birth of my kids as we had planned it but suddenly she understood it that call centers jobs are not meant for girls who are not broad minded so she left the job and joined a job as an executive in Just dial yellow pages but after working there for just 1 month she realized it that she is not fit for job in corporate world and she should take up with house hold responsibilities or should try for a teaching job and soon after this episode we had kids so she never asked me for the job even after my kids have become of 4 years.But sometimes she feels that she should have a job though a teaching job but still I never stopped her for not searching job but she knows it how difficult would be a life now if we both start doing job so she is not trying it now. :)

But sanjeev,
When your kids will become 5 years old, she can search for a job. Everything will come into adjust. Also, your parents are along with you. So, even if she can't return before 6, they can look after them for 2 hours