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More links on JNU issue.  The accused had to be brought to court disguised as a police person with bullet proof jacket and helmet. More news are coming of fabricating evidence.  ttp://www.huffingtonpost.in/2016/02/25/jnu-row-bjp_n_9315998.html http://www.hindustantimes.com/india/jnusu-prez-kanhaiya-camouflaged-in-anti-riot-gear-to-dodge-lawyers/story-L1xAbONs2JPuO71z8egOzL.html  
9 years ago
I agree that population control should be done consistently regardless of religion, only then can it be effective... Christian families too tended to be very large although , now they are aware of the practical difficulties of having too many children and have consciously been bringing down the size of their families which is a good size...The educated muslims too have realised the advantage small family gives them but it is a different matter in villages and in uneducated families
9 years ago
Kalyani Nandurkar wrote: usha manohar wrote: That is really nice Kalyani, was it from Sweta Shenoy ? moderator and one of the older members here ? Yes, Usha it is Swetha Shenoy, it was my birthday yesterday so she remembered and sent it in advance. This indicates deep emotional attachment among Boddunan users. Sweta Shenoy was once very active member. It gives me pleasure to note her gesture of sending gift to Kalyani, our esteemed senior member.   
9 years ago
This is a forum where members discuss things openly, not a secret organisation ...When you make a mistake you should have the grace to accept rather than deny and say you have never done it, however, I appreciate Babu for having admitted and also being a new member it is understandable that he may not have known what constitutes to spam here !
9 years ago
9 years ago
Jincy Aby wrote:  Thanks to moderators for mentioning this matter here. All active members of this site are trying to increase their points maximum. Giving like is an easiest way to earn points. If I like the postings of others, I always click the like button. In facebook also I always click on the like button to encourage others. Giving like to others post is considered as spam, I am also going to reduce this activity of mine. yeah yesterday only i came to know that liking each and every post is consider as spam and as the moderators said me, i stopped doing that and i have concentrated more writing rather than just liking the comments. my suggestion to the editors and moderators is that if they think that a particular member is misusing or doing something wrong then they should convey it to that member first by sending him/her e-mails. and if then also he/she is continuing to do that then the editors and moderators should comment on any others post.  
9 years ago
Jincy Aby wrote:  Thanks to moderators for mentioning this matter here. All active members of this site are trying to increase their points maximum. Giving like is an easiest way to earn points. If I like the postings of others, I always click the like button. In facebook also I always click on the like button to encourage others. Giving like to others post is considered as spam, I am also going to reduce this activity of mine. Jincy, clicking on Like button if you really like a post or that post is really something that should be applauded., there is no harm in clicking Like. But here, the issue was raised because the member was clicking like on each and every post in each and every thread. Do you digest the fact that each and every post here must be likeable?
9 years ago
 Thanks to moderators for mentioning this matter here. All active members of this site are trying to increase their points maximum. Giving like is an easiest way to earn points. If I like the postings of others, I always click the like button. In facebook also I always click on the like button to encourage others. Giving like to others post is considered as spam, I am also going to reduce this activity of mine.
9 years ago
Kalyani Nandurkar wrote: Babu saroj wrote: Kalyani Nandurkar wrote: Babu saroj wrote: rambabu wrote: I agree with you Sunil. As far as I'm concerned, I always click the Like button for the reasons i mentioned above. I also agree with you, our Mail Boxes are filled with unreasonable mails which disgusts me. Sir just end the topic, comment on the subject of the post  This particular topic is now closed so please get back to the original topic, so far if you have learned anything from it, no issues. However, if you do it again, be ready to face the bullies (SIC) are you threatening me just because you are editor of this site. i am very poor sir if you suspend my account then i have to search for new online job, that's why i am not saying anything, i am sorry sir please forgive me for my deed.  Don't be so melodramatic, no one is threatening you and why do you keep calling me sir? I am a lady for heaven's sake, if you cannot even make that out from the way people address me or refer to me here, you have a lot to learn. Or may be our esteemed professor can help you with that! you are woman today i came to know. i am sorry actually in my every comment which i have commented on you i have called you sir because i thought that you are man. i am really sorry i hope you don't mind. sorry, one more thing if in future if i did something wrong please convey it to me first rather than commenting on anyone's post my email-id is bsaroj2015@gmail.com. this is for all members and especially to editor. email me i will try every possibility to rectify my mistakes    
9 years ago
Indeed a good sign but still the efforts to control population must be made more vigorous especially among people who are economically backward and Muslim communities where they still consider that birth control measures mean going against the will of god and give birth to more children than they can afford to feed, educate and clothe properly.,
9 years ago
Kalyani Nandurkar said thank you to Gulshan Kumar Ajmani for his/her reply to the topic Dowry and alimony.
Dowry is the amount paid for fixing marriage. This is unlawful and immoral. alimony is not paid for fixing marriage. This is paid as compensation for breaking marriage. No comparison. 
9 years ago
Kalyani Nandurkar said thank you to usha manohar for his/her reply to the topic Dowry and alimony.
by Ashish If demanding dowry is a crime then demanding alimony is womens rights how it is possible???? If dowry is a crime then alimony also must be a crime   There is absolutely no right to alimony since even a deserving totally dependent wife who has no career and money of her own, worked like a slave for the welfare and upkeep of her family, has to fight it out at the family court which is most of the time prejudiced against the women of our country and our Indian men never complain but lord it up when the wife works free of cost giving her all to the family but question her right for maintenance when things go wrong and the poor woman is literally on the street ..
9 years ago
Babu saroj wrote: Kalyani Nandurkar wrote: Babu saroj wrote: rambabu wrote: I agree with you Sunil. As far as I'm concerned, I always click the Like button for the reasons i mentioned above. I also agree with you, our Mail Boxes are filled with unreasonable mails which disgusts me. Sir just end the topic, comment on the subject of the post  This particular topic is now closed so please get back to the original topic, so far if you have learned anything from it, no issues. However, if you do it again, be ready to face the bullies (SIC) are you threatening me just because you are editor of this site. i am very poor sir if you suspend my account then i have to search for new online job, that's why i am not saying anything, i am sorry sir please forgive me for my deed.    Don't be so melodramatic, no one is threatening you and why do you keep calling me sir? I am a lady for heaven's sake, if you cannot even make that out from the way people address me or refer to me here, you have a lot to learn. Or may be our esteemed professor can help you with that!
9 years ago
Kalyani Nandurkar wrote: Babu saroj wrote: rambabu wrote: I agree with you Sunil. As far as I'm concerned, I always click the Like button for the reasons i mentioned above. I also agree with you, our Mail Boxes are filled with unreasonable mails which disgusts me. Sir just end the topic, comment on the subject of the post  This particular topic is now closed so please get back to the original topic, so far if you have learned anything from it, no issues. However, if you do it again, be ready to face the bullies (SIC) are you threatening me just because you are editor of this site. i am very poor sir if you suspend my account then i have to search for new online job, that's why i am not saying anything, i am sorry sir please forgive me for my deed.   
9 years ago
Shampa Sadhya wrote: Friendship is a very sweet relationship which can develop among two beings when they nurture it with honour and honesty. Pen friendship was also very popular and maybe many such friendships developed quite strong though I have no example to name. I hope that web friendship can also grow very strongly. So true Shampa, once upon a time there used to be many pen friendships but now virtual friendships has taken its place. Forms change but relationships remain the same sort and can grow into long and deep friendships, provided all concerned parties are honest and willing to take it further.
9 years ago
Babu saroj wrote: rambabu wrote: I agree with you Sunil. As far as I'm concerned, I always click the Like button for the reasons i mentioned above. I also agree with you, our Mail Boxes are filled with unreasonable mails which disgusts me. Sir just end the topic, comment on the subject of the post    This particular topic is now closed so please get back to the original topic, so far if you have learned anything from it, no issues. However, if you do it again, be ready to face the bullies (SIC)  
9 years ago
@rambabu thanks for understanding my point, when someone likes my posts (which in most cases are nothing much) I feel like giving him a dislike in return unless I have done some thing really good and deserve that LIKE. If someone is clicking at like button constantly sending mails to my main mail box that diverts my attention.
9 years ago