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Gulshan Kumar Ajmani replied to the topic what is unfriendly on Facebook .
Posting personal details is also acceptable when you have mainly only family members as friends. In such case,facebook could be a very useful tool of interaction among family members. But it is no use posting personal events when you have hundreds of friends.
10 years ago
Gulshan Kumar Ajmani replied to the topic Indo Pak Relationship.
Unification of India, Pakistan and Bangladeshis a good idea. Butunificationcannot be on basis of Hindu Rashtraor Islamik state. If religion could be basis of nation, Bangladesh would not come in existence. Raligion is notonly basis of nation. Language, etnic entity, cultural differencesall matter. There can be unity only when diversity is respected. Itis funny to get the suggestionthat thereshould be same law for all. Criminal and civil law is already same. It is only personal law relating to marriage and succession that is different for Hindus, Musloms and Christians. Even Hindus don't have uniform personallaw. There is Dayabhag in Bengal and Assam whereas Mitakshara prevails in rest of country. Besidesmany tribes have different personal law. Although unification is not feasible, it may be practicable for the time being to form a Federatioin of India, Pakistan and Bangladesh. SARC organization could be considered a step in this direction. Complete unification may also be possiblein distant future.
10 years ago
usha manohar replied to the topic Indo Pak Relationship.
If we wish for development of all, we need to ensure uniform policies for all at par. If we can not do it, why did we accept the partition in 1947?
When we got Independence in 1947, things were far different and I doubt if anyone could look ahead and see the future developments at that time.Partition was an outcome of many different aspects and in a way it was a good thing because of the simmering discontent that was there. But I am all for a uniform civil code which would definitely help all communities but our psudo secular parties will find a way to find fault with it..
10 years ago
usha manohar replied to the topic what is unfriendly on Facebook .
Facebook is a social site meant for interacting , so one cannot expect any intellectual activities there although you have that too depending on the members.However, anything done in excess becomes counter productive. Some of my own friends go over board with their pictures and personal details, where they are going, what they are eating , in fact you know when they check into an airport or a hotel...Of course it is their choice , more than anything else they are being reckless by giving out such precise details ..
10 years ago
usha manohar said thank you to Kalyani Nandurkar for his/her reply to the topic Choice of profession.
Shampa Sadhya wrote:
I read very carefully and keep my calm too while posting my reply. Thanks for your suggestion given as always in a rude manner. Neither I am interested in polluting the atmosphere of the forum nor want to exchange negative vibes with you. My first experience with you was bad and so I reacted but I am here to write and not to have arguments with you. Good luck!
I have read all of the comments and posts and have not found Usha being rude at any point except she has just candidly put forth her observations, whereas you have accused her straight away. she has only been trying to help you, maybe the first time she did was abrupt but she has never been intentionally rude or negative. So I suggest to you to kindly refrain from making such bold accusations henceforth. It is my sincere request to you.
10 years ago
Shampa Sadhya replied to the topic Choice of profession.
@Kalyani Nandurkar As you have said that first time she was abrupt and that is what I mentioned, it was not a correct way for a senior member to guide any new member. I have no problem with her straight forwardness but her representation hurts. That's a simple point I have mentioned. You noticed one word 'rude' but her implied meaning is not encouraging for the new member when she writes 'I will go on doing it in my way'. Still, earlier I have mentioned it very clearly that I am not here to start any argument and was not at all keen to write about it any more. Now, after your request there is obviously no reason to continue this discussion further. Thanks.
10 years ago
Kalyani Nandurkar said thank you to usha manohar for his/her reply to the topic Scientists and film personalities follow writers .
chinmoymukherjee wrote:
Now a few words about Modi. Before he took office as PM there was sustained villification campaign against him led by Sonia who considers herself as the Supreme Arbiter of this nation and lustily joined in by motley bands of political parties and dubious intellectuals overlooking and disrespecting the facts that no court of this land has found even a shred of evidence against Modi's involvement in Gujarat riots.My own take is that certain things go beyond court and court verdicts and Modi would be judged by history.But why do we see the continuation of this campaign when electorate gave their verdict? Sonia Gandhi is planning a march to Rastrapati Bhavan for this atmosphere of intolerance! How dishonest one can get!Has she sacked Sitramaiah before that? Truth is in her bid to foist her worthless son on this gullible nation she would stop at nothing! O Shame,Where is Thy Blush!!
Right from day one after they lost power Congress has adapted attack policy rather than analyse their own mistakes. A typical case of pointing a finger at others without realising there are three pointed towards them. Sonia Gandhi is a very cunning and manipulative politician who has done everything possible to stay in power and control ...Now they will try everything possible to show Modi and BJP in a bad light !
10 years ago
Kalyani Nandurkar replied to the topic Choice of profession.
Shampa Sadhya wrote:
I read very carefully and keep my calm too while posting my reply. Thanks for your suggestion given as always in a rude manner. Neither I am interested in polluting the atmosphere of the forum nor want to exchange negative vibes with you. My first experience with you was bad and so I reacted but I am here to write and not to have arguments with you. Good luck!
I have read all of the comments and posts and have not found Usha being rude at any point except she has just candidly put forth her observations, whereas you have accused her straight away. she has only been trying to help you, maybe the first time she did was abrupt but she has never been intentionally rude or negative. So I suggest to you to kindly refrain from making such bold accusations henceforth. It is my sincere request to you.
10 years ago
rambabu replied to the topic Indo Pak Relationship.
I agree with you. Our policies are not uniform and they are partisan in nature. There is a great divide between rich and the poor. People are segregated according to the castes. This is Divide and rule which will not be in tune with the very policy of " Democracy"
10 years ago
rambabu replied to the topic Karva chauth celebrations in India..
anil wrote:
Shampa Sadhya wrote:
In North India during Makar Sankranti a festival is observed known as Lohri. This relates to Shiva and Parvati too. I am not sure that the couples keep fast or not but at night they lit a fireplace and celebration takes place around it.
Lohri is famous festival of Punjab and adjoining area of Punjab. Lohri is not popular in whole North India. People don't don't keep fast on Lohri. Makar Sankrnti is celebrated on 13 or 14 January and Lohri is celebrated before one day of Makar Sakranti.
In my state AP, on Sankranti day also known as Bhogi, All the people in the locality sit around a bonfire. on the third day, there will be a host of non vegetarian dishes.
10 years ago
rambabu replied to the topic Petition in SC to ban Santa Banta jokes.
anil wrote:
rambabu wrote:
Khushwant , no doubt is an atheist. He made it clear about his Atheism on many occasions through his columns.Coming back to the subject, Sardar Jokes are mere jokes without any harm. Khushwant Singh always used to say that Indians relish jokes on others. But not not the jokes on themselves.
If people will starts objection on jokes than it is not possible for any one to write jokes. Here in local paper names of character of jokes are Surja and Nathu, In coming it may be possible that person who's name is Surja and Nathu file a petition. It is better to check the intention of the person.
True. Humor and jokes sans any ill and with the intention of evoking only laughter is always welcome and the people should be able to laugh freely. If it's otherwise, these jokes should be banned.
10 years ago
anil replied to the topic Karva chauth celebrations in India..
rambabu wrote:
anil wrote:
Shampa Sadhya wrote:
In North India during Makar Sankranti a festival is observed known as Lohri. This relates to Shiva and Parvati too. I am not sure that the couples keep fast or not but at night they lit a fireplace and celebration takes place around it.
Lohri is famous festival of Punjab and adjoining area of Punjab. Lohri is not popular in whole North India. People don't don't keep fast on Lohri. Makar Sankrnti is celebrated on 13 or 14 January and Lohri is celebrated before one day of Makar Sakranti.
In South India, Sankranti is celebrated in a different way for four days. It symolizes a new beginning. All wear new clothes on this day and sit before a Bonfire. This day is called Bhogi.
Camp fire is also tradition of Lohri. We sit before it and eat ground nut and chikkies. Festival is only to enjoy what is difference it is of North, South, East or West. Enjoy these.
10 years ago
anil replied to the topic The Oldest Person eats bacon daily.
It is exception, using tobacco may be cause of cancer. If some claimed that I am using tobacco for 50 years and I have not problem of cancer. In this case situation can we declare that using tobacco is good for health. No one compete with fresh food.
10 years ago
rambabu replied to the topic Karva chauth celebrations in India..
anil wrote:
Shampa Sadhya wrote:
In North India during Makar Sankranti a festival is observed known as Lohri. This relates to Shiva and Parvati too. I am not sure that the couples keep fast or not but at night they lit a fireplace and celebration takes place around it.
Lohri is famous festival of Punjab and adjoining area of Punjab. Lohri is not popular in whole North India. People don't don't keep fast on Lohri. Makar Sankrnti is celebrated on 13 or 14 January and Lohri is celebrated before one day of Makar Sakranti.
In South India, Sankranti is celebrated in a different way for four days. It symolizes a new beginning. All wear new clothes on this day and sit before a Bonfire. This day is called Bhogi.
10 years ago
anil replied to the topic Birthday of Sardar Patel and death anniversary Of Indira Gandhi .
rambabu wrote:
Run for unity creates a sense of Unity in the people. If the Birth day observing is about that Great person who has done immense service to the nation, there is no point in seeing negativity.Let's be realistic and see the things in the real perspective.
I think it is enough that thousands people come together for Run for Unity.
10 years ago
usha manohar replied to the topic Choice of profession.
@ Rambabu why make two similar posts with the same content ?
In today's scenario there are many career guidance seminars conducted by many groups and this can help or at times confuse the students from what I have seen, because of the varied choices. They are not sure which suits them best....This is how many of them think of changing their profession after a while..
10 years ago
anil liked a reply to the topic Birthday of Sardar Patel and death anniversary Of Indira Gandhi .
10 years ago
usha manohar replied to the topic Scientists and film personalities follow writers .
anil wrote:
rambabu wrote:
It indicates how desperate is the Congress to come back to power. But people are wise. As in the early times, people are not in a mood to pay attention the wily ways of congress. It has been completely erased from the minds of the people.
Not only congress all parties who are not is power is restless to come in power. I am not in favor that people forgot congress. For healthy democracy strong opposition is necessary. Congress and BJP both are national level parties. All other parties are traders.
True, a good opposition party is essential in a democracy but what we have is an opposition that is like a wounded tiger hitting out at anything and everyone in the ruling party with no rhyme or reason. This has made sure that country's progress has been brought to a standstill and thats what they want..
10 years ago
anil replied to the topic Karva chauth celebrations in India..
Shampa Sadhya wrote:
In North India during Makar Sankranti a festival is observed known as Lohri. This relates to Shiva and Parvati too. I am not sure that the couples keep fast or not but at night they lit a fireplace and celebration takes place around it.
Lohri is famous festival of Punjab and adjoining area of Punjab. Lohri is not popular in whole North India. People don't don't keep fast on Lohri. Makar Sankrnti is celebrated on 13 or 14 January and Lohri is celebrated before one day of Makar Sakranti.
10 years ago
rambabu replied to the topic Scientists and film personalities follow writers .
anil wrote:
rambabu wrote:
It indicates how desperate is the Congress to come back to power. But people are wise. As in the early times, people are not in a mood to pay attention the wily ways of congress. It has been completely erased from the minds of the people.
Not only congress all parties who are not is power is restless to come in power. I am not in favor that people forgot congress. For healthy democracy strong opposition is necessary. Congress and BJP both are national level parties. All other parties are traders.
Poor congress. I pity it. People are well aware of its past sins. It's desperation to come come back to power is a futile exercise. No use Congress has to remain in the opposition
10 years ago
Gulshan Kumar Ajmani replied to the topic what is unfriendly on Facebook .
Posting personal details is also acceptable when you have mainly only family members as friends. In such case,facebook could be a very useful tool of interaction among family members. But it is no use posting personal events when you have hundreds of friends.
10 years ago
Gulshan Kumar Ajmani replied to the topic Indo Pak Relationship.
Unification of India, Pakistan and Bangladeshis a good idea. Butunificationcannot be on basis of Hindu Rashtraor Islamik state. If religion could be basis of nation, Bangladesh would not come in existence. Raligion is notonly basis of nation. Language, etnic entity, cultural differencesall matter. There can be unity only when diversity is respected. Itis funny to get the suggestionthat thereshould be same law for all. Criminal and civil law is already same. It is only personal law relating to marriage and succession that is different for Hindus, Musloms and Christians. Even Hindus don't have uniform personallaw. There is Dayabhag in Bengal and Assam whereas Mitakshara prevails in rest of country. Besidesmany tribes have different personal law. Although unification is not feasible, it may be practicable for the time being to form a Federatioin of India, Pakistan and Bangladesh. SARC organization could be considered a step in this direction. Complete unification may also be possiblein distant future.
10 years ago
usha manohar replied to the topic Indo Pak Relationship.
If we wish for development of all, we need to ensure uniform policies for all at par. If we can not do it, why did we accept the partition in 1947?
When we got Independence in 1947, things were far different and I doubt if anyone could look ahead and see the future developments at that time.Partition was an outcome of many different aspects and in a way it was a good thing because of the simmering discontent that was there. But I am all for a uniform civil code which would definitely help all communities but our psudo secular parties will find a way to find fault with it..
10 years ago
usha manohar replied to the topic what is unfriendly on Facebook .
Facebook is a social site meant for interacting , so one cannot expect any intellectual activities there although you have that too depending on the members.However, anything done in excess becomes counter productive. Some of my own friends go over board with their pictures and personal details, where they are going, what they are eating , in fact you know when they check into an airport or a hotel...Of course it is their choice , more than anything else they are being reckless by giving out such precise details ..
10 years ago
usha manohar said thank you to Kalyani Nandurkar for his/her reply to the topic Choice of profession.
Shampa Sadhya wrote:
I read very carefully and keep my calm too while posting my reply. Thanks for your suggestion given as always in a rude manner. Neither I am interested in polluting the atmosphere of the forum nor want to exchange negative vibes with you. My first experience with you was bad and so I reacted but I am here to write and not to have arguments with you. Good luck!
I have read all of the comments and posts and have not found Usha being rude at any point except she has just candidly put forth her observations, whereas you have accused her straight away. she has only been trying to help you, maybe the first time she did was abrupt but she has never been intentionally rude or negative. So I suggest to you to kindly refrain from making such bold accusations henceforth. It is my sincere request to you.
10 years ago
Shampa Sadhya replied to the topic Choice of profession.
@Kalyani Nandurkar As you have said that first time she was abrupt and that is what I mentioned, it was not a correct way for a senior member to guide any new member. I have no problem with her straight forwardness but her representation hurts. That's a simple point I have mentioned. You noticed one word 'rude' but her implied meaning is not encouraging for the new member when she writes 'I will go on doing it in my way'. Still, earlier I have mentioned it very clearly that I am not here to start any argument and was not at all keen to write about it any more. Now, after your request there is obviously no reason to continue this discussion further. Thanks.
10 years ago
Kalyani Nandurkar said thank you to usha manohar for his/her reply to the topic Scientists and film personalities follow writers .
chinmoymukherjee wrote:
Now a few words about Modi. Before he took office as PM there was sustained villification campaign against him led by Sonia who considers herself as the Supreme Arbiter of this nation and lustily joined in by motley bands of political parties and dubious intellectuals overlooking and disrespecting the facts that no court of this land has found even a shred of evidence against Modi's involvement in Gujarat riots.My own take is that certain things go beyond court and court verdicts and Modi would be judged by history.But why do we see the continuation of this campaign when electorate gave their verdict? Sonia Gandhi is planning a march to Rastrapati Bhavan for this atmosphere of intolerance! How dishonest one can get!Has she sacked Sitramaiah before that? Truth is in her bid to foist her worthless son on this gullible nation she would stop at nothing! O Shame,Where is Thy Blush!!
Right from day one after they lost power Congress has adapted attack policy rather than analyse their own mistakes. A typical case of pointing a finger at others without realising there are three pointed towards them. Sonia Gandhi is a very cunning and manipulative politician who has done everything possible to stay in power and control ...Now they will try everything possible to show Modi and BJP in a bad light !
10 years ago
Kalyani Nandurkar replied to the topic Choice of profession.
Shampa Sadhya wrote:
I read very carefully and keep my calm too while posting my reply. Thanks for your suggestion given as always in a rude manner. Neither I am interested in polluting the atmosphere of the forum nor want to exchange negative vibes with you. My first experience with you was bad and so I reacted but I am here to write and not to have arguments with you. Good luck!
I have read all of the comments and posts and have not found Usha being rude at any point except she has just candidly put forth her observations, whereas you have accused her straight away. she has only been trying to help you, maybe the first time she did was abrupt but she has never been intentionally rude or negative. So I suggest to you to kindly refrain from making such bold accusations henceforth. It is my sincere request to you.
10 years ago
rambabu replied to the topic Indo Pak Relationship.
I agree with you. Our policies are not uniform and they are partisan in nature. There is a great divide between rich and the poor. People are segregated according to the castes. This is Divide and rule which will not be in tune with the very policy of " Democracy"
10 years ago
rambabu replied to the topic Karva chauth celebrations in India..
anil wrote:
Shampa Sadhya wrote:
In North India during Makar Sankranti a festival is observed known as Lohri. This relates to Shiva and Parvati too. I am not sure that the couples keep fast or not but at night they lit a fireplace and celebration takes place around it.
Lohri is famous festival of Punjab and adjoining area of Punjab. Lohri is not popular in whole North India. People don't don't keep fast on Lohri. Makar Sankrnti is celebrated on 13 or 14 January and Lohri is celebrated before one day of Makar Sakranti.
In my state AP, on Sankranti day also known as Bhogi, All the people in the locality sit around a bonfire. on the third day, there will be a host of non vegetarian dishes.
10 years ago
rambabu replied to the topic Petition in SC to ban Santa Banta jokes.
anil wrote:
rambabu wrote:
Khushwant , no doubt is an atheist. He made it clear about his Atheism on many occasions through his columns.Coming back to the subject, Sardar Jokes are mere jokes without any harm. Khushwant Singh always used to say that Indians relish jokes on others. But not not the jokes on themselves.
If people will starts objection on jokes than it is not possible for any one to write jokes. Here in local paper names of character of jokes are Surja and Nathu, In coming it may be possible that person who's name is Surja and Nathu file a petition. It is better to check the intention of the person.
True. Humor and jokes sans any ill and with the intention of evoking only laughter is always welcome and the people should be able to laugh freely. If it's otherwise, these jokes should be banned.
10 years ago
anil replied to the topic Karva chauth celebrations in India..
rambabu wrote:
anil wrote:
Shampa Sadhya wrote:
In North India during Makar Sankranti a festival is observed known as Lohri. This relates to Shiva and Parvati too. I am not sure that the couples keep fast or not but at night they lit a fireplace and celebration takes place around it.
Lohri is famous festival of Punjab and adjoining area of Punjab. Lohri is not popular in whole North India. People don't don't keep fast on Lohri. Makar Sankrnti is celebrated on 13 or 14 January and Lohri is celebrated before one day of Makar Sakranti.
In South India, Sankranti is celebrated in a different way for four days. It symolizes a new beginning. All wear new clothes on this day and sit before a Bonfire. This day is called Bhogi.
Camp fire is also tradition of Lohri. We sit before it and eat ground nut and chikkies. Festival is only to enjoy what is difference it is of North, South, East or West. Enjoy these.
10 years ago
anil replied to the topic The Oldest Person eats bacon daily.
It is exception, using tobacco may be cause of cancer. If some claimed that I am using tobacco for 50 years and I have not problem of cancer. In this case situation can we declare that using tobacco is good for health. No one compete with fresh food.
10 years ago
rambabu replied to the topic Karva chauth celebrations in India..
anil wrote:
Shampa Sadhya wrote:
In North India during Makar Sankranti a festival is observed known as Lohri. This relates to Shiva and Parvati too. I am not sure that the couples keep fast or not but at night they lit a fireplace and celebration takes place around it.
Lohri is famous festival of Punjab and adjoining area of Punjab. Lohri is not popular in whole North India. People don't don't keep fast on Lohri. Makar Sankrnti is celebrated on 13 or 14 January and Lohri is celebrated before one day of Makar Sakranti.
In South India, Sankranti is celebrated in a different way for four days. It symolizes a new beginning. All wear new clothes on this day and sit before a Bonfire. This day is called Bhogi.
10 years ago
anil replied to the topic Birthday of Sardar Patel and death anniversary Of Indira Gandhi .
rambabu wrote:
Run for unity creates a sense of Unity in the people. If the Birth day observing is about that Great person who has done immense service to the nation, there is no point in seeing negativity.Let's be realistic and see the things in the real perspective.
I think it is enough that thousands people come together for Run for Unity.
10 years ago
usha manohar replied to the topic Choice of profession.
@ Rambabu why make two similar posts with the same content ?
In today's scenario there are many career guidance seminars conducted by many groups and this can help or at times confuse the students from what I have seen, because of the varied choices. They are not sure which suits them best....This is how many of them think of changing their profession after a while..
10 years ago
anil liked a reply to the topic Birthday of Sardar Patel and death anniversary Of Indira Gandhi .
10 years ago
usha manohar replied to the topic Scientists and film personalities follow writers .
anil wrote:
rambabu wrote:
It indicates how desperate is the Congress to come back to power. But people are wise. As in the early times, people are not in a mood to pay attention the wily ways of congress. It has been completely erased from the minds of the people.
Not only congress all parties who are not is power is restless to come in power. I am not in favor that people forgot congress. For healthy democracy strong opposition is necessary. Congress and BJP both are national level parties. All other parties are traders.
True, a good opposition party is essential in a democracy but what we have is an opposition that is like a wounded tiger hitting out at anything and everyone in the ruling party with no rhyme or reason. This has made sure that country's progress has been brought to a standstill and thats what they want..
10 years ago
anil replied to the topic Karva chauth celebrations in India..
Shampa Sadhya wrote:
In North India during Makar Sankranti a festival is observed known as Lohri. This relates to Shiva and Parvati too. I am not sure that the couples keep fast or not but at night they lit a fireplace and celebration takes place around it.
Lohri is famous festival of Punjab and adjoining area of Punjab. Lohri is not popular in whole North India. People don't don't keep fast on Lohri. Makar Sankrnti is celebrated on 13 or 14 January and Lohri is celebrated before one day of Makar Sakranti.
10 years ago
rambabu replied to the topic Scientists and film personalities follow writers .
anil wrote:
rambabu wrote:
It indicates how desperate is the Congress to come back to power. But people are wise. As in the early times, people are not in a mood to pay attention the wily ways of congress. It has been completely erased from the minds of the people.
Not only congress all parties who are not is power is restless to come in power. I am not in favor that people forgot congress. For healthy democracy strong opposition is necessary. Congress and BJP both are national level parties. All other parties are traders.
Poor congress. I pity it. People are well aware of its past sins. It's desperation to come come back to power is a futile exercise. No use Congress has to remain in the opposition
10 years ago